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Crazy for me!
Okay, i know this is going to sound really comceted, but theres this guy in my school, who really likes me! But i dont like him, and he follows me everywhere, and keeps asking me on dates and stuff, and me being a softie, make up an excuse! Then he asks again and again! But i really don t like him, and all my friends say that im all he talks about, and that he likes me! Hes always coming to my locker to hug me, and puts his arm around me, and i like this other guy and the other guy thinks that i like him and i DONT! its really frustrating! I need advice!
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If a guy is giving you his time, then give him your time! This guy really likes you! At least give him one date. Don't be selfish; even though you don't like him, he likes you! Rejecting him will break his heart, so give him once chance at least. A lot of girls die for a guy falling for them. Give him a try!
DON'T BE SELFISH AND GIVE IT A TRY
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don't lie to him any longer. if he is flirting with you, just be like "ahaha your so funny" but then say "you know we are just frends rite?" keep it casual.
your sitch reminds me of icarly (lol dont diss) because she kisses freddy on the nose and it makes jake think that she likes freddy and not him so he getss back together with his ex, if that makes sense at all.
don't let this guy take advantage of you. tell him to get his arm off you right now or you will never speak again.
the guy you like sounds kinda emo. good lick ;)!
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i totally agree with smileyygirl. I was in your same situation all of my young life only because i didnt want to hurt anybody's feelings but i was hurting my self by not standing up for myself and stating what i did not want. be bold, be kind. tip: it helps to write down and rehearse what you will say and get feedback from your friends or even your mom before you confront this guy this will help weed out negativeness in your words. i hope this helps good luck:)
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Tell him the truth!! Dont keep on making up excuses cause then he will just think that you are relly busy! Just say no I dont want to go out with you, I just want to be friends. (In a nice way.) If you say that then atleast you can just be friends. Now that you got him off your back go flirt with the guy you really like! GOOD LUCK!!
If you ever have any more questions just reach me!
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I had to learn the hard way that you need to be straight forward with guys. They don't get "hints" you need to tell them straight out. Next time he asks you out on a date or puts his arm around you simply say, "Name, I don't mind talking and hanging out with you but I don't think it should go farther"
Learn to be nice, yet affirmative, it's the best way to deal with guys. Good luck :)
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