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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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Does anyone know how to make the hearts. Like some people put it in after they've answered a question. Does anyone know how to do that? Thanks!

Just put & hearts; but put it all together!
♥ Krissy

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is it supposed to hurt when u take out a tampon .. cause when i do it hurts really bad..

No, it's not suppose to hurt. Either your using tampon's too big for you or their too dry. Try finding a tampon that fits you well, because their not suppose to hurt. You could try reading the box too, maybe your doing something wrong.
♥ Krissy

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Ok well I have been getting discharge for a pretty long time (maybe over a year or a year and a half) and I started getting underarm hair around last May. Is this ok? Any ideas when I'll get my period? I want to be prepared for when I do so I can have my feminine needs :) Thank you!

Yah. It's totally normal. But, even though you've been getting dicharge and your turning into a young lady. You might only get your period a year later. Everyone's periods aren't the same and they come in different years of their lifes. But, I'd bring a tampon or pad and keep it in my book bag or around the house, just incase you might start!
♥ Krissy

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Hi i am 17 and female and really quite shy, i would like some advice on how i can tell this guy that i really really love how i feel about him, i already know him and kinda friendly but not as close as i would like it.Help somebody!

If your too shy to do it, you could always write him an e-mail or letter telling him that you like him. If not, you could get his screen name and tell him on there.
♥ Krissy

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Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =]

Well, if he really does care about you like he says he does, he won't make you do anything you don't want to do. If you don't want to do anything sexual with him, he should understand that your not ready. About the hole smoking weed deal, if he doesn't respect your thoughs about it, then he's not a good boyfriend. Maybe you should talk to him about everything and tell him your thoughts about doing sexual stuff and weed. Then, maybe he'll understand. But if he doesn't and he trys to change your thoughts on it and makes you do something you don't want to do, dump him. You can find way better guys out there.
♥ Krissy

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ok well i messed around with this kid (lets call him rob) and well lets just say we ddint go all the way but we had fun.. but anyways i have a boyfriend and another kid that i am suppost to mess with ( im not a hoe ) and i mean this kid rob is like everything to me and i dont think he
really likes me.. how can i tell if he does? and what should i do should i still mess with him?

HELP

First of all hun, if you have a boyfriend, I'd dump him. Because, you've been cheating on him with Rob, so the best thing to do would be to end it now before it gets worse. About Rob, just ask him if he has feelings for you, other then "messing around with you" feelings. Maybe he does, but he doesn't want to say anything about it, because he thinks that you just want to mess around with him. So, if I were you, I'd ask him.
♥ Krissy

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Ok i am monkeygirls friend and I really like this guy, but he won't talk to me. please dont just tell me to back off away from him cuz its not that easy.... ok and then there is this other guy i like but I think he may just be using me for sex please help!!

Whatever you do, do not get with this guy that you think may be using you for sex. That's just wrong and a guy that would do that shouldn't be with anyone. As for this guy you like, maybe you could ask him why he doesn't talk to you. If you didn't do anything wrong to him, he can't just not talk to you or be mad at you for no reason. I think you should just start up a conversation with him and take it from there. If your too scared to ask him why he doesn't talk, maybe write him an e-mail or letter, or get one of your friends to talk to him for you. But, if nothing happens and he really has no interest in you, there's no point in liking him. There is a lot more fish in the sea! Ones that would treat you perfectly.
♥ Krissy

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my boyfriend and i have benn going out for 11 months and he is always saying how much he loves me and stuff but then he hurts me so bad sometimes and he thinks he can like other ppl but im not allowed and i cry almost everytime we get into a fight and he thinks i dont care about him and the person i would think understand this bc shes been with him b4 said i need to move on but i guess thats really not what i wanna hear because i love him so much!!! but i dont think i can trust him cheating on my and playing with my mind but i love him so much!!

What should i do :/

Hun, if you don't got trust in a relationship what do you have? Nothing. I relationship is all about trust and understand. I know it's hard to give up on someone that you've been with for 11 months, but you have to. He treats you poorly. If he really does love you, like he says he does, he wouldn't be treating you like there. There's a lot of other guys out there that are waiting for a girl like you. He doesn't sound like "Mr.Right", so maybe you should break up with him and think things out. Maybe get back on track and find your Mr.Right.
♥ Krissy

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ok well i dont eat anything really... i would say im becoming anerexiox. i know its not good for you but does it mmake you lose weight?

Yes. It does make you lose weight, because you get so hungry that your body just starts eating it's self. That's how you become so slim. It's not heathy at all hun.
♥ Krissy

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I have a girlfriend.I also have an ex.I went to the movies with ex.I still have fellings for my ex.Well any ways I went to the movies with my ex
and two of her friends.I thuogh we was not going to any thing because i have a girlfriend.So i did not do any thing with her for the first 30 mins of the movie.For some reason we started holding hands then 45 mins into the movie we stated to make out and now i have mixed emotions
I want to be with my girlfriend.I love my girlfriend.I also love my ex.now i dont no weather to break up with my girlfriend to go out with my ex or stay with my girlfriend.Please help me

I think you should stay with your girlfriend. If you guys were ment to be, you'd still be with your ex, but your not. Your going to have to get rid of this ex and be 100% faithful to your girlfriend. You should also tell her about you and your ex going to the movies and you cheating on her. She has the right to know.
♥ Krissy

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Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love??

I don't think falling in love really comes with an age. You could be 13 and in love or you could be 55 and in love. Only you can tell what love is. So, I consider it to be, whatever age your at, place or time, you could be in love.
♥ Krissy

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hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this

You could be pregnant. But, you couldn't feel the unborn baby. I think your best bet is to get a test from the store. Then you'll know for sure. Good luck hun.
♥ Krissy

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ok i met this guy off buddypic a while back and hes got a salute and a lot of pictures so i know its him for sure and we talk on the phone and stuff....well he wants to meet me next weekened and hes already talking about fucking me in the car next weekend....hes like oh well have SO much fun....i have a boyfriend though of 5 months...and we promised to NEVER cheat on eachother..and me and my boyfriend havent even fucked..should i do this??

You should definitely not meet him. First, he's talking about fucking you in his car? That shows one thing right there. He probably only wants sex from you. If I were you, I wouldn't risk losing a boyfriend of 5 months over a guy you met off an internet site.
♥ Krissy

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I hardly see my mom and she goes to work at 5:30 in th morning and if I don't say goodbye to her befor she leaves I cry for an hour! I don't usally cry but I have been lately but only if I don't say goodbye to her. What is wrong with me?! Am I a baby or is something else going on with me?Please help me!

You're not a baby at all. You probably just miss having her around. Maybe since you can't say goodbye to her, because she leaves so early, leave her a note. Say your goodbyes and tell her you hope she has a great day. Then great her to write a little something on the bottom. That way, you'll always get to say your goodbyes.
♥ Krissy

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Okay,I'm goin out with this guy.And im starting to get sick of him pickin on me insted of loving me.Like the other day at a game he was like hittin my leg,i know hes just kidding.But its getting on my nerves..

Just tell him straight out, that when he's hitting your leg and such it annoys you. Don't say it in a mean way, so he takes it the wrong way. Say it nicely and try to explain why it bugs you. I'm sure he'll totally understand hun
♥ Krissy

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i was just wonderin... well i just got my period for the first time yesterday and i wanted to know how many pads your supposed to go trough it one day?

It all depends on how heavy or light you go. But your suppose to change them at least every 4 hours. Don't want them stinking up on you
♥ Krissy

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ok, about a week or two ago i was at my friends birthday party. there was about 15 or so people there. we were all in her basement dancing and eating ext. her parents keep all the food on shelves down there and their alcohol too. well a few people decided to put some rum in a few of the soda cans. we hadnt known her parents marked those bottles. we all got busted at about 3 am ish. as soon as i found out her parents knew and they were going to tell our parents i was so upset. i didnt even have any. my parents were talking to me about it because they wanted to know what was going on. i told them that it was all lauras fault and she was drinking alot. it really wasnt but i was very very mad at her because i thought she was going to go out with the guy i like because he likes her and i thought she might like him too. now my parents hate her and im not ever allowed to see her again because they think shes a "bad influence" on me. how do i get my parents to forgive laura and like her again and let me be friends with her again??

Just tell her, what you told them was false. You were only trying to get back at Laura, because you were mad at her. Just tell them the hole story. Even tell them about how you thought Laura might be going out with the guy you like. I'm sure your parents will understand.
♥ Krissy

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he's saying that he DOES have feelings for her.. but he doesn`t like her THAT much.. he says that he really loves me and he wants to make things work.. i just wanna know if it's natural for anyone to have feelings for another person while they`re already in a relationship..?

Well hun, if he really does LOVE you, he shouldn't have feelings for his ex. Because, when you love someone, you don't like other people at the sametime. So, in my point of view, I don't think it's natural. At lease not when you said you love someone, but then like someone else.
♥ Krissy

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well there is this boy in my class lets name him john and for some odd reason he always goes out with everyones best friends and he just went out w/ my bff so im next in line. The only problem is that every1 just went out with him because they knew of wut he was doing which they thought was so retarded but i actually do like him and if my friends no i do they'll prob. laugh so what do i do

It sounds like he's just using all the girls he has been with. Your best bet is to find another guy to crush on. He doesn't sound to be a good boyfriend.
♥ Krissy

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heyy..well like i'm going out with this guy.. but he's still not completely over his ex.. and that girl is sooo flirty.. they talk on the phone every night but he says that he loves me and he only likes her a little bit.. is it natural for young guys to have feelings for someone when they`re already dating someone else? should i stay with him for awhile and see if he still likes her after a week or two.. or should i break up with him now..?

I think you should stay with him. If he's telling you that he doesn't like her, you should be able to trust him. But, if your having feelings, that maybe he still has something for her, maybe you chould go on a break for a little while. Then it'll give him sometime and you sometime to think things out.
♥ Krissy

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