I have a girlfriend.I also have an ex.I went to the movies with ex.I still have fellings for my ex.Well any ways I went to the movies with my ex
and two of her friends.I thuogh we was not going to any thing because i have a girlfriend.So i did not do any thing with her for the first 30 mins of the movie.For some reason we started holding hands then 45 mins into the movie we stated to make out and now i have mixed emotions
I want to be with my girlfriend.I love my girlfriend.I also love my ex.now i dont no weather to break up with my girlfriend to go out with my ex or stay with my girlfriend.Please help me
lilangl1113 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:36 pm: Leave the broken relationship with your ex alone. You shouldn't have gone to the movies w/ her in the first place. If oyu love your other girlfriend think of how much that would hurt her to find that out. No offense, but that was really inconsiderate of you. You say you love her and then you go and start making out w/ nother girl? think out ur actions next time before you do them. :/ ~*AmAnDa*~ [ lilangl1113's advice column | Ask lilangl1113 A Question ]
MissEmmyBoo answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:31 pm: Well for starters, you should NOT have gone to the movies with your ex and secondly need to tell your girlfriend that you cheated on her with your ex-girlfriend. If you love 2 people you don't love either enough<<-good quote!
*Hope I helped!*
~Emmy Boo~ [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
MiLKcarTON08 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 5:58 pm: DID YOUR GIRLFRIEND KNOW YOU WENT TO THE MOVIES WITH YOUR EX?
Yea i'm real sure you love her. If you did, you would do what's right, and tell her it's over right now. It sounds to me that you just don't like you idea of losing your clueless girlfriend. I mean she's therefore you ever AFTER you get done making out with your ex at the movies. Stop thinking about yourself, and do what's best for both of you! Split!
Sorry if this sounds harsh.
I really hope that after you break up with you girlfriend your ex's feelings don't fade. She might of just been attracted to what, "wasn't hers." I dont' know this for certain, but that does happen.
Either way, i think you know what is right thing to do, good luck,
MummuM answered Sunday January 9 2005, 4:23 pm: I think you should stay with your girlfriend. If you guys were ment to be, you'd still be with your ex, but your not. Your going to have to get rid of this ex and be 100% faithful to your girlfriend. You should also tell her about you and your ex going to the movies and you cheating on her. She has the right to know.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
l0stiNth0uGht020 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 2:56 pm: Umm I think you need to tell your girlfriend that you were making out with your ex, first.. and she may dump you, so that would solve your problem. you also need to talk to the ex and she if she was just using you as someone to make out with or if she really does have feelings for you.. and then decide. hope i helped! [ l0stiNth0uGht020's advice column | Ask l0stiNth0uGht020 A Question ]
JadedinNowhere answered Sunday January 9 2005, 4:00 am: hm.. try and make a list of what you like about the both of them. I always do this if I can't choose between two things, people, ideas etc. The person with the more things you like, wins. If that doesn't work, resort to the things you don't like and the person with the most loses. It's a very easy and helpful process. I hope this helps you make the right decision.
also, if your ex realizes you have a girlfriend, she shouldn't tempt you like that anyway.. tell her you can't do anything until you've broken up with your girlfriend if your willing to make that sacrifice. Because if your girlfriend finds out about this.. you can be sure she will be pissed. [ JadedinNowhere's advice column | Ask JadedinNowhere A Question ]
KrYsBaBy answered Sunday January 9 2005, 1:17 am: I'm actually in a sitution sort of like that..only im one of the girls.. your ex girlfriend probably wants you back more than anything and your girlfriend probably never wants to lose you..and you said you love your girlfriend..but if you do love her you wouldnt even have held hands with your ex..and if its not obvious which girl you want to be with then neither of them are right.. [ KrYsBaBy's advice column | Ask KrYsBaBy A Question ]
dancinqueen08 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 9:46 pm: I think you need to let your girlfriend know how you feel and that you made out with your ex. She'll probably then break up with you and then you can go out with your ex. If she's kind and doesn't break up with you, then you have to really think about if it is fair to put your girlfriend through a relationship where you are not completely devoted to her. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
angel411 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 7:58 pm: Well you need to tell your girlfriend what happened before she finds out about it from someone else. And if you think she won't... think again. Then it's her choice whether she wants to stay with you but first you need to know what you want. You can't have feelings for them both because one will get hurt. You need to tell your girlfriend the truth, though. That you made out with her and you still kind of like her. Of course, your gf might not want to be with you but then at least you can be with your ex. Cheating is a complicated thing and I suggest you think about that next time you cheat. My long term ex bf cheated on me and broke my heart so I don't have a lot of patience with cheating. I'm sry if this didn't help much. But I think you know what to do. ♥ [ angel411's advice column | Ask angel411 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 7:43 pm: Don't go out with your ex. If I was your gf and you went out with her, I'd be like, heartbroken. Just stay with your gf. And maybe, later on, if you break up with her, you can go out with your ex, but not right now. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
jerkoperko answered Saturday January 8 2005, 7:31 pm: well let them decide for you tell your girlfriend about what happened if she breaks up with you then its not ment to be and then get w/ ur ex [ jerkoperko's advice column | Ask jerkoperko A Question ]
kitty_kat123 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 7:30 pm: You really want my opinion? O.K. Here's what I think. I think you need to stay with your girlfriend. You love her and you have to get away from your ex. Thats why you guys broke up. Because you WANTED to see other people or something like that and you WANT to be with someone new. Now you are and you want to blow it. I say: Stay with your girlfriebd. You and your ex are through, remember? Yall broke up. You and your girlfriend still have time together to spend. Don't blow it. Forget about making out with your ex. DON'T TELL YOUR GF! HOPE I HELPED! BEST OF LUCK!
~~~Kayla~~~ [ kitty_kat123's advice column | Ask kitty_kat123 A Question ]
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