My boyfriend keeps asking me 2 give him a hand job. I tell him maybe later, or make up another excuse. But the truth is I've never given one. My question is how do I give a hand job? And how would I know if he's enjoying it?
Well um he'll probably help you out with the whole thing and tell him you've never done that before..i mean he cant really say anything.. hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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I love to masturbate, I can't stop, and I don't know what to do..should I try stopping? Is it okay to be "turned on" all the time? At least twice a day...im 16
Well i guess its okay..your jus a horny person.. i guess if you aint gettin none from somebody its okay.. better you keepin that to yourself i think tho.. but i guess if it makes you feel good and you aint runnin around wit mutiple people it makes it more okay..but hope i helped and answered your question..~*DEZ*~
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I haven't gotten a boyfriend yet (kinda sad, i know) and i don't know what im doing wrong. What do guys look for in a girl? Any tips?
Well most guys i know look for a girl thats attrative.. and they wanna good personality.. but im sure yal find somebody soon dont give up and jus wait..~*DEZ*~
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i'm 13/f and i weigh 115, but i really want to lose 15 lbs. I'm not sure if it's like unhealthy because ive never used them and don't know anyone who has. I know diet pills aren't healthy and don't work, but are diet patches the same way? and how would i be able to get them, cuse i can't just ask my parents to buy me diet patches, they deffinatly wouldn't do that. and i don't want to use them if it's not compleatly safe. help please? thanks -*jeanine
You should do the normal thing and work out..and 115 isnt alot of weight..but i dont know nothing about the patches but i think you should jus work out..~*DEZ*~
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I HATE MY MOMS BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Every one thinks hes soooooooooo nice but theres just something about him i dont like hes hespanic but my boyfriend is hespanic so im not against hespanics and he was my moms teenage love. I just dont get it i hate him and i told my mom but shes like o shut up u never do anything for me. And that really hurt me. Im crying every night and i cant live with my dad cuz he is always traveling and i feel like dieing. She doesnt get it and my mom was always nice to me but now since she has been dating this guy. She is totally agaisnt me. Its not fair. He claims to "care" for me and my brother but i dont think its true. He thinks that my mom is going to marry him and she said it isnt true but i dont trust her. PLEASE HELP!!! I will rate 5
Well.. i feel the same way about my step dad..but i know exactly why i dislike him..you dont really have a reason why you dont like him..but my mom acted different when she got wit my step dad and it pissed me off cause sometimes she acted real geeky or something..but this is how i looked at it if he makes your mom happy jus try your best to get along with him..sorry if i didnt help much..~*DEZ*~
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I'm 13/f from Florida. I have really curly hair and the humidity doesn't help. I hate my hair and it seems like I have NO self confidence because I can never do cute hairstyles like girls with straight hair. This really bugs me and makes it hard. Does anyone know of any cute hairstyles for curly hair that are easy to do and won't leave my hair frizzy and poofy?
I will rate high for those who answer this because I desperately need help!
xOx
My little sister has really really curly hair to and has a hard time styling it too..but i usually put her hair in twisties but i condition it really good before and do her hair whild its wet.. but i hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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My family believes very strongly about lots of things. One of those things is legal marajuana. They think if somebody in the USA wants to smoke pot, let them. Pretty much everybody in my family smokes pot except for me. I'm 15 years old. I think they're wrong. I don't think pot should be legal because it makes people do stupid things. But so does beer and other alchaholic drinks. But they're legal. So I think maybe they should not allow alchahol or pot. I'd like to point this out to my family but I don't want lectures. What should I do?
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Let em do what they want..jus dont follow in their footsteps if you don't want to..cause you sayin something might not do much they probably wont care bout what you say..they'll probably continue doin what they want..and even if you do tell em they'll probably jus end up doin it behind your back anyways..~*DEZ*~
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ok me n my bf started making out last week and hes the first guy iv made out with and i think i might be his first too so anyways all weve done is liek frenching and iv nibbled his neck and hes bitten my nose... but thats it.. what else should we do? if u hav any liek tips... plz tell me!
Well kiss his neck and rub on his body while you kiss him..and rub like on the back of his neck while you kiss him..hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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okay i am tring to find color pulse mouse made by loreal paris and i cant find it anywhere! do any of you know where to get it?
thanks (i rate high)
haleigh
I would try walmart...or target..or an grocery store that sells hair products..or i would go to a hair stylist and ask
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Okay, this may sound really stupid, but I'm serious about asking this question. I'm a girl, I'm thirteen, weigh 105 pounds and I'm 5 foot seven. I'm so tall, and I HATE it! I wish I could stop growing! No offense to tall females, but I think that tall isn't really that flattering for me. My mom is always complimenting me on how tall I am, and I hate it so much! I don't want to be tall! She won't even let me drink coffee to stunt my growth! My doctor said that I might even grow to six feet! I don't want to be that tall! I hate my height already! I'd be happy to be 5 foot four! ARGHH please, is there anything I could do to 'appear shorter' or to stop growing??
Well your tall you should actually be happy.. cause if your pretty then you can be a model i tried out for modeling and i was too short.. but you cant do much bout how tall you are and you cant really stop yourself from growning or appear shorter.. i know i aint help much but if you look pretty you might try it.. ~*DEZ*~
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I dont know if i should dump my b/f becuz he likes another girl but whenvever i ask him who he likes more he always says yes to me that he likes me more....should i dump him???¿¿¿
Well it dont sound like you trust him very much..and you should have trust in your relationship..and it sounds like you need to dump him cause you could get hurt..~*DEZ*~
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im failing and have no idea what to do!
Study..~*DEZ*~
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theres this girl i wanna have sex with so much how do i get to have sex with her or have her wanna have sex with me?
Well you cant make a female wanna have sex wit you buddy..jus think bout her and do what you can wit that right hand of yours it should do the work.. ~*DEZ*~
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Hey okay here is the deal i was going out with this kid a few times recently we started getting in fights (while we were not going out) and worse came to even worse i told my boyfriend things he had said to me such as going to Hell and stuff. my boyfriend thought he had said he was going to kick his ass even thought he said if he keeps messing with me he was going to fight each other but my ex got his friends involed and my boyfriend got his friends involved and they couldnt fight because most of them had to work that day and time and im afrid if they ever meet they will get in a fight and some one will get hurt. They will be going to the same school sortly and stuff
So my question is what should i do about this i want to be friends with my ex but i no he dont wanna be friends like that because every time we are we end up liking each other again.
I RATE HIGH!!!!!!!!!!
Well shit jus let em get hood and fight you got the shit started so jus let it be, they probably jus talk anyways cause usually black guys real wit they shit so probably nothin goin to hapen if these guys are white..and they'll realize your not worth it..~*DEZ*~
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my friend wants to get extentions.. how do i tell her that uhm.. no.
Well uh like she wants to do what she wants wit her hair...why should you care if she likes it then be happy for her.. damn kid dont worry bout what she looks like you might need to do something bout yoself kid..~*DEZ*~
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What does crunk mean... im afraid to ask someone who would know.. i know i sound lame.. but please.. im confused!! all the rap songs use that word.. and idk what it means!! HELP
Well if you look in music videos that say it they are drinking and gettin real crazy.. its alot of fun lol so Get Crunk,.,~*DEZ*~
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i know it's still possible to get pregnant when you have your period, but say someone has sex during her period, preferably near the END (and still wears a condom) will that lessen her chance of conceiving? or is there a certain day where you are highly likely to get pregnant?
okay well i asked my doctor that question he said no you cant.. and um my doctor also told me that theres only two days after your period before your next period that you can get pregnant..Hope i helped...~*DEZ*~
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ok well i have a boyfriend and everything and i love him, but lately ive been talking to this other guy whos liked me since this past summer, and im starting to like him, and he knows this, but my boyfriend has no idea about whats going on.. he gets suspicious and asks me if i like him but i tell him to not worry about it. i like both these guys a lot and i dont know what to do. when im with my boyfriend he makes me feel like im a princess, but when im with the other guy, i feel totally comfortable with myself.. i dont want to hurt either one of them but when it comes down to it, i know i have to. Help Me Please! ive done everything i can to try to make up my mind but nothing seems to work.
Well this should actually be easy..you love the guy your with now as you say..but apparently not cause your thinkin about some other guy i mean you say you like em both alot but you love the guy your wit..so maybe if you didnt talk to the guy on the side you wouldnt have to worry about this mess.. thats whats up...For real for real.. Hope wasnt too mean jus lettin you know hun...~*DEZ*~
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I am so in love with this boy.. that i have been lets say more than friends with.. ne wayz... I'm so confused now.. I don't know what to do I don't know if I SHOULD GO FOR HIM OR WHAT.. I really like him and he likes me well i would hope so.. becasue he kisses me and we act like a couple but i dont wanna be turned down if i ask him out what should I do help!! plz ill rate 5's
Well talk to him and see how he feels for real bout you.. and then when you find out then ask him out if he feels the same..~*DEz*~
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Ok so heres the story, me n my bf broke up like over 7 months ago. I know its sad but I'm still in love with him and cant come over the fact that I'm not the love of his life anymore. See we dated for over 9 months and he even asked me to marry him and gave me a ring...this guy had me believe we actually were gonna spend the rest of our lives together. I went away for the summer and we still talked none-stop and then he started talking to his ex gf and he started having feelings for her again and so we "took a break" then somehow it turned into a break up. I dont know what I did wrong, and now we barly talk and he says hes in love with someother girl who already has a bf and doesnt love him back...I dont understand, he knows I still love him , or I least I hope he does, so he knows that if he ever feels alone I'll be here. But she doesnt love him so why cant he just stop trying so hard on here and give me another chance. I'm a different person now I have friends now and I do everything with them, not like when we dated I only had him and so we did everything together, but now I just want another chance. Is this bad for me thinking that I'm still in love with a guy that treats me like crap? Is it bad I cry about 3 times a day and probably cry about 4 out of the 7 days? Should I like see a shrink or somthing? Please help
Well i dont think you really need a shrink.. but if you feel you do then i would go see one..And no hun its not bad to still love somebody that treats you like that..you had good memorys with this guy and you though you was goin to spend the rest of your lives together..and you jus are showing your emotions when you cry..im really sorry this has gon on wit you..its really shitty and i could imagine what your going through... but if you need anybody to talk to or have anymore questions drop it in my inbox okay hun...~*DEZ*~
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