My boyfriend keeps asking me 2 give him a hand job. I tell him maybe later, or make up another excuse. But the truth is I've never given one. My question is how do I give a hand job? And how would I know if he's enjoying it?
TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 8:45 pm: I had the exact same problem, but instead of telling you how, I'm going to tell you theres not a way how, you do what feels good to him, you have to kind of ask him what feels good, and maybe you're not close enough if he doesn't know you havn't given one, if I were going to do someting sexual with someone, I'd make sure I knew about him enough to where I could write his lifestory. But thats just me, and trust me, closeness helps, that way when you go about doing it, you won't be embarresed.
AnGeLtHuGsTa answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 1:33 am: First of all, are you sure your ready to do this? Or do you just want to do it because you don't want to disappoint him? Second, you have to be honest, if you want to do it, tell him that it's your first time. He'll understand. Third, I know it's going to be kind of nervous trying something new. Keep in mind that guys will love it no matter what! Their horny creatures...Anyways, Start by making out and stuff, let him get real hard...Then when he's ready and your ready....Just stroke it (hold it firmly), moving up and down...I swear it's not that hard...*goodluck* [ AnGeLtHuGsTa's advice column | Ask AnGeLtHuGsTa A Question ]
Xx_lOvE_tO_chEer_xX answered Monday January 17 2005, 9:02 pm: Well giving a hand job is simple. You do know how a boy jacks himself off...by like moving his hand up and down fastly on his dick. Thats exactlly what you do with your hand. And you will just know when he's enjoying it. You can tell.
worshipthelizardking answered Monday January 17 2005, 5:16 pm: Okay, this is funny.
Firmly grab it, start at the base. With a firm (but not too tight) grip, move your hand up and down. Make sure you take the extra skin with you so that it hits the tip. Keep in mind that's his most sensitive part.. play with it a little with your thumb and forefinger and maybe do a few strokes from top to bottom. You'll know he's enjoying it either by the look on his face or his satisfying sounds. Lube is a definite plus (and I highly recommend it) so look into that. Just make sure you're not pulling too hard.. Also there's a flat part on the bottom of the tip, rub it a little with your thumb, it seems to be a very sensitive and pleasurable area.
If I haven't helped, watch porn.
good luck!
lildiamyn_69 answered Monday January 17 2005, 4:21 pm: i really couldn't tell you how(i've never done it before)but,if you and your b/f are close enough, then you could tell him you don't know how, and ask him to show you how to do it, and what he would like best. oh, and trust me, you'll know if he's enjoying it. hehe!
hope i was of any use... [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Monday January 17 2005, 4:02 pm: it depends on if hes circumsized or not. if he isnt then you jsut grasp it in your hand on the top half and start moving it up and down. vary the pressure and speed to see how he likes it, just down go down to far or you could rip the foreskin. if he is circunsized you basically do the same thing except you need to lube up your hand first, spit works well in a crunch. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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