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i have asked this before.
so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
and if i dont have sex with him he might break up with me.
i seriously like him though.
i rate

Let him break up with you. You just want us to say whatever you do, don't break up with him. He is a terrible person for just wanting you for one thing. Don't give it to him. If you do, in my opinion, you are stupid and have no respect for yourself.

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whats pig latin?

When you take the first letter of a word and put it at the end of the word and add the letters ay to it. With words that begin with vowels, you just add ay to the end of the word.

ie- Hi my name is Brianna.

Ihay ymay amenay isay riannabay.

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what does it mean wen peeps say things are classic? like if someone tells some one off, they say "classic..." and what does it mean when somethings overrated? like peeps say "phones r 2 overrated" and stuff like that? i know this is random... but i rate high for good answers!!

Classic means old but popular.

Overrated means that people said it was WAY better than it actually is.

in example- Everyone was talking about a certain movie. When you saw that movie, you didn't think it was as good as people said - therefore it was overrated

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This may seem like a syupid question to some of you, but i've lived in LA California all my life. I was talking to my cousin on the phone (who lives on the east coast), and she mentioned something aout a 'snow day'. Ummm, what is that? Could we get one in LA? Thank you!

Being from Pennsylvania, I know alot of snow days. It's when school is cancelled because of alot of snow fall. Usually 3 or more inches. Cali probably NEVER sees snow, so no you can't get a snow day.

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my dad is a gynacoligist & obstitrician (he delivers babies) so he is up a lot in the middle of the night. he sometimes complains if some one asks him to do something, & he'll be like "I WAS UP FOR 36 HOURS..." blah blah blah" only he yells it and sometimes swears, sort of like verbal abuse. i understand he works hard, but since he complains all the time i was like "maybe you should do a job that doesn't require you to stay up so late & that you like" and he was like " I LIKE MY JOB AND MAYBE YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR MOM TO GET A JOB THAT PAYS AS MUCH AS MINE DOES AND THEN I WOULDN'T HAVE TO STAY UP 36 HOURS" (my mom is a teacher, and she works alot harder then most women, she works all week, then comes home and cooks EVERY NIGHT for all of us, and drives my sister & me everywhere, so she works just as hard as him) and it really makes me upset that he yells and complains when my mom works just as hard, but if i say anything to him he SCREAMS. i don't know what to do, and I feel like he degrades us (my mom especially). any ideas?

Next time he says that, tell him to stop taking it out on his family and that it was HIS idea to take that job. You didn't tell him to be a gynocologist and obstritrican and work so many hours. About him and your mom, just tell him to take it easy on her. Remind him of all she does for her family.

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alright..well i liked this kid.. lets call him dave.. and we flirt nonstop ..still..but now he has a gf and shes nice and all, but i am jealous, cuz i REALLY love "Dave" and now hes in love w. her. It drives me crazy. cuz "dave" and i still talk, and all he talks about is her, and he knows hes making me jealous. i dont know why hes trying to make me jealous though. Please help, i dont know how to make him stop !!!
i rate 5`s all the way

[ ♥ ] broken heart

Tell him that it bothers you. If he doesn't stop, just stop talking to him for a while. Let him know that you are serious.

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can social isolation make you go insane?

Depends on how long you are isolated and under what conditions. I'm sure if you were held captive for the rest of your life, you might go insane. But, if you have like a tv and books and stuff, you might not. It all depends on the person, circumstances, and time.

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how can I treat the objective different from persuaing others?

That's the whole point of a persuasive essay, you want to try to get the reader to lean towards your idea.

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What should i do i went to my best friends house last weekend and we were all having a good time and i go there every weekend...and she has a brother who is almost 18 and hes cute and well i have hooked up with him befor like 3 knowing it was a one night stand but this time it went to far and we had sex....and i have never had sex with him befor just made out.....and i thought maybe he would like me but no....right as we were doing it like right in the middle he says " don't know anybody about this" who does he think he is really? I mean it hurt my feeling and let along i didnt' enjoy my self from then on out if you know what i'm saying.... and i don't know what i should do...his sister knows cuz i tell her everything...ooo and another thing i get used by everyguy i have ever been with and i have never had a boyfriend but i have been with guys kinda alot and i guess the reason i do it is because i just want somebody to love me for me you know? but they always ask me for sexual favors and i am just tired of it and tired of being treated like a bootie call everytime they want something....but i just can't say know and i don't want to sound like a whore but what should i do....

You need to get more respect for yourself. You LET guys use you. Don't do anything with anyone until you are in a committed relationship. Know that the guy really cares for you. You won't get hurt if you just stop fooling around with guys.

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what can i feed my over weight dog?

i rate you !

You can go to the vets and give him special diet food. Or just go to the store and find diet dog food. They have it.

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Ok. I'm going to this party tongith and the guy I like is gonna be there. My friend likes him to...we are definetly gonna play spin the bottle.

What the heck should I do!!!!!!

Go to the party and play spin the bottle with the guy that you like?

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What are some signs of anorexia, or signs of going in the path of anorexia? also if your heading in the path to anorexia what are way you can stop yourself? thanks. ill rate 5s for good anwers

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/anorexia_signs_symptoms_causes_treatment.htm


Read that. It's a great site that answers all of your questions!

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A friend of one of my friends recently commited suicide, and it's really taking a toll on my friend. (Let's just call her Jane haha) So I've tried talking to Jane, but every time I try to comfort her or w/e she says something really rude or just turns away. I know she's grieving, and I'm trying to tell myself it's nothing personal, but what she's doing is really hurtful. How should I tell her how this makes me feel? Is it too early? (This happened just a couple days ago.) Can anyone tell me how I should try and make her feel better? Thanks.

You are trying your hardest. She keeps pushing you away. My advice, leave her alone. You tried. She's being a bitch about it for no reason. Tell her that she has no right to be like that to you when you are trying to help her in a time of need.

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i liked this guy "bob" since the begining of school. But just recentally i met this guy "george" that I really like, so i started to think i didnt like bob anymore. but the reason i liked bob before was he was always soo sweet to me and soo cute. since i dont go to school with george but i do with bob i dont get to see george as much, but i see bob every day, so i still think i like bob a little bit but im not sure. and since im moving next year, hes been saying the nicest things to me, and actually caring i was leaving, so i think ive started to like him more since then. do i still like bob? and if i do, how can i stop because i REALLY want to get over him. thanks in advance, ill rate high for good answers.

You and only you know who you like. No one on advicenators can tell you who you like. It sounds like you like Bob, but definitely not as much as he likes you. Why would you want to stop liking someone that treats you so good?

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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend?

Love knows no age. But since you are so young, your hormones are raging and that may make you think that you are in love. Some 13 year olds can really be in love. How can anyone else say how someone feels? Saying "I love you" is the most overused phrase by couples however. So, go on and say it if you atleast THINK you may be in love. No one can tell you that you are or aren't in love. Don't say "I love you" to you boyfriend just because he says it to you.

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Hey guys,
I was hoping someone could help me with this math problem. I should probably remember how to do this stuff, but I'm stupid so I don't know how. If someone can, please explain how to do it. I would really appreciate it! Thank you so much!

Math Problem: The ratio of good guys to bad guys was 16 to 3. If there were 48 bad guys, how many good guys were there?

Thanks again!

You divide 48 by 16. You get 3. Then you multiply 3 by 3. Then you get 9.

Answer= 9 good guys.



Edit.. Don't listen to the other three below me, they did the problem totally wrong. Number 1 and I are the ones that gave you the correct answer.

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Yeah im 13 and regular tampons are to big for me, do you kno if they make junior tampons, if so what are they called.

Yes they have slim fits! Tampax Pearl tampons are easier to get up there and they make them tiny.

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hey im a girl and im 15 and im sooo mad @ myself! okay so here's the story... i was talking to my boyfriend last night and he randomly brought up the fact that i dont compliment him enough...hes not the first boyfriend ive had that has said that to me..WHATS WRONG WITH ME?! i felt soooo bad after that i couldnt even talk and i know he knew somthing was wrong...i mean i didnt even notice that i didnt compliment him enough till he mentioned it i thought everything was fine so it was like omg wow i must really suck!...its like, somthing that i ve noticed that in most of my relationships i havnt been doing a whole lot of and the guy brings it up it just crushes me and makes me feel so bad/sad/mad...what can i do to change this?!!?! i dont wanna be a bad girlfriend...and this is really making me feel like i am...please help me! i'll rate if that'll motivate any of you to...lol im desperate... thanks!!

Whenever he compliments you, compliment him right back. If you like his shirt, how he did he hair that day (or any day), tell him! Guys like compliments just as much as girls. Tell him you didn't even notice and apologize.

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I do not understand the double standard that a guy cannot say, "No" to sex with out the being deemed as having problems.

In my last three relationships the women have left me because I have wanted to take the relationship slowly. Each time it has centered around the fact that I have said, "No" to intercourse.

In the last two relationships I explained before it went anywhere that I would not engage in intercourse until I felt our relationship was solid and committed. Each of the women said they thought this was wonderful and understood. I made it clear up front because the first woman I said no to was hurt and rejected. We talked about it and she said she was ready and that she had never had anyone say no to her. This is why I explained to the next two, up front, front how I felt. I do not want to hurt anyone.

When the foreplay began and it went no further than oral sex they become upset and angry with me. In the second and third relationship this has happened after only two months. I do not want to have intercourse until I am sure that we know each other well enough and that the possibility of a future exists. One that might lead to marriage. I am at that point in my life where I would like to settle down and have a wife and family. It seems as though they do not believe I am serious because they attempt to take it further each time we are together. I have to keep saying, "NO". They have asked me if I was gay, impotent, or just didn't like sex. Each time I am made to feel as though I have a problem or something is wrong with me. None of these things are true. After this happens a wall builds between us until no communication takes place and then the relationship ends.

Please help me understand why it is wrong for me wanting to wait just because I am a guy.

Women are just not used to guys turning them down. Most of the time, when a guy goes into a relationship, that is half of what he is looking for. Don't feel like anything is wrong with you. I think it's great that you want to wait. There aren't that many men out there willing to wait to have sex.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for one and a half years. He still has his exgirlfriend's engagement ring in his drawer. When I ask him what he is going to do with it he just tells me he don't know. He says, "what should I do with it?" I am sick of looking at it. She has caused so many problems for us. I just want the ring to be gone. He says he doesn't want to just give it away because it cost too much money. At this point I am ready to throw the piece of metal in the dump. What would you suggest to do with it.

I would definitely sell it! It has no reason to be in your house. That relationship is done. It is holding onto the past and it just creates problems.

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