so is something i should ask my doctor about??
No. Its normal! Everybody has it. And I mean everybody. You dont need to ask your doctor about it because its not a health risk its just a natural part of the breast. Dont worry.
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ok i kno christmas is tomorrow but im a major procrastinator. i have no money, and my dad wont let me borrow money because i already owe him money and i need a gift for my mom. any ideas of something i can make her using thigns from home? she doesnt wear jewelry tho.
I would make her a life size card. Made out of poster board folded in half so its like a card except bigger. Write Merry Christmas and everything on it but maybe put pictures of your family on the card and draw lots of pictures on it. Or do a "Top 10 reasons why I love you" and name 10 important things your Mom does that you appreciate and why and try to make it meaningful.
Or give her a homemade gift card. Free whatever. Some ideas are: Free Massage if youre good at it. Free manicure/pedicure (by you.) Free breakfast in bed. Gift card for 10 chores of her choice that you will do while she relaxes.
Ornament. Find things around the house to make an ornament out of. Those are very personal and nice.
Whatever it is, she will love it because you made it and its the thought that counts! ♥
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ok....well...i have these bumps on my breast... well on the part (i cant think of the name for it right now!) my nipple or whatever... its been there for like a year... Does anyone know what it is??
they are called Montgomery glands or areolar skin glands. Their function is partially unknown, but scientists suppose they are there to lubricate the nipple/areola area.
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Well i like this girl but i cant seem to get past the "friends" stage can i please get some advice preferably from a girl telling me what girls like.
Smiling.
Eye contact.
Make her laugh. VERY IMPORTANT.
Find ways to touch her..like playfully touch her arm or hand.
Compliment her. "Youre so fun to be around" "I really like our conversations."
Be nice to her.
Dont go overboard with teasing. I know guys like to tease a little bit dont get me wrong, its cute. But sometimes it goes a little too far and the guy ends up seeming NOT interested or mean.
Invite her to go somewhere. That will get you past the "friends" stage.
Dont seem too desperate. Make her want you. :] ♥
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soo usually i go to bed around 1-3 am, then wake up between 7-7:30 for school. would it be ok to leave a tampon in during the night? i for sure always wake up in the mornings, and i put new ones in right before i go to sleep.
I wouldnt take the risk. Im sure you must know about TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome) from when you keep a tampon in longer than 6-8 hours. If you didnt wake up in the morning (even though I know you say you ALWAYS do) you will die. Its better to be on the safe side, wear a pad or two if you have a very heavy flow than to risk death. Just my opinion, but other than that - no its not a problem if you change it before you go to bed and after you wake up. ♥
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15/F
Hi, I'm looking for a celebrity who has this look:
Light Blonde (and black?) hair
Usually does smokey black eyes
Cool / fair skin colour
I would like to see how to change up my look
Thanks so much!
http://i18.tinypic.com/2ilk2sp.jpg - Shakira
http://img145.imageshack.us/my.php?image=41777ln4.jpg - Ashlee Simpson
http://img246.imageshack.us/my.php?image=14velkahil6zhfq4.jpg - Hilary Duff
http://i16.tinypic.com/2py175f.jpg - Nicole Richie
http://i10.tinypic.com/2uhxrbq.jpg - Ashley Olsen
http://i17.tinypic.com/333fklf.jpg - Kirsten Dunst
http://i12.tinypic.com/2dhaa6v.gif
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My mom used to be very thin. Not too thin, but a little below average. Now she's gaining weight. She's a little above average now..and it makes me sad every time I see her eat something because I see it happening. She won't exercise or diet though. She cares, but she doesn't care enough to do anything about it.
Is there any way that I can do anything about this? She is very sensitive and would be offended if I mentioned anything about her weight.
Personally, your Moms weight is HER business and you shouldnt be worried about it. If she was obese, I could see why you would be concerned, but since she's VERY thin, Im confused. Dont you want her to gain weight so she can be healthy? I dont think theres anything you can do. The only thing I can think of is if you join in on it, too. You can offer to go on a healthy eating plan with her and go to the grocery store with her to help her pick out healthy food or ask her to start excercising with you. And if she asks why you want her to do all this, say you want to do it for your own health but you want support. ♥
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i have ...well i used to have this "best friend" and shes always been there for me and we've been through so much together, for 3, almost 4 years you cant even imagine how much we've been through. ever since 10th grade started shes been ignoring me and acting like a complete jerk and im really sick of it. shes not treating me like she used to at all. and the problem is i cant really get away from her because some of my friends are friends with her and i wanna spend time with those friends but not with her. im just so sick of her being like this i tried talking to her and she was just like "im not treating you bad.." should i just get rid of her? what should i do?
PLEASE HELP. =[
I hate to admit it but people change. They grow apart from eachother. They become totally different people than they used to. I think that you should hang out one on one with your old best friend - JUST you and her without the rest of your friends. Do something you loved to do. Like a sleepover if you liked to do that? And try to have a big talk (note: the best talks are while eating food and painting nails. :] ha.) Maybe this will jog her memory of how close you guys used to be! When you talk to her, tell her how you feel and that you dont want to loose her as a friend. If she is really acting bad, all I can say is kill her with kindness. TRUST ME, FROM EXPERIENCE. You dont want to act like she is, or ditch her because it will ruin your other friendships..This happened to me in middle school. We had a whole group. And one girl was being mean to me and not including me, so I pretty much called her out on it and told her I didnt want to be friends with her anymore. Then my entire group sided with her and thought of me as a bitch and I lost all of them forever. You dont have to be best friends with her, just try to keep even. Ignore her being mean to you and dont give a reaction because it will only start DRAMA. ♥
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i've always been self concious of myself, but lately it's been really bad. i just can't find anything good about myself! here's some pictures...can you tell me honestly what you think? and what my best qualities that i should focus on are? thanks so much.
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http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/28FC2F14.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/fhjkhgdjkshja.jpg
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e95/muhegz235/muahh/122918068_397643752_0.jpg
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Okay, rate me a 1 on this because I know you will. But, its NOT just you doing this. A lot of people have been showing pictures of themselves (girls who are GORGEOUS like you) and asking if theyre pretty. Honestly, its what on the INSIDE that counts. And asking if you are attractive is not asking for advice, its fishing for compliments. You have absolutely no reason to be self concious about yourself. I think you are pretty and I think you dont know that. If you dont think you are, then you need to see a therapist because its clear to see. You are skinny and you have even facial features. But, really Im SERIOUS. Its more important whats on the outside!!
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So, say my friends April, Vanessa and I are planning on hanging out on Friday. So, Friday night I will call Vanessa and she NEVER picks up her house phone or cell phone. Like, I'll have talked to about hanging out the day before, not made exact plans but mentioned it and she'll be like oh yeah I think I can. Then the day of it, we'll try to contact her and we won't be able to. So then we don't do anything. It's so frusterating because it ruins my night because I'll try to contact her up til the last minute and then it's too late to do anything else. It's really annoying & frusterating. What should I do?
I would let her know when you make plans with her that you really need to know whats going on early. So, when you talk to her about the plans for friday, do it BEFORE friday. And say, do you think you can hang out on Friday at like 7 at my house? Give her SPECIFIC plans. Then, ask to call you that night when she figures out her plans. I hate to ask but, could her not picking up be a hint that she doesnt want to hang out with you? Just a thought..Try not calling her for awhile and if she asks why you never invite her anywhere anymore, just be like, "Because we can never ever get a hold of you!" Hope that helps you. ♥
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theres this boy that i think i really like. hes not the coolest person ever (not that it should matter...but i havent even told my best friend that i like him yet) anyways, what are some subtle ways to hint to him that i like him cause in one of my classes we sit next to eachother and talk all the time...so what are some things i can do to hint it? cause i want him to know but im not ready to say it yet.. thanks
Hm, well if youre talking thats a good sign! If you guys have full conversation than youre already past the hardest part. Just play it cool - seriously, someone else asked a question JUST like this today and heres what I said to them:
"Guys like a girl that is laid back, so try to just act like he's any other person WITH a touch of flirt in your tone so he knows youre interested! Also, be nice. The whole bitch thing doesnt work. Ive tried being in control and act like I dont care but guys ended up thinking I was a bitch! He'll like you for YOU. Act sweet and nice, compliment him and be gracious and classy. Thats how you'll impress him :]"
So, yeah pretty much just act like I said up there! Just be relaxed and be nice to him. If you want another kind of hint, Physical contact of any kind is really good! Find any excuse to touch him..not slutty just cute. Like if you want to know what time it is and he has a watch on, just touch his wrist. Or be playful and if you guys are flirting and he teases you, be like "ugh!" and push his chest lightly, then you'll both end up laughing. ♥
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Does anyone know where I can get music videos to put in my myspace or to just watch online for free with no downloads?
thanks =)
youtube.com or videocodezone.com!
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Thanks...so do I just ask the doctor for it?? will my mom have to know that I am taking the birth control?
Umm honestly I dont really know if they make you have parental consent before getting birth control. Sorry! But, I would just ask the gynecologist anyway! Birth control is a good option. Ask the gyno if they can provide you with it AND if they have to tell your parents.
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Would my mom have to know about birth control?? Would this mean she knows I am not a virgin??
thanx. ~*Michelle*~
No, your Mom doesnt have to know about the birth control and FYI most of my friends tell their Moms they want to get birth control for acne. so, you could always ask for it for your "skin."
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Why would A guy use a girl for sex?
I mean how badly can they want it and How could they do something like that to someone?
It just makes me wonder.
I mean , they cant wait.
And especially at such young ages!
Im just wondering
Thnx!
TESTOSTERONE.
Ive heard a quote like, "Men are almost like on drugs..and the drug is called testosterone." It makes them horny every 6 seconds. (no lie, its like a proven fact! ;]) and they will do anything to get it. They use girls they dont like, like sluts. But guys arent always so animalistic. They can be sweet and loving. Wait till they mature a little bit.
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My mom wants me to visit a gynecologist...but I'm scared...(and I'm only 14!)..
Will my doctor tell my mom that I'm not a virgin??
...I dont want my mom to know yet... because I am too young for it...and she won't trust me!!
Does my mom have to be in the room with me??
And since she wants me to go does this mean she thinks I'm sexually active?(even though I am)
I'm scared...HELP!! thanks.
One of the important things about doctors and gynecologists and doctors is confidentiality. They have an OBLIGATION to keep your information private. So, technically they are not supposed to tell your Mother what is going on with you..unless it is something life and death or very important. But, a lot of girls have sex and go to the gynecologist so dont worry - youre not the first. You dont have to have your Mom in the room. Tell her you dont feel comfortable and you want to learn to be independent when it comes to YOUR health examinations. You probably should be honest with your gynecologist..they will want to know if youre sexually active. They can give you birth control, test you for things, etc. Its really important. And its easier if they ASK you if youre sexually active to say, "Yes, but I was wondering if we could keep it private." Dont worry, good luck!
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female/13
I like this guy named Raul and i have flirted with him and even told him i like him. when we get back to school i want to impress him. He has already seen my thong on accident and he told him friend that he liked what he saw but i dont know. What can i wear or say to impress him. Thanks.
*Christie*
Let me just tell you something about guys. They honestly dont care what you wear! Most cant tell the difference between Target and Chanel! So, dont waste your time stressing about what you want to wear to impress him. Look cute and dont look like you got too dressed up or took 2 hours getting ready. You dont want him to think youre high maintenance. Guys dont really like girls like that. What you say, is whatever you would say to someone you didnt like. Seriously, this works well. Guys like a girl that is laid back, so try to just act like he's any other person WITH a touch of flirt in your tone so he knows youre interested! Also, be nice. The whole bitch thing doesnt work. Ive tried being in control and act like I dont care but guys ended up thinking I was a bitch! He'll like you for YOU. Act sweet and nice, compliment him and be gracious and classyl. Thats how you'll impress him :]
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what does it mean when a guy tells a girl she looks like a freak (in sex terms).
haha like i was at this one party and we were just goofying off. we started playing "never have i ever" and the topic sex came up. and haha they accused me of having done stuff in the "sex closet" (yes we have a sex closet). the one guy was like (jokingly) "dude i bet that girl is sucha a freak, like in sex terms." and he was like "dude she even just looks like one too! haha" but he was REALLY nice and stuff, he wasn't saying it to be mean.. i could tell
and i was like wtf? did he think i was ugly or something? please help
NO, he wasnt saying you were ugly! Ha. When guys say you were like a freak (in sex terms) it means a girl is wild and crazy, kind of slutty, willing to try everything and anything. Takes action and makes the first move and is kind of rough when having sex. Its not always bad.
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Okay me and my friend Lupe and Julie have been fighting alot. We always forgive each other. Our other friends Aimee Jhoanna Cassandra and Vikram say we should just stop being friends. What should I do?
You should definitely stay friends unless you are NEVER getting along or the fights are damagine your life, health, happiness in some way. If it is distracting you from your school or work, you might want to take a break from these girls for a while (Im not saying dont be friends with them, just dont hang out with them AS often.) Also, you need to figure out WHY the fights start. Is it one person you can pin point who starts drama? Or is it guys? Try to find the root of most of the fightos and then try to avoid whatever this is to stop it from happening.
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I am short for my age, only like 5 foot and I way around 100 pounds. When I am wearing clothes, I look like I am alot less then 100. ANyways, I kind of have this "pouch" like where my belly button is but above that I am skinnier. How can I get rid of this "pouch" So I have more of a flatter stomach?
I have the same exact stats as you. I also have the pouch. Ugh, it sucks being a girl because we all have this. Its not just you. Its a hard area to get rid of.
Here are some excercises I like to do.
THE BICYCLE:
1. Lie face up on the floor and lace your fingers behind your head.
2. Bring the knees in towards the chest and lift the shoulder blades off the ground without pulling on the neck.
3. Straight the left leg out to about a 45-degree angle while simultaneously turning the upper body to the right, bringing the left elbow towards the right knee.
4. Switch sides, bringing the right elbow towards the left knee.
5. Continue alternating sides in a 'pedaling' motion for 12-16 reps.
CAPTAINS CHAIR
1. Stand on chair and grip handholds to stabilize your upper body.
2. Press your back against the pad and contract the abs to raise the legs and lift knees towards your chest.
3. Don't arch the back and remember to breathe smoothly.
4. Slowly lower back down and repeat for 12-16 reps.
THE PLANK
1. Lie face down on mat resting on the forearms, palms flat on the floor.
2. Push off the floor, raising up onto toes and resting on the elbows.
3. Keep your back flat, in a straight line from head to heels.
4. Tilt your pelvis and contract your abdominals to prevent your rear end from sticking up in the air.
5. Hold for 20 to 60 seconds, lower and repeat for 3-5 reps.
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