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beyonddd annoying
So, say my friends April, Vanessa and I are planning on hanging out on Friday. So, Friday night I will call Vanessa and she NEVER picks up her house phone or cell phone. Like, I'll have talked to about hanging out the day before, not made exact plans but mentioned it and she'll be like oh yeah I think I can. Then the day of it, we'll try to contact her and we won't be able to. So then we don't do anything. It's so frusterating because it ruins my night because I'll try to contact her up til the last minute and then it's too late to do anything else. It's really annoying & frusterating. What should I do?
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i have the same problem with some of my friends. I think you should talk to her about it. It may be her decision not to go out, but it may be her parents. She may be thinking she can, but when she asks her parents they say no. Some parents aren't very leniant or randomly just say no, like my parents do. talk to her and see if you can find out what's really going on. Also, in the future, try making plans with multiple friends. Don't base it around her, but invite her to come along. Then, you are still able to do something and she can come or not come on her own accord and you can still have fun.
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I would let her know when you make plans with her that you really need to know whats going on early. So, when you talk to her about the plans for friday, do it BEFORE friday. And say, do you think you can hang out on Friday at like 7 at my house? Give her SPECIFIC plans. Then, ask to call you that night when she figures out her plans. I hate to ask but, could her not picking up be a hint that she doesnt want to hang out with you? Just a thought..Try not calling her for awhile and if she asks why you never invite her anywhere anymore, just be like, "Because we can never ever get a hold of you!" Hope that helps you. ♥
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If you can't get a hold of her call up your other friends and hang out with them. One person shouldn't ruin your whole night. Or else try to make plans with her the day before.
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