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Fighting alot with friends
Okay me and my friend Lupe and Julie have been fighting alot. We always forgive each other. Our other friends Aimee Jhoanna Cassandra and Vikram say we should just stop being friends. What should I do?
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I think you should evaluate your friendship. Maybe think of the pros and cons. Also think of what they bring to the friendship and if their adding to your life or taking away from it. If you figure they're taking away from your happiness or just sucking the fun out of your life you should probably back away.
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You should definitely stay friends unless you are NEVER getting along or the fights are damagine your life, health, happiness in some way. If it is distracting you from your school or work, you might want to take a break from these girls for a while (Im not saying dont be friends with them, just dont hang out with them AS often.) Also, you need to figure out WHY the fights start. Is it one person you can pin point who starts drama? Or is it guys? Try to find the root of most of the fightos and then try to avoid whatever this is to stop it from happening.
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I think you should still be friends unless it becomes really bad. Everyone fights with their friends and sometimes over the stupidest things. But if they were good friends you guys would make up.It sounds like your other friends don't really like lupe and Julie, so maybe have them talk it out.It's really your choice, so follow what you think is right and decide if you would really want to be friends with Lupe & Julie. Who knows you guys might just become way better friends.
Hope I helped!
-Selma
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You shouldn't listen to what your friends say. You should listen to what your heart and mind is telling you. If you feel this friendship can linger no longer then end it. But if you still are intact and into the friendship don't end it because of what other people say. As you get older and wiser you will see how much more it doesn't matter what other people say and think but you what you say and think. Listen you what you have to say before you listen to other peoples opionions.
Hope this helped. Happy Holidays and a Happy New Year!
Briana
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