I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
I dig art, music and books.
I'll take questions on relationships, friendships, high school, uni, or whatever else.
I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.
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Castellane Gallery, New York.
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i know most girls like to be called pretty or beautiful, or at least i do.. but when a guy tells me that he thinks i am pretty, what should i say back other then thank you- like do guys like to be called hott? sexy? something else? i usually say that someone is very attractive but is there somthing that guys like to be called...? thanks (link)
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Lol when guys say your pretty i dont think they're really asking for a compliment back. Whenever my boyfriend says im pretty i giggle and say hes pretty to lol then he usually says "aww your so cute" But if a guy does say that to you, he's usually cracking on to you so you should just go with it. Smile and say thankyou would be plenty. If you want to compliment him back just say "Your pretty cute yourself" nothing in particular. Any compliment is going to boost his ego lol Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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my daughter married into a family that has babyed her from day one. she now has 3 children. she and kids live with inlaws. only time we hear from my daughter is when she wants something. the inlaws babysat these kids since they were born. now they are feeling like they are being taken advantage of. the mother inlaw and sister inlaw are giving my husband and i a hard time. they want us to babysit more. mind you we love the children but mother in law and sister inlaw do not have jobs. my husband and i have full time jobs 40+ hours a week. they want us to quit our jobs to babysit. we can't do that. we sometimes work weekends too.
they call us bad grandparents because we don't baby sit. when my children were growing up i didn't dare ask my parents to take the kids. i felt i had them so i should have them with me. only time my parents took the kids was when they asked for them, because they worked too. the mother in law told my daughter that she will do everything possible to keep those kids from my husband and i if something was to ever happen to my daughter and son in law. she is doing this because we don't babysit the kids. if we call off work to babysit we will lose our jobs. my daughter doesn't bring the kids over for a visit when we can see them. the only time we get to see the kids is if we babysit. so we don't get to see the kids because we have to make a living. is the mother inlaw right or am i right?
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You are definatley right. Your mother and sister in law are unemployed so they would have more of a reason to babysit but they probably want you and your husband to do it because they just can't be bothered. You should say no if they ask you to quit your job because that really isn't their choice and none of their buisness. You should be able to see your grandchildren when you are able to and not when they decide you should. I think you should talk to your daughter about all of this. If i was you i would be pretty mad because it's your decision if you want to work or not and you can't give that up to babysit your grandchildren when they can do it themselves. I think they just don't want to do it so they're trying to make you do it. You obviously love your grandkids and it's insulting to say your bad grandparents when they're being horrible to try and force you to change your life to do something they just don't feel like doing. If no one was able to take care of your grandchildren then that would be a reason to quit your job but the fact is there is people to and they're being bad family for not accepting that they don't have jobs and can take care of the kids and trying to force this duty upon you and your husband. You have a right to see your grandchildren when its a good time for you. Stand up to your mother and sister inlaw, it's about time someone did!
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I feel like drinking BLEACH
So, my best friend got this IM from this random guy, so I added him on my buddylist thinking I would just IM him later to see who he is... and stuff.
And so, I IMed him today, and we started talking and he doesn't go to my high school and everything, and he seemed nice and all. Then my ex boyfriend, my best friend, and my other friend that went to school with him said that he was really weird, and he's just not my type. He always gets turned down, and I feel terrible. He asked me out on a date and I said yeah, because I didn't want to be like NO, I mean, what the heck, I just met this guy and he's asking me out?! I just don't know what to do. I'd feel way too bad just being like NO, and stuff.. I can't do things like that.
Help? (link)
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Aww well you've only just met the guy so you can just say "I've only just met you and i don't think im really ready to go out anywhere with you" just be honest about how you feel about this whole thing. If he feels bad don't worry he'll get over it and your just uncomfortable with the whole situation. If it gets to the point where you can't do anything then invite some friends along with you incase he ends up being a total weirdo you can say you and your friends have to go and you won't be alone. If your like me, you can make up a reason like your busy helping your mum or family issues to get out of it lol but thats probably not the best way. Just be honest with him or your just leading him on. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Well, i really want to learn to play guitar. But i want to be very discreet about it. so, no lessons. And preferably no online courses. Does anyone know any DVD lessons? A book would work too, but i'd much prefer a DVD. suggestions??
oh, if anyone has suggestions on what guitar to buy (under $200), that'd be fantastic too. thanks! (link)
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Okay well any music store near by to you should sell beginner music books. I bought a begginners book called "Progressive: Guitar method book 1. Beginner" which had 2 cds to help. Shop around for guitars, if your just starting to learn, you should get a nylon string to begin with. These are usually around $100 and mine came with a dvd to help play the guitar. Get an electronic tuner to help you tune it properly and in most beginner books there is instructions on how to tune your guitar. I learnt how to play guitar by myself and it took a while but now i know how to play it at an intermediate level. In most books there is a chords chart which really helps when your looking up song tabs because alot of the chords on the net arent properly shown so a chord chart gives you a better sound. For song tabs, i use www.ultimate-guitar.com which has alot of songs on there. Good luck with your guitaring! Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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hi friends, well i am in a country which has been rapidly developing over the years. people here are more ambitious nad have become more materialistic, change has been drastic. but here i am who is not ready to change. i don't hate money and good life but i am not very much mad about it, thanks to my family upbringing. i sometimes feel odd man out in this world, my views and obnjectives different from the crowd, how do i embrace this globalized world's changes. some one who has seen his country rapidly transforming should be able to give me proper advice. thank you (link)
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The world is constantly changing and developing and people either embrace the fact of this happening or they don't. Its your own personal choice, you don't have to be like everyone else and your own personal views on how you want to live are up to you. Everyones different and has different views and perceptions on things so your never the odd man out. Being different from the mainstream crowd is what makes each one of us unique. It's ok to accept other people want to change but you don't have to change yourself. Is it really going to hurt if you decide to stay the same? Embrace your individuality instead! I dont know if that helped but i tried lol Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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14/f (voice equivalent to that of a woman)
Today when I was vocalizing I hit the C above the high C, and I can go all the way down to the D below middle C.
So that means that I have a (1-note away from) 4 octave range.
I wanted to know if that is considered amazing/unusual.
(please only answer this if you really know what you're talking about.)
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I think thats amazing lol seeing as when i sing i scare small children. The more range you have the more songs you'll be able to sing and the more unique and diverse your voice is going to sound. I know alot of people who "think" they can sing and they can only do afew notes which sounds kind of elementry but the people i know who can extend their vocal chords to longer lengths sound really good. Im guessing your thinking of becoming a singer and you seem to be pretty good at it so if you havent already started singing lessons you probably should. This helps you to control your notes and stay on key also to better your skills. Goodluck with the singing! Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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I made a site dedicated in remembrance to my girl Shaina who commited suicide last march... How can i get people to add the profile and express how much she means and how much she will be remembered. I know if she were still a live she would love it.
this is the site..
www.myspace.com/shaina_xx (link)
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I think thats really sweet of you to do something like that for her. People who would have known her would be able to add this as a memory of her but some people might get upset remembering how she died. You can't really make people who didn't know her to understand how strongly you feel about her but doing this lets other people know that people who commit suicide effect their friends and family greatly. The point of making this would be as a rememberance of your friend, not to see how many people can add it. Its great you did this for her but people arent going to add someone they dont know or have any emotional contact with the individual, its more for people who have some kind of connection with her. That really is incredibly sweet of you though to do that for her, you really are a great friend. xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Help me! My mom is too overprotective! She told me that I can't get a boyfriend until I'm OUT OF COLLEGE! How do I tell her that I would be WAY TOO OLD by the time I'm out of college to get a bf? (link)
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Lol okay well most mums are like this. One of my best friends mum actually called up her first boyfriend she ever had and told him to leave her alone, which pretty much terrified him so he dumped her. Your mum just doesn't want you to get hurt and most parents these days are worried about their kids having sex. If you end up really liking a guy, then i think you should just date him, its not like she can stop you. Dont try and go behind her back because she'll end up being betrayed. When you do get a boyfriend and tell her, yeah she'll be mad but if you show her your acting respoinsibly with the guy and not like a hormonal teen then she could calm down a little. She can't stop you from having a boyfriend but you have to understand shes just worried about you. Its sweet in a way that she cares so much for you. One day when your a parent you'll understand how it is and probably make your daughter wait to have a boyfriend lol. It is your choice though, not hers so date who you want. I dont think she's really going to listen to reason.
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I deleted the one I just posted because I realized that I left out crucial information: Yesterday I had a major fight with Tania and I spoke to our Human Resources person.Tania (the manager)has been picking fights with everyone.She fought with Nancy, she fought with Regina whose the quietist person on the face of the planet),she fought with Lenny, etc.Yesterday I was at Lennys terminal because I needed to look up a phone number.Tania saw me and said can I see you for a second.When I was in her office she then told me that I should not ever talk to my coworkers,that we are here to work, not talk to one another. Well that is when I said to her why was she fighting with everyone. And she said if my coworkers have a problem with her then my coworkers should tell her.I said to her that she is not the owner of the company that the CEO of our company is. That she is just an employee like the rest of us. She told me that if I am not happy I should do what makes me happy and I should call Human Resources.So I told I will and I did.She said she will give me the phone number to call but first she has to call and tell them to expect my call.She did that and ten minutes later I spoke to James of HR privately so no one else could hear what I told him.I told him everything about her, how she is fighting with everyone, how she does not want us to talk to one another, how she wont let us go in the break room during the day to have a cup of coffee.I also told him that on Friday when she went out to a meeting everyone was so relaxed, that they did their work but they had fun doing it and we all took brakes to speak to one another.He said that when the Regional comes back from vacation he will talk to her.James could not believe what he was hearing. What do u think? (TANIA REPLACED OUR FORMER MANAGER(A GUY) WHO EVERY ONE LOVED. HE KNEW HOW TO MANAGE SHE BULLIES and Today no one spoke to Tania at all and she hardly spoke to us. And she did NOT call any one into her office at all. I think she knows she is on thin ice.) ALSO KEEP IN MIND SHE LIVES TWO AND A HALF HOURS AWAY FROM WORK. SHE TRAVELS FIVE HOURS A DAY TO WORK. (link)
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If your in a working environment thats friendly, your going to work better and have fun doing it. One of my teachers told me that she loved her job and if you don't enjoy your job then you should fine one you like. Just keep working how you are and talk to your co-workers in your break times. If she keeps acting like this then just keep complaining and odds are she'll either get fired or warned. She doesnt sound like a very happy person or maybe she likes being dominant and bossy, you could do something totally strange and just buy her flowers or something for no reason. Even though you dont like her a simple gesture like this or saying hi and smiling to her when you get into work then she might, MIGHT, be nicer to you and your fellow co-workers. Its just an idea lol. Anyways, if she continues to give you trouble and no one does anything about it then really, find a new job. Its better if you find a job you like rather than staying in a job your growing to hate because of her. xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Ok... So this nasty girl that goes to my high school told me to charge her ipod [that she stole from someone] well she does a lot of drugs and forgot to ask for it back before the end of the school year. So i sold it.. considering she originally stole [like the piece of shit she is]i didn't think it really mattered. But next year she's going to the same h.s what should i say to her if she remembers that i still have it? (link)
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Well, if you had known whos it was before she stole it then the right thing to do would be to give it back, but your sort of fighting fire with fire here. One, you should never have listened to her. I mean shes not the boss of you is she? You should have just said no. And two, if she does remember and asks you where it is, and you tell her you stole it, you could end up having her on your back for the rest of highschool. But i think that you should just stick up for yourself and say that she stole it in the first place and she was to drugged up to remember to ask before so to bad. xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Ok. I am going to use real names because I don't feel the need to hide this.
I have a friend Taylor. We have been good friends for a while. I also have a best friend Dave.
Dave and Taylor were together, but not going out. They really liked eachother, understandable right?
Taylor "broke up" with Dave, then hated him for the last 4 months. For no reason at all, just wouldn't talk to him and made fun on him constantly. Dave hurt for a while, but finally got over it.
Dave and I have been extremely close ever since we met. Dave and I now are kind of, as you can say, together.
Ever since Dave and I have been together, Taylor has been trying to talk to Dave again, and asks me ridiculous questions about me and him and what we do. She said that him her and can only be enemies, or lovers. So what does that mean? If she is trying to talk to him, that might mean she wants to be lovers with him.
She insists she is over him and does not want him, but why is she constantly asking me about it? And flipping out on me about him. I think she still has feelings for him, which is understandable. But she has hated him for 4 months, and Dave would try to talk to her, but she was just such a BITCH to him that he got over her.
It's not my fault me and him like eachother, we cannot control feelings. I understand where she is coming from because it is her ex, but still, they are over, and she knows it.
I don't know what to do. I do not what to loose either of them. Taylor is just being very immature about this and said she might as well go hook up with my ex boyfriend Justin, so I would know how it felt.
Dave and I have been through A LOT together. Like, a mad amount of stupid shit we have done and gotten in trouble for. Taylor seems like it is right to bring those mistakes up to make me sound like a bad person.
I tried talking to her so many times.
Now I am thinking I should just end it wtih Dave so this whole thing would stop, no matter how much I don't want to.
Someone please help me, I really don't know what to do. (link)
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Ok you've already got alot of good advice but i thought id throw my opinion out there lol. Well, she likes him because she can't have him. Shes saying these things to you like "me and dave can either be enemies or lovers" and bringing up what you've done to make you feel horrible so you'll back of Dave so she can have him. My bestfriend told me she liked one of my ex's that i did really love and i was over him and accepted she liked him. Shes your friend and if she says shes over him then theres no reason to not be with dave. The point is shes jelous and trying to get you away from Dave so she can have him all to herself. If you love Dave, then stay with him! Don't let her put you down, Daves yours now so she should deal with it. Goodluck with Dave and your bestfriend! Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
P.S When she says they can either be enemies or lovers, shes saying they can either hate each other or love each other but this dave guy sounds like he doesnt realli care so this would just be her opinion. once again shes trying to make you stop liking him because shes jelous.
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16/f
-Okay, so I was dating this kid Dave for about a month and a half, and I had never told him I loved him. I never really thought that it'd actually make a difference in our relationship. As much as I'd want to tell him, I was scared of him getting scared and getting out of the relationship. But instead I lost him from holding back. I work with him now, and I am constantly thinking about what we once had. It'd been about 4 months since he dumped me, but I've still yet to move on. I've attempted talking to other guys, but I cant move past the reminders of how much I truly love him. I want to tell him how I feel, but I am scared of rejection. I understand that sounds pathetic, it's true. But my heart is just expressing itself. I really miss him, a lot! But I dont know how to go about getting him back into my life. Anyone have any ideas? I was thinking about asking him to the movies sometime soon, but I dont want to make things akward, ya know?
Please, help would be excellent.
S/N - CRASHCOURSEASHxx if you would like to help out even more! :) (link)
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Aww well asking him out somewhere wether its just you and him or with friends is a great idea because you get to spend time with each other and can share moments. Fear of rejection could end up making you regret never saying anything. I know its hard, but you need to just say it. Once you've said it, no matter what the answer is atleast you tried. If you do get rejected yeah you'll be sad but not knowing if there still is something is holding you back from moving on. Even if it doesn't work out, you guys can still be friends and who knows, you can still work your way up from there! Theres a million fish in the sea, and not asking him out is holding you back from moving on. Goodluck with this guy i hope it all goes well! Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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So, I have a bestfriend like, we're together ALL the time i mean i love her to death i really do but she has this boyfriend that shes had since 8th grade and he plays her soooo bad! hes cheated on her so many times like i wouldn't be surprised if it was over 30 times seriously, and it makes me sick but I try to get her away from him but she just wont. I've tried talking to her and doing everything I can to help her out but it just doesn't help anything. What do you think i can do to get her away from him? (link)
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Ok the reality of it is she really likes this guy and doesn't want to let him go. The longer she stays with him the harder its going to be to let go and shes just going to end up getting hurt. You can't force her to dump him and it's good that your trying to tell her, that's what good friends do. Most people would be to afraid to hurt her feelings or something but being honest is the only way. Try to find some time to yourselves and tell her straight out he treates her bad, she's being played and she deserves better. Other than that, there isn't really much you can do. Its her choice if she wants to be with him or not and you can't change that no matter how much you want to. She'll get smart soon and realise she deserves better but for the time being, just give him dirty looks when you see him lol. You could always talk to this guy and get him to stop cheating on her or something? Anyways, your friend does deserve better and she's just gona get hurt, i hope she'll be ok. And when she does get hurt, atleast she has a good friend like you. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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I have two crushes and their brothers, they know I like them.they are at my bus stop and live up the hill from me. this past month they have been actiing different, sort of like they like me! they always say that they hate me when they're they are with friends.When they're not they are really nice. I want to know if they like, how can I find out the truth?
- Erin (link)
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Ok every girl knows that a guy will pretend to be mean to you if he likes you, very primary school. Frankly, i think that them saying they hate you when they're with their friends is really rude of them. Why would you want to be with someone who says they hate you when they're with friends? It makes you think that if you were dating them how would they act when you were with them and their friends? Are you upset that they do that? If you are, maybe you should try confronting them. Girl, you need a guy who treates you good and isn't going to act this way to you. I think you deserve better. If you want to know if they like you then ask them or get a friend to ask them subtly if they are interested in you at all. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiexXx
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I had a b/f for about 3 months and he broke up with me last week. I thought that this is what I wanted, but then I realized I really liked him a lot. I became very depressed and realized how much I need him in my life. When we were together I didn't take the relationship very seriously and hurt him. I tried to tell him that I realized how much I liked him and that I could change yet he keeps saying no it's over. He gave me a second chance before but apparently I didn't change enough. I've realized my mistakes and can change but how do I get him to realize we should be together and to take me back. I am a 20 yr. old female and he is a 22 yr. old male and we attend the same college. (link)
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3 months isn't really a long time to have created a developed relationship. I think you should really move on, as hard as it is. Everyone is depressed when they get dumped and feels exactly how you feel but you will feel better later. Stop trying to get him to take you back because it doesn't seem to be working, you can atleast try to stay friends with him. If its fate, then one day you two will be together again, but if its not, then you'll find someone else. You can't really change his mind. Im sorry your upset and this probably isnt helping but you should really try to move on before you get hurt more. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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ive posted before about how i liked my cousins friend. hes 20 and im 17 ( which sounds bad because the limit is 18 in my state but if you think about it, its not so bad and no one really minds around here) he started showing interest in me when we would hangout with everyone, so i IMED him online and we talked for a bit. one night when we were all out we kissed and then the next night i went to my cousins friends house with all of her guy friends (he invited me) the next weekend we hookedup and we talked all week online (he goes to college like 30 minutes away) friday he didnt call or IM me online when he got home so i figured he didnt want to hang (hence his away was going out with john call me with plans) early in the night he called and asked what i was doing and i told him i was going to a nice restaraunt in boston (15 mins away) and i said id call him on the train home so maybe we could meet up. he called me pretty drunk and i was like whatever maybe ill see ya later. i ended up going to his friends house with my cousin and everyone and he was all over me and stuff but i left early because i was just tired. he called me wondering why i left and i was trying to get out of him if he liekd me or not, when talking on aim. i felt weird coming straight forward but i was like ohh your usingg me huh (joking around) and he was like im tryingg to see youu but if you want to hookup then w.e ( i wasnt sure if he ment like see ( date) or see, like meet up becaus ehe was talkin about that earlier) i dont know what to do, like i cant come straight out and ask if he liikes me, help what do i do!? p.s hes coming home like tues or wed (link)
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If you like this guy then just ask him if he likes you or not. The worst he can say is no. By the sound of it he seems to like you but maybe you should spend some more time together as friends before you ask him. I know its hard but he could end up getting a girlfriend and then you'll regret never asking. Try to get him to go somewhere with you that isnt a party or drinking but more fun, somewhere that you can get to know each other better. I suggest something that your both interested in or if you can manage to drag him along to go shopping with you. Parties arent exactly the best places to spend time together because alot of the time theres people who just want to hookup and have flirty fun rather then something real. I think he really does like you and you should just ask him out! Anyways i hope it all goes well and ask if theres anything else you need help with =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiexXx
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Okay, so, theres this guy, Nick and me and him have known each other about a year, and we're okay friends. We talk sometimes, hang out every once in a while. Anyway, I used to kinda have a small crush on him, and nothing happened. I got over that crush and now we're friends. Well, I was telling, him about this guy(his name is sean) that I like now and everything, and he was helping me and giving me advice. Now, my other friend, Kim, was like, you, me, kayla, nick and brett(kims boyfriend) and tom(kaylas boyfriend) should go do something. And I thought that was really suspicious, because, they were like pairing us up...if that makes any sense. And so, I was at kaylas house the other day and we were talking to Kim and Brett on the phone, and we were like "oh we have to go, we're wwatching a movie", so we hung up, but, the call didn't disconnect, and brett and kim didnt know that, so we were listening in on the conversation, just for kicks. and brett was like "does she know that, nick likes her and that this whole outing is for him to make a move?" and kim was like "no, i dont think, kayla thinks nick likes amanda (me) but she doesnt know for sure."...so, i mean. what should i do? because nick knows that i like sean soo much and that i dont want anything to happen with another guy..so i mean, if he tries something should i just be like "no stop."..or what?
sorry its long.
thanks. (link)
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Okay if you don't like this Nick guy then tell him you don't want to be anything more than friends. If you really like this sean guy and you have no feelings for Nick then if he tries something tell him not to, its better not to lead him on. If your going to the movies and it's going to be your friends with their boyfriends and you alone with Nick then it might be better to either not go or to tell Nick before-hand that your just friends and you want to keep it that way. Is there still any feelings for him? If you do still like him at all then you should think if you would rather want Sean or Nick but you seem to have your mind up about Sean. Have fun! Love xXxPuNki-PiXiexXx
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ok so i was playing around with this guy and i gave him a hand job. and i had to go so i guess i didnt finish. unless for some reason i didnt notice. but my shorts were on but they are really short shorts and i might as well of been wearing underwear. any way i cud be pregnant?? i know it sounds stupid but im just stressing a little.
thank you so much! (link)
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Ok your question confuses me a little. To be pregnant you actually have to have sexual intercourse where the penis ejaculated in the vagina which fertalises an egg cell and etc. To me it sounds like you were just giving him a hand job which was nowhere near your vagina. How old are you? and do you understand exactly how a woman gets pregnant? im sorry this has just confused me.
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Last year I became ill with this weird sickness, which is pretty rare, it was called coksaki or something, and it left deep scars, everywhere, but my face is what gets me the most.
I miss how it used to look,
everytime I see hole pictures of myself,
I want to just break down and cry,
because I thought I was pretty than,
I know looks aren't everything,
but it really hurts my self esteem.
And I had heart surgery when I was little so I havea huge scar on my right shoulder blade, I just have so many scars, and I feel like I'm just a big scar, and that I'm ugly and undesirable. I'm pathetic I guess, anyone ever felt similar to how I'm feeling? How do you deal?
I also know theres nothing I can do about it,
like the deep scars on my face, but I dont know how to accept it. (link)
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Even deep scars will begin to slowly heal over time, but a scar is only skin deep. If you think you were once pretty, you still are. Nothing has changed in you its just a few differences on the outside and you shouldnt let that stop you from being the person you were before. I know a girl who has a long deep scar down the side of her face and i think shes gorgeous, alot of other people do to. Another girl i know who was a burn victim has alot of burn scars over her face but she is one of the nicest people ive ever known. You should be an inspiration to people. Even though you've been through a horrible ordeal, you should stand tall as the person you are and smile at the world. You will always be beautiful, and if anyone ever thinks your not then they're truly ugly. Just stay positive, i know its hard but just try. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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PLEASE dont say anything negative. I mean I like it when you are honest but there is a difference between honest, and plain mean.
13/f ANYWAYS, i have been going out with this guy for 6 almost 7 months. I am a mormon and im not allowed to date until im 16!! Well i was stupid enough not to tell him that i couldnt date till i was 16..2 months later! The reason being he never asked me to go on a date. But he was pretty sad when he figured i wasnt allowed to date and he just kept saying that my mom and my dad just hated him. My parents are super strict, and there is no way on earth i could sneek a date. I just wish i could make it up to him because i feel SO bad. I mean this guy is SUPER sensitive. :( i just feel so sad.
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Theres nothing really that you can do to help the situation but over time he'll get over it. Just have a conversation with him saying how bad you feel about the whole ordeal and you wish that all of this hadn't made him feel so sad. You could try to get your parents to meet him, yeah sounds scary and your probably saying "NEVER!" but you could ask if he can come over for dinner or lunch and get your parents to like him so first impressions last! If you 2 love each other and you have each other thats more than enough to be happy about. Just cuddle him and say you love him, that should help. Anyways you didnt ask a question but hopefully you feel a bit better. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiexXx
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