I had a b/f for about 3 months and he broke up with me last week. I thought that this is what I wanted, but then I realized I really liked him a lot. I became very depressed and realized how much I need him in my life. When we were together I didn't take the relationship very seriously and hurt him. I tried to tell him that I realized how much I liked him and that I could change yet he keeps saying no it's over. He gave me a second chance before but apparently I didn't change enough. I've realized my mistakes and can change but how do I get him to realize we should be together and to take me back. I am a 20 yr. old female and he is a 22 yr. old male and we attend the same college.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Saturday June 30 2007, 9:20 am: 3 months isn't really a long time to have created a developed relationship. I think you should really move on, as hard as it is. Everyone is depressed when they get dumped and feels exactly how you feel but you will feel better later. Stop trying to get him to take you back because it doesn't seem to be working, you can atleast try to stay friends with him. If its fate, then one day you two will be together again, but if its not, then you'll find someone else. You can't really change his mind. Im sorry your upset and this probably isnt helping but you should really try to move on before you get hurt more. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx [ xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx's advice column | Ask xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx A Question ]
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