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A Boss Who Bullies
I deleted the one I just posted because I realized that I left out crucial information: Yesterday I had a major fight with Tania and I spoke to our Human Resources person.Tania (the manager)has been picking fights with everyone.She fought with Nancy, she fought with Regina whose the quietist person on the face of the planet),she fought with Lenny, etc.Yesterday I was at Lennys terminal because I needed to look up a phone number.Tania saw me and said can I see you for a second.When I was in her office she then told me that I should not ever talk to my coworkers,that we are here to work, not talk to one another. Well that is when I said to her why was she fighting with everyone. And she said if my coworkers have a problem with her then my coworkers should tell her.I said to her that she is not the owner of the company that the CEO of our company is. That she is just an employee like the rest of us. She told me that if I am not happy I should do what makes me happy and I should call Human Resources.So I told I will and I did.She said she will give me the phone number to call but first she has to call and tell them to expect my call.She did that and ten minutes later I spoke to James of HR privately so no one else could hear what I told him.I told him everything about her, how she is fighting with everyone, how she does not want us to talk to one another, how she wont let us go in the break room during the day to have a cup of coffee.I also told him that on Friday when she went out to a meeting everyone was so relaxed, that they did their work but they had fun doing it and we all took brakes to speak to one another.He said that when the Regional comes back from vacation he will talk to her.James could not believe what he was hearing. What do u think? (TANIA REPLACED OUR FORMER MANAGER(A GUY) WHO EVERY ONE LOVED. HE KNEW HOW TO MANAGE SHE BULLIES and Today no one spoke to Tania at all and she hardly spoke to us. And she did NOT call any one into her office at all. I think she knows she is on thin ice.) ALSO KEEP IN MIND SHE LIVES TWO AND A HALF HOURS AWAY FROM WORK. SHE TRAVELS FIVE HOURS A DAY TO WORK.
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If your in a working environment thats friendly, your going to work better and have fun doing it. One of my teachers told me that she loved her job and if you don't enjoy your job then you should fine one you like. Just keep working how you are and talk to your co-workers in your break times. If she keeps acting like this then just keep complaining and odds are she'll either get fired or warned. She doesnt sound like a very happy person or maybe she likes being dominant and bossy, you could do something totally strange and just buy her flowers or something for no reason. Even though you dont like her a simple gesture like this or saying hi and smiling to her when you get into work then she might, MIGHT, be nicer to you and your fellow co-workers. Its just an idea lol. Anyways, if she continues to give you trouble and no one does anything about it then really, find a new job. Its better if you find a job you like rather than staying in a job your growing to hate because of her. xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Dealing with a problematic boss is part of the working world and if you want to work you need to learn to ignore things. Arguing with your boss (or anyone at work) is a terrible idea if you want a job.
Her commute has nothing to do with anything.
I don't see what you're asking. Seems more like a rant or that you're sharing news.
I'll repeat this again, and maybe eventually it'll get through your thick skull: seek medical attention, such as a therapist. We cannot help you here.
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If your company is worth it at all, they will deal with her. You did the right thing by going above her head. For now, just tough it out and keep making complaints if she's doing anything wrong. Things will work out for you!
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