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I'm Em.

I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.

I dig art, music and books.

I'll take questions on relationships, friendships, high school, uni, or whatever else.



I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.







Photo:

Yayoi Kusama

"Infinity Mirror Room"

Performance art.

Mirrors, soft sculptures.

Castellane Gallery, New York.

1965.




Gender: Female
Location: Sydney, Australia.
Member Since: January 11, 2007
Answers: 391
Last Update: May 22, 2014
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Thank you, there was no abuse, she lied about everything and I got in the middle of it. Lesson learned. :(


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Thank you so much and I hope I can just keep it up.


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thanks!


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Thank you so much for your help! You gave me the best advice I have ever received on my writing dreams. Thank you sooo much. You've really helped


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thank you so much that is the best advice i have ever heard thank you so much...


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wow thank you so much.. this really helped me look at the situation in a different perspective! i'll definitely try these tips!


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thanks


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Thank you that's very good advice and I very much appreciate it :D I will do all I can to meet them and will contact them somehow wish me luck!! Thanks


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Thanks a lot! this is very good information!


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Awsome advice! Thank you!


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Thanks for the advice. I forgot mention that i do have a therapist. Been going to her for about half a year. Nothinngs really seems to change but again thanks


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Oh my gosh, thank you for taking up your time to help me out..I appreciate it :3 !


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Thanks again


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thank you for your advice!! :)


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Honestly the best advice ive gotten yet because it helps to know someone else has felt this pain, I finally heard from him shortly after I posted this and ended it. Still havent heard from him since so I doubt he'll be back this time:( anyways I guess its for the best. Thank you so much


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Thank you! :)


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Thanks sooooo much. When I came to check if anyone answered my question today, I thought nobody would take the time, or they'd just say "that's too long, I'm not even going to try to read it." your advice has really inspired me, I even printed it out and put it in my room to encourage me whenever I feel down again. Now I really feel like my problems aren't the end of the world, and I can get through them and become the person I want to be. that just because my life hasn't been perfect doesn't mean it can't improve if I give it all my effort like you did. and that a lot of other people go through the same thing as me. Rather than saying I hope this will be my turning point, I'll say it WILL be because I'll try to make it that way.. and spend less time wishing for things to happen, and more time actually working toward my goals.. something I forgot for some reason. So I am eternally grateful for your help, and wish you the best as well. xx


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That was great, thankyou!


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you gave me some great ideas thank you i appreciate your help


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thanks :) you were completely right about not having a negative relationship with the girl. and that im waiting for him to do something about it.


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thanks


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Thank you so much your advice helped me feel a lot better :)


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thank you


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thank you so much. you reallyyy helped. your a sweetheard too<3


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Thanks :)


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aawww thanks :)


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Thank you! That was very helpful. :)


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Thank you so much (: Yeah, I think I understand a bit better, I'll look more into all this, but you've put me in the right direction. Cheers. <3


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Thank you so much! And I didn't get it checked outyet but I would like to keep you posted... My email is stranjeowens@aol.com or hotberry1995@yahoo.com... Email me please nd good luck on your exams


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Thank you very much. You don't know how much you've helped.


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thank you!!!


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THANK U SOO MUCH....I HADN'T MADE MY MOVE YET BUT U BOOSTED MY CONFIDENCE TO DO SO!!!


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Thank you. You really helped a lot :)


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i like the letter thing, i think i'll do that ;)


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Thank you SO much! You've really inspired me to do more about getting inspired haha :) I'm actually having the priveledge to visit the Salvador Dali gallery in Florida and I can NOT wait! Thanks again, great advice!!!


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Thankyou these are great ideas! x


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thank you!!


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thankx...well at lest this is actually advice.


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That was great advice!!!


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ok, thanks a bunch =) that made me feel a lot better =) thanks again <3


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I wouldn't think the calling thing is such a big deal, but he goes around telling me "if I say I'm going to do something, I do it" just because he knows that's what I want to hear. One time he calls and says "I miss that smile" and "I woke up thinking about you" and then over a week goes by and he can't even pick up the phone and call me? That's mixed signals, and that doesn't fly with me. Oh, and the two guys I'm talking to know each other. They aren't friends or anything, but I know they are who they say they are. I'm not just going to go somewhere alone with them, I'm careful. Thanks for the advice. :]


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thankssss


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thanks!


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THANK U!!!


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thank you very much for the advice..ik i cant really do anything about it but it just gets me sooo frusterated!


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Um.. no they don't bleed..


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ik im shallow. lol. thank u. n ill try not to be


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Thnxx so much, I've been rejected mby this other guy I really liked and after that I just never really had the guts to ask someone else out again. I always waited until they asked me. I think I will ask him him to do something this weekend and see if what happens. That was alot of help. Thanks again.


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I get what your saying, but people always ask me, "your her friend" and sometimes its hard to say yes. And yes I have lost respect for her. I wish she hadn't told and yes I wouldnt have a problem with her. This is good advice tho, so thank you.


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THANKS ! love tha advice


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GOOD IDEAS ! thanks. :)


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thanks :) but like we dont really flirt we like idk its had to explain: nvm i guess


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thanks your right


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thanks so much!


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Good idea. Thanks for the advice.


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read my update then can you add more. she knows i like her well thought i dono. i feel absolutly no love between us now.


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Thank you so much for youw wonderfull advice. "if it was YOU in HER situation, she would want you to do the same thing","take her phone and turn it off".Really, thank you so much.


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thank you soo muchhhhhhh!! :)


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thanks :)


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thanks! im kid of nervous now :) lol but thanks: it helps :)


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thank you =]


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Thanks :)


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thanks :) im glad someone can relate.


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haha acme is a grocery store..i dont really want to work there that much but its better than nothing...i think acme is only on like the east coast of the U.S so other people miught not know what it is but thanks and australia is pretty sweet always wanted to go


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thanks !!!!!!!


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thanks, that helps a lot !


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great, thank you! i actually just found out i can probably see them twice a year. your advice was great, take care and God bless!


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thank you =]]


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thanks


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thank you so much!!


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thanks for answering my question but i dont need to be told im to young, kthanks.


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yea things are a bit routine around here for us.


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hi thank u, frankly, though your answer was not exactly what i was looking for, but it has literally opened my eyes. thank you very much again :-)


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Thank you, I made an apt. to see my dr.


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Hey thanks. i already have sorta, well he knows but i just cant do it to him. i really cant. he beamed at me when hetold me and i cant do it to him. its more like if ya love someone u let them go sorta thing haha. thanks for the advice :)


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thanksss:]


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Aww! I loveee this response! It's awesome. Keep up the good work.


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Actually she was extremely popular everyone knows her they just dont know about the myspace.


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Thanks very much =) You helped a lot


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thanks that wat i wanted to hear.


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I don't like my ex. I just don't want to hurt him. thanks!


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you helped alot and ill try it out, thanks!


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thanks for the help


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Thanks. :]


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thank you! thanks for giving song names also! you rock :]


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Thank you :) I'll try these...my parents don't know about my depression problems (I spend all my time locked in my room really)so it'd probably be hard for them to realize this...


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thank you, great advice =)


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thankks :)


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thanks=]


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Hey thanks for the advice i really appreciate it but you see i do want to talk to him and be friends and then just see what happens but i'm so shy when it comes to guys i like i mean i've oly had one boyfriend and well i barely consider him a boyfriend because i had to move like a week or two after we got together and in that week we barely talked so i have no experience in that department and so i dont know how to talk to guys i like i know it sounds stupid or whatever but even if i talked to him and he actualy does like me and we start going out i'd be clueless as to what would happen after that and yeah


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thanks already in a sport suck at drawing lol an what about when we get done outside oh whatever we can watch movies thanks


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I'm too much of a wuss to do so. And even if I did, I'd do it in a joking way and he might not get it. lol guys are obtuse sometimes XD


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YOUR FREAKIN AWSOME!!!


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thanks! i've tried licking and sucking too.. i have done it slow and faster.. but he really doesnt cum :( i've seen him cum though.. but it was by his own doing.


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Thanks.


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yup, we always talk about everything, our relationship is great. i just think really bad. but thanks. =] you made me feel better




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