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bestfriend
So, I have a bestfriend like, we're together ALL the time i mean i love her to death i really do but she has this boyfriend that shes had since 8th grade and he plays her soooo bad! hes cheated on her so many times like i wouldn't be surprised if it was over 30 times seriously, and it makes me sick but I try to get her away from him but she just wont. I've tried talking to her and doing everything I can to help her out but it just doesn't help anything. What do you think i can do to get her away from him?
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You really cant do anything about it. just be a good friend and keep letting her know how you feel and WHY you feel that way. Be there when she figures out that she made a mistake to support her! good luck!
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You can't do anything. You need to let her learn her lesson. Let her fall and then help her get back up. Tell her that you really tried. Say that he wasn't for her, he didn't care about her the way she cared about him.
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you really can't do anything.
i have a bestfriend like that and she told me she listens to my advice, but sometimes she doesn't take it,
even though she knows she is going to get hurt.
if you keep pushing her,
she is not going to want to be friends with you.
meet new guys or something, and then like talk about how great they are.
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Really you cant. Your just going to have to let her find out on her own.
If you keep pushing her, she will turn against you.
She probably knows what you are talking about but when a person is love struck they dont want to let go.
So all I can tell you to do is be her shoulder. Just be there for her. Cuz inside thats what she needs from you.
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Ok the reality of it is she really likes this guy and doesn't want to let him go. The longer she stays with him the harder its going to be to let go and shes just going to end up getting hurt. You can't force her to dump him and it's good that your trying to tell her, that's what good friends do. Most people would be to afraid to hurt her feelings or something but being honest is the only way. Try to find some time to yourselves and tell her straight out he treates her bad, she's being played and she deserves better. Other than that, there isn't really much you can do. Its her choice if she wants to be with him or not and you can't change that no matter how much you want to. She'll get smart soon and realise she deserves better but for the time being, just give him dirty looks when you see him lol. You could always talk to this guy and get him to stop cheating on her or something? Anyways, your friend does deserve better and she's just gona get hurt, i hope she'll be ok. And when she does get hurt, atleast she has a good friend like you. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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