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Hi ya'll! I'm IC (no, I'm not going to tell my real name) and I moved to Texas when I was 6. I like giving advice and hope I can give YOU some advice too!
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Hello .
Right now,My mom hates me. She hits me and doesn't love me.
She wants to put me up for adoption.
Do you know what age you can be put up for adoption in California.
Thanks. (link)
I am so sorry for you! It must be terrible to be put in this posistion! You should really talk to an adult. I mean, you can put a baby up for adoption right when it's born but now I think that your mom putting you up for adoption at your age (however old you are) is just too wrong. You need to talk to someone.... soon.


I have a friend that drinks and she is only 16. I try to stop her but she just laughs and hands me a beer. How can I tell her that what he is doing is wrong? She finds all these places to drink without being caught! Please help! (link)
You need to talk to her and tell her that if she keeps drinking, she'll be wasted. If she drinks and tries to get you to drink, why waste your time with this "friend"? You're just bringing yourself down with trying to stop your friend. If you truly love her with all your heart, you'll need to tell an adult. They'll stop the problem.... hopefully.


i feel like all my friends are drifting away and all i have left is the guy im sleeping with that is causing my friends to drift away and one best friend that lives about 2hours away. i need friends here and i need the friends i have to come back. im probably going to stop sleeping w/ my guy friend because people always find out about us and it causes drama. i need something to do especially with my closest friend that lives here that's going to bring us closer together. we used to be like sisters and now we're holding together by strings. don't tell me to get new friends. these people are all i have left, they're my life. (link)
Maybe they are trying to tell you something, like the guy is the wrong person for you. Maybe they're trying to get you to learn a lesson. Like maybe the guy is cheating on you and they don't want to hurt you by telling you straight in your face.Ask your friend what's up and maybe they'll tell you what's happening. In my opinion, the guy has something to do with your friend problem.


So, I have a bestfriend like, we're together ALL the time i mean i love her to death i really do but she has this boyfriend that shes had since 8th grade and he plays her soooo bad! hes cheated on her so many times like i wouldn't be surprised if it was over 30 times seriously, and it makes me sick but I try to get her away from him but she just wont. I've tried talking to her and doing everything I can to help her out but it just doesn't help anything. What do you think i can do to get her away from him? (link)
You can't do anything. You need to let her learn her lesson. Let her fall and then help her get back up. Tell her that you really tried. Say that he wasn't for her, he didn't care about her the way she cared about him.


ok well i am getting a big dog but i dont want it to be bad at humping things. so what dogs are really bad at humping things, and whats the worst dog at humping things. plzz help, im gettin one tomorrow.

thx in advance (link)
Get any big dog and get it neautered. They can't hump things then and will be LESS violent.


my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and i just got a new puppy and i named her cuddles but cuddles crys all the time and she follows me everywhere and it's begining to got on my nerves and also i was wanted to know how to house train
a puppy? (link)
She probably whines because she's not used to the cage yet. It might be frightening for her to stay in a cage all alone at night.

When she follows you, it's probably because she wants to be with you. Loyal and very eager to please! My dog is 4 years old and he STILL does it. Teach her to SIT & STAY!When she gets older, she'll have more time to sleep all day. Most dogs do it, don't worry.


ok so everytime i get near my kitten she bites me alott. and really hard. i dont know what to do. liek if i just want to pet her she'll just bite me really hard out of nowhere. she doesnt liek me. and i try to be nice to her. like she trys to control me. how can i let her know that i want her no be nicer, and that im the boss? thansk alottt. (link)
Well, it's a kitten right? Maybe it's mad because it's teething or something is wrong with her teeth. Maybe you have some kind of smell on your fingers. I know this trick is for dogs but....

You give them a hairbrush to chew on. Whenever they try to bite on it, they will recieve an unharmful but shocking poke from the bristles on the hairbrush.


Hi there,

My cousins girlfriend is sniffing around my man, I don't think she's attractive at all, but she seems to think she is.

I'll try and add a picture in a bit

Also, what would be a good way to really humiliate her - just so she learns her lesson? (link)
Don't humiliate her! Just tell her that you're his girl and to find another guy. Tell her that she can't always win and that she shouldn't steal your guy. You should also tell HIM about your cousin. See what he thinks and how he reacts. That should shed some light on your problem.


okay well my mom saw my myspace pictures of me drinking and smoking and shes mad and she said im grounded for a month but thats like all summer and were going to have a talk when i get home and i dont no what i say do lie or what can i say"? (link)
Tell the truth. You can't always win a fight you know. Your dig your own grave, don't mess up. She already saw the pictures, why lie about the things you did? Besides, you shouldn't have posted the pictures on. You'll feel guilty if you lie, and have a burden on your shoulders. Sure, you'll get punished, but that's your mom's way of trying to protect you and communicate with you about how to run your life and not get wasted. But don't worry, she won't run your life forever.


This is more of a question than asking for advice but I want a new dog but I don't know what kind to get. I want a small dog (not small just as a puppy but for it's life). I want it to be cute, smart, easy to train, and friendly with strangers. Can anyone give me names of dogs/pictures?

BTW: I know all of these qualities are based on opinion but try to answer them the best you can.
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A golden retriever or labrador are friendly, eager to please, quick learners, but NOT small! They like to run around and play all day.

Beagles are for huntng. They are also the most friendliest and are quite small. I think that you should get either a golden retriever, labrador, or beagle.


how come whenever i get the mail, theres like most of the time, always a dog staring at me out the window, and it barks as i walk? that same dog has been doing that for ages and for everyone who walks by their house. and next door like twice THEIR dog did the same thing. do all dogs do this? why do they wait by the window alot anyways? i dont get it.. (link)
Well, first it depends on the type of dog. A small dog is kinda spoiled sometimes and big dog is kind of like a guard dog. It hapens to me too. Dogs are sometimes territorial. Maybe they've "marked their territory" where you go if you know what I mean. Some dogs are also lonely. They want to be with people and make friends. It's not weird.


my dog had to be put down a couple days ago. I can't get over it. what shall I do? (link)
Well, don't think about the death of your dog. The best thing is to remember all the good times. I had a dog that ran away after a typhoon in Hong Kong and I just remembered the funny times. Like when he used to get up on his two hind legs and dance. You should also read Marley & Me, it's a very funny and comical book that I can relate to by John Grogan.


I have this "friend" and she is totally annoying. She calls me, talks to me all the time, and is really obsessed with this fugly guy Tyler. Well I think she knows we (me and my bff) don't like her, but i also feel bad because NOBODY DOES!!! What can i do without hurting her feelings? %( (link)
Well, me and my friend used to have this problem; but we were in 1st Grade then. You should just say: "Hey, I really think you're a good person and I don't to make you feel bad or anything but.... we're not the same people. I'm sure that someone can relate to you in this world, but that person isn't me. Don't worry, there are billions of other people."




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