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Hey there. I'm Claire. I'm here to listen and give advice to anyone who needs it. I hope that I was am or will be able to help you with what you need help with. :]

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E-mail: clairedearxdr@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: I'm from the states.
Occupation: Student. Highschool.
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Member Since: June 30, 2007
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Last Update: August 18, 2007
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Ok so i am having a problem with myspace right now. It wont let me hide my interests and details and stuff and it makes my layout look REALLY bad and its like RIGHT in the middle, and i cant get rid of it even with the code, can anyone give me a different code to ride the details and interests? cause maybe that will work. Pleaseee! I really need your help because these kind of things get me REALLY pissed off! has this happened to anyone else by the way?

Go to http://www.createblog.com/scripts/index.php?script=myspace_scripts

and then search for the codes you need, there are always duplicates of some codes in case one doesn't work.

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I recently bought puma sneakers with suede on them. The lady at the store said that they can get ruined in the rain, but I always see a ton of people wearing them all the time with no problems. They're the Puma Women's Speed Cat. How would I take care of them?? Should I really not wear them in the rain?? Any cheap products I can buy?? Any other ideas/opinions?? Thanks!!

At the store just ask for water protection for your sneakers. It's this spray you put on the seude to keep it from getting ruined. I had to do that with my puma sneakers too.

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well school is about to start, and everytime i think about it, i get all excited and i get this weird feeling in my sthomach, why do i always get that feelings?

Its just anxiousness. I get anxious and nervous right before school too, because I don't know whats going to happen and seeing people again.

I get the same feeling, but it seems to go away like a day or two after school starts.

good luck!
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okayyy...for some reason when i was reading stephenie meyer's "eclipse" i got SO confused!!! i'm confused on what exactly jaspers story was and the whole thing about him fighting...??and i'm confused about almost the entire middle of the book, like when they're going to go out and find whoever snuck into bella's room or something. and i don't get why the volturi are involved and why theres so much talk about them...i'm just SOOO confused!!! i need like a who summary of the middle of the book or somethinggg...

First off, I wanted to know if you read Twilight and New Moon before Eclipse because if not, then you should. Because they will help you to understand this book.

Okay so Jasper's story of how he became a vampire was never really clear so he tells the truth, he was turned into a vampire to fight other vampires to keep territory for his creators. The Volturi are the famous coven of vampires in Italy that are like the royalty for vampires, they hold the peace and rules.

Okay so in New Moon there is a vampire Victoria after Bella because Edward killed her lover and so now she wants to kill Edwards lover, which is Bella. So she does the same thing Jasper was used to do. She makes a group of "New born Vampires" to fight the family because she wants to get to Bella.

Oh! and if you have anymore questions, you know where to find me. :]

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how can you have a back ground on advicenators. like besides colors. do you have to buy something or do you just get a layout from like a myspace website type thing and do it that way?

You could use the premade backgrounds that are on here. Go to the left side bar where all the navigation is and under miscellaneous is page backgrounds, click on it and then copy the url of the background you want and put it under the url background when you edit your column settings.

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i wanna put a music player in my myspace but i dont know where to get one. i buy my songs from itunes so i would use songs from there .. pleasee help

I use this and its easy.
http://www.projectplaylist.com/

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i need a change in my hair. i have about three inches below the shoulder-lengh hair, side bangs. i was thinking about cutting it to my shoulders, thinning it out(my hairs thick) and layering it. but i want a "new me" so does anyone have any cool ideas about what i should do. nothing too dramatic but something that will make me look ah-mazing.
thank you tons.

Something like this but thinner hair.

http://images.google.com/
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beauty.about.com/od/photosmediumhairstyles/ss/
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images%3Fq%3Dshoulder%2Blength%2Bhair%2Bstyles%
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I dont know i just liked that one.
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(it's one link)

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What is a good, cheap, digital camera that i could get for under 100 dollars. I've been looking around but i just dont know which cameras better or if im wasting my money. Thanks in advance.

p.s. i dont want one that shows the time and date and all the on the picture(haha) yeah.

http://buy.ebonza.com/Electronics/Digital_Cameras/110563
http://www.digitalcamerasource.net/fuji-finepix-a360-megapixel-refurbished-p-30139.html
those are two that are under 100. I dont own them so i dont know if they are great but i try.

Hope you get a nice camera :]

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So... yeah.

I'm 16/F.. i'll be a senior next year (yes, i'm young for my grade.... 17 in september) and i've never had a boyfriend. I sort of had one freshman year, but it wa more of a... nothing, really. it was like we said we were going out, but we couldn't drive and we were like 14 and whatever. it was dumb.

Anyways, so i've only kissed two guys in my life. One was that not-boyfriend in 9th grade... and it was pretty much him jumping down my throat and i hated it. And the other was spin the bottle. Which was a good kiss, but it obviously didn't mean anything. The bottom line is, i really want a boyfriend.

And that sounds shallow, i know it does. I've always been the girl who's always saying, "i don't want to have a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend. I want it to mean something." And i still want it to mean something... but i just want it to happen sooner rather than later.

My friends always talk about who hooked up with who, most of them have already had sex, (with at least one person... in several cases more than that) and i really feel like i missed the boat. I'm not gorgeous. But i'm not ugly...i see weirder girls with boyfriends. And i mean, i'm not the most confident girl around, but i'm not completely introverted. I'm just not sure how to go about meeting someone and having a relationship that will last... at least until i go to college. Another problem, more like inconvenience, is that i don't drink. so i don't go to a lot of the parties everyone else goes to.

I know what i like in a boy. Funny, clever, smart, goodlooking... perfect? is that too much to ask? I had a dream last night. I was rooming someplace... a hotel or a dorm room or something. And there was this slim boy with dark hair next door. He brought me to his room and we just hung out. Played video games.. whatever. I dont' remember a lot, but there was a lot of laughing and smiling... a some cuddling. And i was so happy... probably the happiest i've been in a long time.

Is it so bad to want that feeling to be real? Am i too picky? am i asking too much?

How can a meet the boy of my dreams? litterally.

Any advice?
Thanks.

I think that your are not asking too much. There is a guy out there for you. It is definitely not wrong to have that feeling of wanting something special and not wanting to wait your whole life for it to happen. Many people have those same dreams, heck i have dreams like that. I think you should ask your friends or people to hang out and tell them to bring other friends. That could be one way to meet that special someone. Its not bad to wait till you get into college that is only a year which is not a long time considering you will be living for a extremely long time.

Good Luck in Virginia!
Hope you have a fun time also.
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Hi.
I love you.
That's all! :]

Hi i love you more.
and I just answered your question :]

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im almost 15 and i have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. One of his good friends who is a girl needs him for what shes going through at home right now. He admits that he has neglected me for his attetion has been focused on her. (BTW she likes him) I have told him that she has beginning to get between us, but he fails to see it and says im the only one who sees it. So what is really between us then? Am I right? Or is there something else?

I think boys are clueless when it comes to stuff like that. If you guys love eachother and you trust him then i wouldnt worry about it. It's okay to be jealous but just dont let it over shadow everything in the relationship. I think you need to tell that other girl that she and your boyfriend are only friends and thats it, case closed. I also think you need to gain a little bit more trust in your boyfriend and that might be why there is something between you guys is because you are scared he will leave you. Then again i might be wrong.

hoped this helped.
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what can i do if i unknowingly am really mean to any girls that talk to my boyfriend? i don't even relize i do it so how do i stop?

Well it sounds like you need to trust your boyfriend. And when there are other girls around him and you then just before opening your mouth count to ten in your head. Try to relieve any harsh or not nice feelings you have towards them before you talk to them. I write things down like in a notebook or something to relieve stress and anger so I dont go to someone and unleash that anger on them.

I hoped this helped.
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I NEED to get a job. I really dont want to work in the fast food industry because thats gross. Im 15/F. Any ideas?

I like to do stuff with arts and crafts. I thought about working at a scrap book store or some place that sells art supplies. You could also try waitressing in a nice restaurant or work in a clothing store.

Good Luck :]

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15/f

my friends all tell me i eat way too little, and im too skinny, but when i went to my doctor, he said, im close to below average, but still average. this is an example of how i eat daily..

BREAKFAST:
a strawberry banna smoothie. which contains like..
-1 cup ice.
-i strawberry, IT WAS KINDA BIG.
-1 banana
-1 cup of ice creamm.

LUNCH:
-half of a cucumber.
-with probably like 1 tablespoon of ranch dressing.

DINNER:
oh i had alot for dinner.
-half of a cheese sandwich
-some cherries. like 4 tops?


so i mean, is that not enough? i mean i only eat whne my stomach is growling.

That is not enough, you need at least 1000 calories. Your meals add up to like a total of 600. That is too little.

Although reading this is making me hungry : )

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does anyone think people who have birthday parties are a little self-involved?

If that person is mean about it or uses the party to make sure the spot light is on them and nothing else matters then yes. But i think birthday parties with my friends where we play cards and go out places and eat pizza till we barf and have a sleepover or something is a really fun way to spend a birthday!

: )

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I'm going to be a freshman in HS this coming year and I'm moving to a different city so I have to go to a school where I know no one. The thing that's good though is that it's a brand new school and it's just opening up so pretty much everyone's new. Even though that helps me a bit I'm still really nervous for starting HS w/o any of my friends with me. The thing is I can be a really shy person when I first meet new people and I get intimidated easily and the only time I'm really carefree and myself is when I'm surrounded by friends. Since I won't know anyone I know I'm gonna be really shy and it scares me that I won't make any friends, people won't like me, or stuff like that. I'd really appreciate any advice anyone could give me! Thanks!

I'm very shy like you. When i meet new people i can easily tell if they will be mean to me or not. Most of the time I just comment saying "Oh i like your shoes or something and if they say thanks enthusiastically and smile then i would pursue a conversation but if they just say thanks.. and look away then i wouldn't try.

I hate going to new schools. It really sucks. Good luck! I just finished my freshman year and I met soo many people and i had a great time.

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i dont really think im 'fat' but im a little over weigth. are there any ways i could lose alot of weight quickly!

thank you !

I was fat and then I lost weight by doing simple things as limiting my calorie intake to 1000 and I go walking with my friends or jogging with them so I dont realize im exercising and its fun. Just keep your heart rate elevated : )

good luck!

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I play violin by the way.

I am really interested in playing the guitar. But we only have an acoustic and no electric, and the music I want to play is mostly played on an electric and it sounds awkward. My mom doesn't like me playing the guitar b/c it will "mess" up my violin skills and it's not "lady like" Yeah, stupid. So there's basically 90% chance that I won't be able to get an electric/amp. Anywhos, I know all the strings, the notes, and everything. And I can always start learning on the acoustic I have at home. But the problem is that I can't get my fingers to stretch to all the notes I need to play at once. My hands are pretty small so it's hard to get to all the notes without interfereing with the other strings too. Any help there? And could anyone give me good sites that I can learn basics from?

Also, piano. I can play..with one hand. I can't play different notes simultaneously. Any tips on that?

If you were serious about playing the piano then i would start off by doing scales or practicing a song that has both left and right hand seperately and then put both hands together when you have it down. I play piano so if you have any other questions about that then just ask : )

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ok i was reading this magazine and in the magazine there were about 100 guys who described there perfect girl.

most said "caring, thoughtfull" but some of them described appearances. 1 guy said "preferebly long, brown hair" and the other said "curly, brunette hair" but none of them said blonde.

i have short blonde hair, and i was wondering if guys really do care about hair color or style.

thanks.

All the girls who are around me and are blonde get the guys. So i think it depends on the boy because my brother likes both colored hair. Actually i dont think he cares much about it.

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is ap spanish hard?

mucho hard. Although it depends on what kind of student you are. If your taking it then good luck!

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