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jealous
what can i do if i unknowingly am really mean to any girls that talk to my boyfriend? i don't even relize i do it so how do i stop?
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Well it sounds like you need to trust your boyfriend. And when there are other girls around him and you then just before opening your mouth count to ten in your head. Try to relieve any harsh or not nice feelings you have towards them before you talk to them. I write things down like in a notebook or something to relieve stress and anger so I dont go to someone and unleash that anger on them.
I hoped this helped.
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i think that youre are suppose to trust that your boyfriend wont ever like them better then you
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well you have to think about it cause what if he was mean to all the guys that talked to you, you know? act your same old self around him but when girls come just watch how you act and it should go fine :) and remember none of those girls could take him away from you if he picked you of all girls in the first place
hope i helped
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I am like that too.
You should just remember that you talk to other guys too.
You are naturally the jealous type and a lot of us are.
Try to think of your boyfriend's feelings when you are about to encounter one of the girls.
Try not saying anything at all because if you try saying something it might come out the wrong way, without you knowing.
Hope this helped.
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I would be really mean to all the girls who talk to my boyfriend, except I'd know about it and do it on purpose. Ha!
In all seriousness, the best thing you can do is to put yourself in his position. How would you want him to treat a friend of yours - guy or girl? That's how you need to be treating his friends. And it probably won't come naturally at first, so you're gonna have to practice at it. He'll see that you're making an effort and be touched that you're willing to make this change for him.
Whenever you find yourself in a situation where you're talking to them, constantly remind yourself that your boyfriend cares for you and that you trust him enough not to have to lash out at others out of insecurity. Hopefully you see that as the truth. If not, I would suggest examining your relationship and figuring out why you're so insecure in it. You should be happy and having fun. I promise, if you keep your guy happy, he'll be loyal to you.
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