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is she between us?
im almost 15 and i have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. One of his good friends who is a girl needs him for what shes going through at home right now. He admits that he has neglected me for his attetion has been focused on her. (BTW she likes him) I have told him that she has beginning to get between us, but he fails to see it and says im the only one who sees it. So what is really between us then? Am I right? Or is there something else?
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The thing between you two is the most famous thing in any relationship, Jealousy. Don't worry about it it happens very often. Just don't let it bother you, in fact help out with her problems too. She might need comfort, help HIM to help HER. ^^
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you're right. shes deffanitly between you guys. i've had this happen to me before, and most guys do fail to see it. try talking to him again and if anything else happens, fuck him. i know it's hard after 8 months but no one deserves to be treated like that.
but, i highly suggest to keep talking to him about it, maybe he will see.
good luck :]
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Now this is a hard one..
I understand how hard it is for you to see another girl confiding to your boyfriend. It's happened to me before but my boyfriend (who I am still with) was just only trying to help.. just like we all help on here.
You need to tell your boyfriend that you feel uncomfortable about this situation. As you said you two have been together for 8 months, i'm almost certain he wont leave you.
He probably is just trying to help her. Let him know that you don't mind him trying to help its a good thing but there is a fine line between helping and caring too much.
Perhaps you should talk to the girl as well.. let her know that if she needs a girl to talk to that you are there to help too. Perhaps suggest to her that if things are too bad she should see a professional psychiatrist or something.
Good luck :)
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I think boys are clueless when it comes to stuff like that. If you guys love eachother and you trust him then i wouldnt worry about it. It's okay to be jealous but just dont let it over shadow everything in the relationship. I think you need to tell that other girl that she and your boyfriend are only friends and thats it, case closed. I also think you need to gain a little bit more trust in your boyfriend and that might be why there is something between you guys is because you are scared he will leave you. Then again i might be wrong.
hoped this helped.
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