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She thinks were friends, but I cant stand her.
I have this "friend" and she is totally annoying. She calls me, talks to me all the time, and is really obsessed with this fugly guy Tyler. Well I think she knows we (me and my bff) don't like her, but i also feel bad because NOBODY DOES!!! What can i do without hurting her feelings? %(
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
well.
as you may know.
no one likes to be rejected.
so let her down easy;;
if she wants to hang out with you say you are doing something.
if she calls you cut the phone call down to like two minutes.
if she notices it just say that you have been busy lately,
or you could always just be honest with her, and tell her that she really bothers you,
not blunt and rude.
just honest. (in a kind way. )
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Well, me and my friend used to have this problem; but we were in 1st Grade then. You should just say: "Hey, I really think you're a good person and I don't to make you feel bad or anything but.... we're not the same people. I'm sure that someone can relate to you in this world, but that person isn't me. Don't worry, there are billions of other people."
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well that's kinda rude. maybe she doesn't know that you don't want to hear about tyler. therefore, it's not her fault. quit acting interested about tyler.
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Wow. I thought i was the only one that had ever been in this situation. I have this "friend" who just can't seem to get it that i HATE her. well, since i've tried so many times, i must say that there is no easy way to tell her to back off. Just tell her that you're tired of her and you don't want to hang out anymore. You just need to take charge. She'll fell left out, but she'll eventually get over it. But if you and your friends are going to "break up" with her (figuratively speaking of course) don't do it all at once, because that could cause her to do something that YOU will regret. Good luck!
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Okay there is no real way to break this to her without hurting her feelings. But honestly, by the look of it this may not be the only time that this has happened. I think you should sit her down and explain to her how you feel. If you want nothing to do with her then i suggest telling her that you can't continue the friendship because you think that she may be a little cllingy. Or maybe if you still want to have her as a slight accuaintance you can tell her calmly that you just need space. That always gives off a hint to back off. This "frienship" is definitely not fair for you and you need to let her know that. Back off yo! :) Anyway...
Hoping I helped,
FiaBean
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There is no way of doing this without hurting her feelings, but you would be hurting her more to continue this empty friendship.
You should just tell her that this friendship isn't working, and you feel it is time to move on to new friends. Don't worry about her- she'll find someone else to clutch onto.
I advise you tell her with your best friend by your side, so she understands you both feel this way, and she doesn't move on to nagging her.
It isn't fair for you to feel you have to hang out with her if you don't want, and it isn't fair to her to hang out with people who only pretend to like her. So the only way to go is to end it.
ygs-29/f
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theres people like this at any school. they just attach to someone to look like they have a best friend. if i were you id talk to someone else who would want to be her friend and help them become friends. if you cant think of anything to "get rid of her" then id just talk to her. and say that things areent really working out being friends like we had wanted. i dont think that would hurt her feelings - she's probably already noticed that you arent really FRiENDS. maybe she just wants someone to fall back on. tell her the truth. id talk to her about what she does that scares people away. ♥ i hope everything turns out okay with your "friend" because its a hard situation. =]
♥ good luckk! =] -- ♥ CAREE
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There's a girl in my school like this. She latches on to people even if she suspects them totally not liking her. She just brushes it off, but latches on to people to stay their friends.
I always say be honest with the person. No matter what you do you will hurt her feelings. Even if you don't mean it. Try talking to her and tell her that sometimes people need their space, and sometimes she doesn't give you and your friend that space. She needs to realize at one point that she can't latch on to friends to stay friends with people. Just talk and tell her how you feel. That's really the best advice I can give you.
Hope this helps and good luck. If anything message me. :)
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