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okay so I'm 14 f. I haven't had a boy firend yet, is that weird. See I'm in french immersion, and theres only lik 3 guys in it and there nerds. so all of my friends are nerds. I moved here last year so I don't really no many other people, but still. I mean, I've been asked out a lot, but that was at my old school and I was in grade 5-6-7 so "going out" with someone was just holding their hand in school, so I don't count that. Is it sad that I've never been on a REAL date? How can I change?

It's not sad at all! ♥ The middle school "going out" isn't really even REAL dating, so it's not a big deal. Don't change at all.

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I complain a LOT. And half the time I do it without meaning to...and it's starting to annoy me, let alone the people around me. Any tips on how I can stop complaining, or at least reduce the amount of complaining I do?
I whinge about all sorts of things, from the weather to homework to the fact that I'm tired/hungry/bored...whatever. It sucks, I feel like I don't have a good word to say about anything any more...I want to be positive again, but how?

Ugh, I know your feeling. Think of this: People have it worse than you sometimes. I know it seems weird, but it helps. ♥

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whenever i get my monthlies *i'm a girl* when i sleep i can't sleep with my back on the mattress because i'll get stains on places where the pad doesn't cover. so, my question is wut can i do to ensure that i won't get stains when i wake up like how i can position the pad or w/e stuff like that please help this is getting really annoying thanks

Try putting a towel down on your bed, so incase of a leak, it doesn't go on your sheets. Positioning, is up to you and how it feels on you.

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i am going shopping for stuff that i need to make a quilt. i am sewing it all by hand and i know how to sew. i was just wondering if anyone know what i have to buy or do to cut the fabric into even squares. thanks!

I believe craft stores sell patterns and instructional books, walmart does too in their craft section. Good luck ♥

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i have problems with the way im feeling.. like it sounds weird but i never know how to feel.. like i dont know who i am or what i want or what i like.. im always thinking of what other people like.. i try not to but im always just thinking so much.. please help

Life has its ups and downs. If you wanna talk message me ♥

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here it goes- i am 14 years old, and i still havent gotten my period.. is that a bad thing? or is it normal? please help!

It's not bad, some people don't get it until their like 17! But you should tell your mom, if she doesn't already know, because if your 18 and you don't get it, you should go see a doctor just incase. It's normal though, because everyone grows and develops at their own pace.

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What are some good movies.. mostly chick flicks or comedy.. thanks!

DIARY OF A MAD BLACK WOMAN < IN THEATERS
The Notebook
Win A Date With Tad Hamilton
Legally Blonde
Miss Congeinality

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I really want to buy this wallet from the David and Goliath website, but i heard from a friend that someone that already bought the wallet found it to not be very good quality. does anyone have a wallet from there that could tell me whether its worth buying or not? if not...where can i get a cute wallet?

David and Goliath is pretty decent quality, not for long time use though. I'd say it'd stay in perfect condition for a few months, but by a year and a half it's not that great anymore, but most wallets do that away. Claire's sells inexpensive cute wallets that resemble D&G, and if you have extra money, Dooney and Bourke and/or Coach wallets are truly amazing and will withstand basically anything.

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Im thinking of having a spa kind of day today but i dont have a face mask product to use so i want to make a natural one. does anyone know what i can use from around my house that works, like food?

Try mixing dry oatmeal with honey, I read about it somewhere, works pretty well too!

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The country that I live in is debating the Death Penalty. I Do not understand the understanding that the death penalty is ok. You are killing someone still aren't you? I realize that the people scentenced are usually murderers and other things along that line. I just want to know both sides of the story. I looked it up on Google and it is not what i am looking for. I want opinions on BOTH side.

I can't believe this! I'm doing an essay on it! Would you like to see it once I'm done- just message me! Anyway, try ASK.COM and look up CAPITOL PUNISHMENT.

http://www.deathpenaltyinfo.org/article.php?did=199&scid=15

That's also a great site.

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well i just became a vegatarian 2 weeks ago and all my friend does is joke about it she even made up a song up about eating meat and this pisses me off and gives me stomache aches and makes me want to burst out and she knoes but i still feel like its rude of her and i hate that feeling .. what can i do ?? .. thnx ... Love, MauraAnN

IT IS RUDE ♥ There is NOTHING wrong with what your doing, I actually admire you. She's not really a good friend to do that. IGNORE HER, or move to another table with nicer friends. Good luck!

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My sister is a lesbian, and I am good friends with her girlfriend. When I am introducing the two of them to other people I always find myself saying "this is my sister and her friend."
I know I should say girlfriend, but I never can get it out.

Is it alright if I just say friend to avoid akward moments and let coversations to contiune to flow, or do you think it is affending to my sister and her girlfriend?

"partner" might help. at first it might be awkward, and people might judge you like your sister, but you are your own person. ♥ good luck!

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Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided?

If its super fancy, try using the cutlery provided.

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I'm going to get a piercing this up coming weekend, but I've never been to a "real" tattoo and piercing parlor. My piercing should be about $90 Canadian at most, so I'm wondering how much is it customary to tip? Does it vary with service, or is their a flat percentage of cost that most people tip?

I believe - this is in the USA- but anywhere from 15% - 20%

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I'm going into 9th grade, and I have red hair, freckles, and light skinned. What would you suggest I should wear? My school really doesn't have much of a dres code either. THANKS :) [I rate good =)]

Clothes- A cute polo with jeans OR a cute peasant top with a flowy skirt.

Makeup- Pale pink lipgloss, brown or purple eyeliner [pale purple looks cute! seen it in ads for covergirl] with a messy ponytail

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I jus got signed with an agent for my voice!! and in 3 weeks im supposed to go to L.A. to record my first cd!! im so excited...but im really nervous and sad ill have to leave my friends in my freshman year. i know i should take the job considering ill be BiG and i really wanna see my name in lights but im so scared ill lose my friends while im gone and all the new friends ill make (celebs maybe :)) will not turn out to be real and ill be all alone! what to do!? HELP!

First of all- CONGRATS ♥

Keep in touch with your friends, never forget them by phone, via email, and visits =]

Hopefully I'll be buying your cd soon! ♥

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My friend katie and lisa and this other girl carly, were waiting after practice for their rides and carly had Katies cell phone and she threw it on lisa to get her to pay attention. Since Lisa wasn't paying attention, she didn't catch it, so it bounced off her stomach and hit the ground and it kinda broke, some pieces came off and the front is all messed up. Carly acted liek it was nothing, and didn't really apologize. My questions are:
1. Do you think Carly should pay a small price to get it fixed or for consulation? Or have her apologize.
2. If so, how should katie approach her and ask for either money or an apology?

Thanks

1. Definitely, it was her fault!
2. Katie should say "Look, you broke my phone, and now I feel that you really owe me the money and an apology."

GOOD LUCK ♥

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Why is it when I look at certain people's typing, my eyes begin to burn? My eyes burn especially with sticky caps, and internet abbreviations.
(luv, gurl, boi, seckz, lol, brb, kay, ur, u, r, etc)
It's almost unbearable, how do I make it stop?

Happens to me - you have to get off the comp for a little while, or shut your eyes for a few mins. Hope I've helped ♥

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ok i know this is really random and sounds stupid, but whenever my mom eats, she doesn't eat with her mouth closed. this really bothers me because it looks and sounds really disgusting, but none of my other family members seem to notice. how can i tell her, politely, that i think it's disgusting and she should stop (because she does it in public too!)

Tell her.. "Mom, I'm not sure if you know, but I don't want you to be embarrassed, so I have to tell you. When you chew, sometimes you have your mouth open, and it doesn't look very nice." Hope it helps, I had to talk to a friend about this, and it worked! ♥

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How in the world do I get my co-worker to stop interrupting? She expects you to respond the split second she yells from her office. If you don't respond she marches out and starts talking to me even if I'm on the phone or having another conversation. Just some sarcastic help on shutting her down would help :)

Oh my god. I know exactly where you are coming from. I'd say "I'm sorry, I'll be there in a second when I'm done." If it keeps up, explain to her that you aren't her little slave who jumps everytime she calls ♥ good luck!

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