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i have problems with the way im feeling.. like it sounds weird but i never know how to feel.. like i dont know who i am or what i want or what i like.. im always thinking of what other people like.. i try not to but im always just thinking so much.. please help
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Let me guess. You tell your self how to feel. Like ok he broke up with me I should be strong and be ok in like this many days. Am I right? Basically you have to find your self. You need some time for your self to see what you want out of life and where you are going to go with it. Even though I’m guessing you are a teen so you won't have all the answers. Another thing is that you may think too much. You have to let your self just do things at times with out thinking to much about it. Most people would say thinking before you act, in your case you need to act sometimes and make mistakes to see what is right and wrong for you. If you think I’m on target here and you want to know more you can ask me.
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Thinking isn't a bad thing always. Sounds to me like they are suggesting you go too much with faith. I don't suggest you throw all faith away and go copmletely on fact, Gods know we have enough Scientologists, but perhaps you should just do some sort of vague research project. Look for something, whatever you want. Pick the topic. Or have someone else pick for you. Then research it. Unlike school, if you find that the topic sucks, pick a new one. Just find something that you're interested in, there's no way that you aren't interested in anything. Once you find it, you can continue the studies further, and you'll feel much better. It will be a way to find what you like, what you want, perhaps what you want to do in the future.
If nothing else, you can try what I do a lot. Stop caring about other people for a while. Put yourself first. If you become a kind generous and subservient person, then face it, your life will suck.
But like I said, thinking isn't necessarily bad. Say you enjoy theology. Then you can think about that all day long, and you'll be thinking, and you'll enjoy it.
I don't know maybe I have no idea what I'm talking about, but as it says at the bottom of this page: "We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content."
Feels good not to have responsibility, doesn't it?
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okay i must admit this is a verfy difficult question. but i will answer it the best i can. okay. if you dont know who you are you dont know how to feel. so you need to find out who you are. it might be best to do up a family tree. find out where your ancestors came from. that will help you with your past. when you look into the mirror, repeat over and over in your head your full name. and think of all the people you care for that love you. you can tell who you are by the people you are associated with. like say there is a relative of some description, lets say an aunt. you can say i am her neice. or i am her best friend, that kind of thing. thats all i can say to help but i hope it helped you. you are special. everyone is special in their own special way so dont ever think that people dont care. and if you seriously cant find anyone that cares, know this. i care. i care about everyone i meet. so feel free to contact me for any help you could ever possibly need. no matter how stupid it may seem. i am here for you. my e-mail is angiemills88@hotmail.com
~ange
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Hey..live life your way and follow what you believe@! you only have one life so dont continue to follow others! Gradually make your own choices and do stuff your way. It will take time but soon you will be more independant,
-melissa-
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i know how you feel..like you are influenced by people around you...write poetry that comes from your heart and some stories too..its a great way for self discovery. poetry expresses your true feelings so try that and let me know how it goes..
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