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Love means giving somebody the ability to destroy you & trusting them not to do it.



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okay i gots a boyfriend I got 4 days ago. We kissed on new years eve and that was my first kiss ever but i felt nothing. No spark or anything. I find myself wishing hed break up with me sometimes. I dont know why though its like I stopped liking him. There is just no chemistry. Please tell me what I should do
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From my past I learned that you should NEVER keep a relationship going when you are POSITIVELY sure that there is NO chemistry between the two people.

I honestly think that you should break up with him.
You might have second thoughts about it and you might want to keep the relationship going to see if you will start to like him again but chances are you WON'T. And there is just nothing you can do about it.


It's better to just end it now then to lead him on because he might start to have even stronger feelings for you and then that would just be more trouble to get your self into when you do not like him.

If you are unhappy with him then end it.



what are sum programs to download any type of music? (link)
http://www.limewire.com/english/content/home.shtml

^ Limewire is free. I have it and it's fast.



what goes best with a black tube top..

- dark blue jeans
- denim mini skirt
- or white white

thanks. i rate 5's (link)
Denim mini skirt.



how do i get a picture in my column that is greater than 15k? help me please!
thanks ♥ (link)
Go to www.photobucket.com.
Make an account there if you don't already have one there.
Save your picture and get the URL.
(You will see the URL under the picture after you upkoad it.)
Paste the URL into your column settings where it says URL of a picture of you.

If you are still having trouble drop one in my inbox ♥


how do you make the heart things not like this (link)
& hearts;

Be sure to take out the space though.



OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?

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Hey hun

I know exactly what you are talking about.

But in my opinion I think you should NOT dump him just because he is not good looking.

Looks are not everything.

If you like the guy that is all that matters NOT what people think about him.

People might judge but ignore it.

If you dump him because people might start talking that is the wrong thing to do because you might never find a guy like him.

You should definitely keep going out with the guy and IGNORE everything.




For Christmas I got a free card that allows me to download 60 free songs. I'm on a downloading spree right now, but I can't seem to remember lots of the songs I want to download.

If anyone could reccomend any type of songs, besides country, that'd be great. I'm feeling like listening to music tonight, so if you could help me out it'd be great. Thank yaaa. (link)
1st Lady - Never Be Replaced

3 Days Grace - I Hate Everything About You

112 - What if

Acceptance - Bleeding Heart

Alanis Morsette - Ironic

Alexz Johnson - That Girl

Alkaline Trio - Time To Waste

All American Rejects - 11-11 PM

Allure- All Cried Out

Aly & AJ - Rush

Amanda Perez - I Pray

Andain - Beautiful Things

Ashlee Simpson - I Am Me

Belinda - Be Free

Black Eyed Peas - Shut Up, My Humps

Bon Jovi - Always

Bratz Rock Angelz - So Good

Britney Spears - The Answer, Santa Can You Hear Me

Cassidy ft. R Kelly -Come to My Hotel

Cassie - Me & You

Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me

Christina Vidal - Thought That We Were Friends

Evanescence - Everybody's Fool

Fallout Boy - Dance Dance

Halifax - Anthem For Tonight

Hawthrone Heights - Niki FM

Hope Partlow - Sick Inside

Jagged Edge - Promise

Jamison Parker - Best Mistake

Jason Mraz - Geek In The Pink

Kaila Yu - Sugar

Judy Torres - Faithfully

Kasey Chambers - Stronger

Keyshia Cole - I've Changed My Mind, I Should Have Cheated

Kylie Minogue - Red Blooded Woman

Lalaine - Did You Hear About Us

Lucy Woodward - What's Good For Me

Mariah Carey - Dont Forget About Us

My Chemical Romance - To The End

Ne-Yo - So Sick

Nickleback - Photograph, Too Bad

Silverstein - Smile In Your Sleep

Stellar Project - Get Up Stand Up

Sugarcult - Pretty Girl

Sum 41 - Still Waiting

The Ataris - The Boys Of Summer, In This Diary

The Spill Canvas - All Hail the Heartbreaker

The Starting Line - Lasting Impressions

From First To Last - Emily

Usher - You Remind Me, You Got It Bad

Trina ft. Kelly Rowland - Here We Go Again

Yellowcard - Way Away, Lights And Sounds

Zeromancer - Famous Last Words

The Veronicas - 4ever

Aaliyah - Are You That Somebody

Ray J - Keep Sweating, One Wish

Pink - You Make Me Sick

Kelis - My Milkshake

Athena Cage- All Or Nothing

Khriz y Angel- Ven Bailalo (Reggaeton)

Kylie Minogue - Red Blooded Woman

N.O.R.E. & Nina Sky - Oye Mi Canto

Nivea ft. Lil Jon - Okay (Remix), Complicated

Rihanna - If It's Lovin' That You Want, There's A Thug In My Life

Beyonce- Check On It

R. Kelly - Burn It Up

Shakira ft. Alejandro Sanz - La Tortura (Remix)

Toni Braxton - Please

Willa Ford - I Wanna Be Bad

Sean Paul - We Be Burning

Chris Brown - Run It

T Pain - I'm Sprung

Latif - I Don't Want To Hurt You

Lil Corey - The First Time

Lil' Jon ft Ludacris & Usher - Lovers And Friends

LL Cool J - Hush

Lil Rob - Summer Nights

Maria - I Give, You Take

Ludacris ft. Bobby Valention - Pimpin' All Over The World

Mario - You Should Let Me Love You

Fabolous - Fly Away

Nelly ft. Kelly Rowland - Dilema, Ride With Me

NB Riders ft Angelina - Notice Me

P Diddy f. Usher - I Need a Girl

Omarion - I'm Tryin, O

R.Kelly - Burn It Up

Pretty RicKy - Grind With Me, Playhouse, Shorty Be Mine

Samantha Mumba - Baby Come On Over

Shaggy- It Wasn't Me

T.I. - You Don't Know Me

Teairra Mari - Make Her Feel Good

TOK - When You Cry

Trey Songz - Gotta Make It feat. Twista

Twista ft. Mariah Carey - So Lonely, Overnight Celebrity, Slow Jamz, Girl Tonight

Wisin y Yandel - Rakata

Ashlee Simpson - L.O.V.E., I Am Me

Natasha Bedingfield - Unwritten





The other day I fried my hair. I was in a hurry so while my hair was still slightly damp I straightened it. Now it feels like straw, its breaking off very easily, and I cannot style it. I've used several products and conditioned it several times but it will not go back to being soft and healthy. Is there anything I can do? (link)
What you need to do is go to a hair salon and get an oil treatment for your hair.

That will help it get back to being soft and healthy.




Every time after I eat I feel like I am going to puke, and I dont eat a lot but I start to feel really gross and sometimes almost want to make myself puke so i'll feel better, so is this normal? well thanks i'll rate 5's Happy New Year (link)
I feel like that sometimes also.
But if this happens to you EVERYTIME after you eat then you should go see a doctor because something might be wrong.
But if it happens once in a while don't worry about it because that happens to alot of people.



this one is for guys..i guess it can be for girls to..I would like to know what guys prefer..curly hair or straight hair? (link)
I asked two of my guy friends.
Both said they prefer straight hair.



soar throat, body hurts, and feel like hurling, what are these systoms of
I am guessing a flu
(link)
It might be a flu.
If your body is hurting that could also mean that you are sore.

Go to the doctor so you can find out what is REALLY wrong with you.




hey everyone

whats a good song out now? (link)
R. Kelly - Burn It Up



How do you get a picture URL? (that's from a file, not the net) HELP! HURRY! (link)
If the picture is on a site then you right click on the picture and then click properties and copy the URL.

If it's a file on your computer then there is no way to get a URL unless you put it on Photobucket.



I've had the same pimples on my face for what seems like months. How can I get rid of them? I don't think they're scars..They are red bumps. If it is scars, is there anyway to get them to fade? (link)
I suggest you get Proactiv.

It will get rid of the red bumps and the pimples you have. It did for me.

But remember you CAN'T get rid of acne FOREVER.
You can only treat it.



Does anyone know if the boys like the smell of britney spears curious perfume? I just got a box of it and lotion for christmas. So i was just wondering. (link)
I hate that perfume. It smells so bad.
And believe me when I say this the boys will NOT like it.



I am a 14 year old girl and for a about a year now everyday I have a thick white cream come out of me.. yea I know thats gross but I was just wondering is this natural or should i be worried? (link)
Hey hun

It's just discharge. Nothing to worry about.

If you don't want it to get on your underwear you can try wearing thin pads/pantyliners.



I'm a 16/f and I've liked this guy for 4 years now, ever since one of my friends dated him. Just in the past 8 months we've been talking and spending time together. Around August we stopped talking until just recently. I asked my friend for advice on what to say to him because I'm super shy. But now since it's Winter Break and he isn't busy with school or work much. So the other night I went over to his house. He kind of pressured me into having sex, I'm not complaining or anything because I wanted my first time to be with him but I just didn't imagine it being then. My friend keeps telling me that's the only reason he talks to me is because he wants to have sex, since we didn't talk for a long time until the topic of sex came up. I'm really confused with him. When I'm with him it's almost like I'm memorized by him and make myself believe that he has feelings for me. But on the other hand I can see where my friend is coming from when she says he's using me, she's my best friend and doesn't want to see me hurt. What do you think? I don't want to be someone he only calls when he's horny. I'm not that type of girl. (link)
No one on this site really knows the guy.
So no one can really tell you if he is using you or not.
But think of this; does he MOSTLY/ONLY talk to you when he's horny and wants to get you in bed?
If he does then most likely he is using you.
Also would your best friend lie to you about something like that?

Don't talk to him for a day or two and let him come to you. And when he does if he pressures you into having sex then most likely he is using you.



can you think of a screenname i can use that has the word 'star' or 'wish' in it... please?

i'll rate 5s (link)
StarryNite

STARRY NiT3

StarDust

PinkStar

Stargirl

StarDancer

lilstarsweetz

XFinalstarX

LuckyStar

Xx3WiShZz4uXx

WiSHFULx0

WiSHFULx06

WiSHFULx0x

urluckywiSh

0NEWiSHx3

0NEWiSHx0

x0NEWiSHx




My old best friend (now were just friends) is flirting like CRAZY with the guy i like. ive liked him for just about forever. She knows i like him and i know that she doesnt like him more than a friend. I dont mind if she does it al little bit but shes just totally crossing the line. What do i do? i cant confront her with out me sounding like im jealous!! what do i do? (link)
What I would do is flirt with a guy that SHE likes.

Also keep flirting with the guy that you like.
Just because she is flirting with the guy you like doesn't mean you can't also!



does anyone know of any music video sites that have the links for myspace?thanks in advance=) (link)
http://www.greenermusic.com/myspace_songs.cfm

http://www.accessvideocodes.com/

www.musicvideocodes.com





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