okay i gots a boyfriend I got 4 days ago. We kissed on new years eve and that was my first kiss ever but i felt nothing. No spark or anything. I find myself wishing hed break up with me sometimes. I dont know why though its like I stopped liking him. There is just no chemistry. Please tell me what I should do
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Gossip_Girl answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 7:24 pm: If you don't like him then tell him how you feel and he will probably understand. If not than he isn't worth it. If you like him then tell him you would like to know more about him. Hope that helps if not email me at gossipgirl_2882@hotmail.com
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t0xicParadiSe answered Monday January 2 2006, 4:51 pm: From my past I learned that you should NEVER keep a relationship going when you are POSITIVELY sure that there is NO chemistry between the two people.
I honestly think that you should break up with him.
You might have second thoughts about it and you might want to keep the relationship going to see if you will start to like him again but chances are you WON'T. And there is just nothing you can do about it.
It's better to just end it now then to lead him on because he might start to have even stronger feelings for you and then that would just be more trouble to get your self into when you do not like him.
ThisOneKidxo answered Monday January 2 2006, 4:42 pm: I honestly think you should break up with him. A kiss is supposed to be a special thing, & if you felt nothing, maybe you feel nothing for the guy.I think you should break up with him or something, until your feelings become stronger.
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Annieisonfire answered Monday January 2 2006, 4:06 pm: I think that you should break up with him. I've not long had my first kiss and it wasn't all that good, i stayed with him for a month and when i told him i wasnt happy, he actually agreed! It might not be as bad as you think it may be. You can do way better anyway, i can tell.
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SWEETXLOVE answered Sunday January 1 2006, 11:47 pm: personally i think you should break up with him..if there was no chemistry and sometimes you want him to break up with you..then you two arent right for each other! i would not keep leading him on..just because i would feel bad haha and i wouldnt want things to get any worse you know? have a talk with him and tell him that you two would be better off as friends he'll understand sweetie! tell me how things go :) if you need anything else let me kno!
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Paradise88 answered Sunday January 1 2006, 11:19 pm: if there is no chemistry whatsoever break up with him. he might think your leading him on &he'll tell other boys to stay away from you. theres no purpose in the relationship if you know someone might get hurt.
OxqLamOr0uszx3 answered Sunday January 1 2006, 11:11 pm: if you really don't like him then break up with him.. if you really don't want to break up with him though b.c. he was your first kiss and you think you still have something special with him you should try kissing him again.. if there's still no spark or anything then the right thing to do is break up with him.
hope i helped!
XoXMORGAN_DANiELLEXoX answered Sunday January 1 2006, 10:48 pm: I think ya should just break up with him. It might be hard..but if there isn't any chemistry..then what is the use!
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