im so sorry that that hapened and everything...but if you where planning on having sex, and you didnt say no, and you were like "just let him finish" then it is not rape

get some pins like these...

And pin them on your Polo shirts.

CHEK THESE SIGHTS OUT AND SEE IF ANY OF IT IS YOUR STYLE.
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get maybe a pair of skinny jeans from Hollister. it dosent matter where clothes are from, it matters thestyle and Hollister has very cute skinny jeans.

get some black vintage eye-liner and wear that

go shopping on Melrose and just get clothes that are YOUR style!

im so glad that your over your thing about dressing like everybody else, but asking us for advice is basically doing the same thing.

only YOU can find YOUR own, perfect style.

xo

maybe cut your own sidebangs?
and chop up the edges with a razor

xooo!

yes, definately sounds great!!!

a fancy shirt but then you would need to dress it up (accesories, heels, etc)

or a t-shirt with tennish shoes

jean skirts rock because you can rock them both ways

xo

ox

i think hollisters hot!
lol honestly, me and my brother shop ther e together
and hes the coolest guy in his grade...
and everybodys jelous of everything hes got
all my guy friends shop there
i love it because we can go shopping together
its not gay, its cool

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It’s not even 8:30 in the morning and things couldn’t be much worse. You slept through your alarm and you’ve got a major business presentation in 35 minutes. After taking the fastest shower of your life, you’ve got five minutes to throw on your makeup and do something with your wet hair. Think fast!

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maybe first when you get there, dont dance yet. look around and see how other people are dancing. then at the next song you can do the same thing. its not hard, youll get the hang of it after a while
its really not hard, just dance to the music. like feel the rythem.

and dont listen to these people. your not being sleazy. your having a good time. theres nothing wrong with it.

if your not comftorble, then just dance wild with your girlfriends and ignore the boys.

but if you want to dancce with the boys, what is the problem? people shouldent make you feel guilty! your not having sex!! your dancing. people need to chill.

maybe first when you get there, dont dance yet. look around and see how other people are dancing. then at the next song you can do the same thing. its not hard, youll get the hang of it after a while
its really not hard, just dance to the music. like feel the rythem.

wear SPANX with your white skirt and your sweatpants

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in a color thats sorta like your skin tone. then, for a bra with your white dress, wear a bodysuit

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and it will act as a bra and underwear. and nobody will see any lines, because there wont be any!!

boys like girls who they know will hook up. if you put yourself out there, wear sleazy clothes and talk dirty, then of course boys are gonna notice you. theyre gonna be asking you left and right. is that what you WANT? do you WANT boys hookinh up with you because you have a big chest? i know thats not what I want!! your friend is gonna get her heart broken when she realizes these boys only like her chest. be thankful that when boys DO like you, its for the right reasons, not just beacue of your chest.
xo

that your listening is enough!!! just give them a hug and tell them that you care about them. tell them that your going to fix everything. listen, and show concern. that you are listening is enough. i think that its so sweet that you want to help your friends! they just need a sholder to cry on, and sombody to care about them. xo

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http://www.hotfash.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWCATS&Category=297
on this one, (hotflash.com) there is a lot of pages so you need to keep going through them.

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http://www.bestpromdresses.com/shop/short_dresses.php
THIS ONE IS AMAZING LOOK AT THIS FIRST.

XO

okay, ive been exactly in your situation. i didnt want to get dumped. and you know what happened? i went to the movies and got dumped anyways. i think, if you tell him that your not allowed to go to the movies, you guys can figuire out a way around it. and if you cant, then hes not a very good boyfriend now is he? if he dosent understand, you should break up with him. i know this is sounding like stupid advice, and your situation is different then mine because its a different boy, but ive been in the exact spot that you are in. and im telling you, find out what kind of person he is before you get to attatched. its only been a week. if you break it off, you wont be as heartbroken as you would be a while from now. tell him the truth, and see how he reacts. xo

White Paint llol. or, White-Out always works. especially if you use clear nail polish over it.
xo

lol you sound like me! i would say to stick with him for a little while. Oposites attract, and he might love that your so bad girl while hes so chilled. who knows? maybe hell party with you. give it a try, and if he bored you, then you can ditch him.
xo

yes, i like this very much. its exactly how i feel. your a good writer!
xo

Make a plan to go over HER place one weekend. that way, she cant back down. make it early, so that she cant call and cancel. and spend some other weekends with other friends! you can be with other people. and whenever you make plans with her, make a back up plan to call sombody and hang out to watch a movie or somthing. xo

no! you are not being rediculous!!! friends do not make other friends feel like idiots!!!! boys do that to eachother somtimes, and it bothers me. its not being a good friend, but its how boys are and they need to rough with it. girls on the other hand can not do that. they are suposed to be loving and caring

there are so many boys that are going to treat you well! you need to forget about him. just spend time with your friends. over time, you will completely forget about your ex. just think about the thousands of people who would treat you so much better, and who you will love more then anything.

then hes not a good boyfriend. a good boyfriend would stick up for you, more then anybody else. you need to talk to him about it, and see why he didnt defend you. if he dosent have a good reason, then thats really not cool. you need a boyfriend that will take care of you. your not over-reacting, thats not okay of him.

FRIENDS ARE LIKE ELEVATOR BUTTONS. THEY CAN EITHER BRING YOU UP OR TAKE YOU DOWN. CHOOSE WISELY
A friend will let you borrow their umbrella but a best friend will take yours and scream "Run Loser Run!!!"
we are all angels
with one wing
and we can wonly fly
with the help of somone else
my friends are my wings

TRUE FRIENDS
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND
DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET!

you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose! but you cant pick your friends nose

killers stab you in the head
Frenemies stab you in the back
boys stab you in the heart
but best friends dont carry knives

a best friend will never ever come to bail you out of jail so never use your one phone call on them
i tried that, but she wouldent pick up. when i got back to our jail cell, i asked her why she wouldent pick up her phone.

theres no thing as strangers. there are only friends we havent met yet



ill give you advice the best that i can
im only 13 so the advice i give you may not be the best
but ive made tons of mistakes so i can relate
and im obsessed with shopping so anything with clothes i can help
and im always here if you want to talk or hang out or anything
im giving you the truth straight up
i am a brutally honest person
Im also fun-loving and adorable
I consider myseld a happy person
I just happen to love black
Do not call me gothic or ill kill you

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