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My boyfriend didnt stick up for me...
Ok. So my boyfriend is one of them guys who will kick anyones ass and win. He likes to flaunt it to...and i know he can ive seen it. But the other day ago this one dude was pushing me around like i was a guy. And he pushed me in the wall (in front of my boyfriend) and my boyfriend didnt do shit. But its like if my boyfriend sees someone else in the hall way getting pushed around like that by a dude it seems like he'd say something. I was really pissed at him about it so you think i had a reason or i was just over reacting? Because being he's been my boyfriend for 6 months id expect him to stick up for me.
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Well I cant tell you whose side I'm on, or anything, but you should talk to him, calmly about it and tell him that he's like you're protector, and when guys push you around you would like it if he saved tou from it. See what he says, and then you dont have to be mad at him anymore. He probably just didnt think about it. Yeah, you might have overacted abit, but I understand, I think I probably would have done the same, just try to talk to him calmly. He will probably just shrugg it off, or he might realize that he didnt d anything. IF you already got mad at him, which it looks like you did, appologize for over reacting first, and tell him, you love him, but you would like to see him stick up for you, just like he does everyone else. Try and get him talking abit.
I hope I helped a bit, thats a sticky situation, and you handled it okay, but you can make it all better if you go in calmly. Good luck, love ya,
Angie91
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then hes not a good boyfriend. a good boyfriend would stick up for you, more then anybody else. you need to talk to him about it, and see why he didnt defend you. if he dosent have a good reason, then thats really not cool. you need a boyfriend that will take care of you. your not over-reacting, thats not okay of him.
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Ask him why he didn't stick up for you, and see what he has to say. But ask him calmly, if you get all upset, it's a sure thing that you're gonna be fighting.
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Hmmm. Well I never date a guy that can't stick up for me. Honestly you gotta ask him what happened. Be very calm and understanding so he doesn't get defensive and tell him he can be honest with you. Maybe he is scared of this guy. Maybe this guy has something on him that you don't know about or maybe he owes him something, in high school i tell you, you never know. I would talk to him. If he can't give you a good explination I would really think about your relationship and how much he values you and your safety. And take some Karate hahaha Peace
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