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Confused on my boyfriend...
I care about my boyfriend ALOT im love him soooo much. We have been together for 6 months. The problem is that he does stupid shit to piss me off ALL the time. We fight what it seems like everyday. When i get pissed at him i think that i could find someone who treats me so much better but then i think i love him so much. What should i do? Because i dont want to loose him but he doesnt listen. And its like hes using it to his advantage that i wont break up with him.
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It depends on what kinds of things he does to piss you off. I'm not saying you're entirely at fault, but first of all you need to look at yourself. Is there a chance you overreact to something that really isn't a big deal? Next time you feel you're starting to get angry with him, say to yourself, "Is this really even going to matter within the next week?"
However, if he is doing stupid things like ditching you for guy friends, cheating, making you feel like crap, etc., then you NEED to dump him. Either that, or confront him right away and say, "This is serious. If you don't stop doing this, I'm going to break up with you because I can't put up with it anymore. I love you, but this is getting ridiculous and I don't want to be with you if you're going to keep doing that stuff because I do NOT deserve it."
Next time you get into an argument, see if you can talk things through with him. Communication is key in EVERY relationship. Ask him to try and see things from your point of view and you try to see things through his. Like I said earlier, think about whatever you're arguing about and if it's even going to matter next week.
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just talk.
talking&&communicating is a good thing
last time i checked.
dont let something that he does
ruin your great relationship.
if you love him..you'll talk it outt.
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Six months is a long time to be with someone..so I don't think you should throw all that away. But you do need to talk to him and tell him it seems like he is taking advantage of you and anything thats on your mind, just give him a heads up. If he still keeps going it move on and find someone who will treat you better. But I do think after you have a serious talk with him he will realize stuff. ♥
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Hey,
kay, well this is a difficult situation. You have to decide what love it worth and thats extremely hard. But you're right. there is someone out there who will treat you better. Whether you find it in the next 20 boyfriends or not is the key. Heres what you have to think about. Are you going to marry him? Likely no, sop why waste time being treated badly?
On the oposite side, couples fight, it's there way of figureing things out and learning really. SO if it's little things hes doing that pis you off, then think about what those things are and if they are a big deal. IS he hurting you or just making you feel bad. Is he doing something that really is a big deal or is it just a simple little thing that bugs you. Does he treat you like crap? Well I think you can tell the difference between these things, but you just have to think about it and figure out make your decision. I wish it was easier, but it's not, so you just have to think about it. Take all of that into concideration, and talk to him about it. If he messes up again, then tell him its over, and then its over, dont go back to him, because then he'll think you arent serious about it. Stick up for what you believe in and dont take any crap, but out line the rules, and if he tries to follow them, then give him credit for that. Good luck, and I hope I helped. Love ya,
Angie91
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Hi,
i think that you should just talk to him and see why he does stupid shit like that. Maybe he doesnt kno it pisses you off so you should tell him and tell him if he doesnt wanna change his ways then its over. Hes not worth your time if he treats you badly. you guys need to sit down a discuss you issues with eachother and tell eachother wat makes the other mad instead of fighting all the time just talk. Dont yell at him and tell him not to yell at you because thats just going to creat more problems between you guys. If you still treats you badly or doesnt start to try to change his ways then i would dump his ass quickly because your spending this time on him while you could be trying something new with someone else. I mean you hav been with him for 6 months if your not happy all the time then you could of been with someone that your happy with all the time. Just think about it some more and talk to him and try to make him listen to you. you have to stand your ground in this relationship and stick up for yourself. MAKE HIM LISTEN TO YOU!! If he wont then tell him its over. It might be hard at first not having him around but just think about how much good its doing you if you do break up with him. If he is willing to change and work out his problems with you then give him another chance because everyone deserves another chance. Maybe you guys see eachother too much sometimes that causes fights everyday sometimes you need a break for a little but you guys can still be together just not hangout everyday or every weekend. Try that and see how everything works out! I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU GIRLIE! stay srtong and if you need anything else im here to help ya! Ok i hope i helped you out?!?
xoxox
~katelyn~
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ok since you said that he always pisses you off find out the main thing that pisses you off and if hes using you for his advantage break up with him dont let him use you but i know its easier said than done but just show him that it doesnt mean that your'll never break up with him and just cause you said its over it doesnt mean that its over but remeber two many gurls unfourtantly fall victium to abusive and or guys to how use them so make your desicion wisely i hope i helped
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