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am i clueless??
okay i have these friends that i love todeath when they are not teasing me. but alot of people i know say i should find new friends cause they treat me bad. like they are always picking on me and it makes me mad. well not mad but it hurts my feelings and i dont know how to show my feelings and they think i am mad at them. i have asked them to stop but they wont. i just dont understand. do you constantly make fun of your bestfriend and make them feel like crap/an idiot? i mean i know friends tease each other but enough is enough right? am i acting rediculous?
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Me and my friends mess wit each other like that but some times my friends can go over bord with it so i'll calmly say "Thats alittle much" or "Its not that funny" or "Please stop talkin like that" thats all and then they'll just change the subject.
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Your friends think it's all fun and that you take it too seriously, not that it really hurt you. Tell your friends individually that it does hurt you and you just wish they'd stop. If their really your friends, they will stop.
-Abby
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no! you are not being rediculous!!! friends do not make other friends feel like idiots!!!! boys do that to eachother somtimes, and it bothers me. its not being a good friend, but its how boys are and they need to rough with it. girls on the other hand can not do that. they are suposed to be loving and caring
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it depends on the extent of their teasing. if it's just joking around teasing like if you say something blonde and they're like, "haha youre so stupid" then it's ok. however, it seems like what youre saying, tehy're hurting your feelings. thats not ok. if what they say really IS mean, they may be covering it up as a joke so they can say it. in other words, they probably want to say something mean, but to play "innocent", they'll say "oh we were just joking". if it is constant, cold-hearted teasing that singles you out and hurts your feelings or makes you feel uncomfortable, they need to stop. you should talk to them about it (maybe they dont realize its hurting you). if, after you talk to them, they don't stop, then they are not your best friends. that's just mean. anyways good luck[:
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