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Attention whoring/manipulation advice needed!
My boyfriend and I got in a fight today. I would really like to talk to him but I do not wish to pick up the phone and call with nothing to say.
I need to think of a voicemail I can leave him that will make him worry and once again pay attention to me.
Any advice?
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Well, you could always suck another guys cock and let the whole school(I'm assuming you go to school based on the immaturity of your question.)know. Then when your boyfriend asks you about it, deny it. Deny it completely.
Or you could attempt to become a decent human being and instead of being a complete manipulative, heartless, bitch, you could just try to talk to him directly and try to get over your fight. Something along the lines of "Hey, I know we both disagree on (whatever you guys fought about) but i don't want this to harm our relationship so...."
If being a cold heart bitch is indeed what you want, then I got a few more suggestions if sucking another guys cock seems a bit too extreme for you. First of all don't act a terribly disease fell upon you, guys don't give a shit if you are sick. A few things you could do is
1. Record a voicemail with a male voice in teh background saying something that could be implied as sexually suggestive.
2. On your AIM, MSN, Yahoo, messenger programs, have an away message saying "hanging out with (insert male friends name here)"
3. Dress and act like a slut but stay away from him. If he's not gay, he'll come for you.
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Sure, don't play stupid mind games.
Want him to speak to you again? Why not try the truth? Like maybe "I know we had a fight but I really want to talk to you again and work this out." Or "I'm still really mad but I want us to be able to talk." Whatever it is you are feeling, tell him. That is how communication works. You can play games with him all you want, but it will get you no where until you start to communicate.
Don't be an attention whore and don't be a manipulative little bitch. You give women a bad name when you do those obnoxious things. Try being an honest, upfront, mature women instead. Say what's on your mind in a respectful way. Invite him to speak to you with your openness and understanding; don't trick him into it by behaving like a brat.
In the end, he will only resent you for that. If you treat him honestly and with respect, even if the relationship blows up in your face, he'll remember you fondly.
EDIT: In fact, I did answer the question. The question was "Any advice?" It was safe to assume you meant about the situation at hand and I did give you advice about the situation. I even gave you advice on what to say and how to encourage him to communicate with you again. It simply was not the advice you wanted. Your feedback is a perfect example of a silly attempt at manipulating the situation so as to justify your desire to behave in an ungrateful and proud way. Your desire to rate me poorly with the excuse that I failed to respond to your question, despite the fact you acknowledge it was a 'nice answer' is very similar to your desire to worry him. They are both indefensible and totally self-indulgent actions. You might want to work on that habit. It will get you in some trouble in life if you go around trying to manipulate facts and people just so they make you feel good. I'm happy to call you on it. Sooner or later, other people will too, and they likely wont be so relaxed about it, since they actually have to deal with you, and I just need to type.
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