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just broke up
i just broke up with my bf of 1 year and 2 months. it started out that i was really annoyed with him and all of that but now i think i made a mistake..this is not the first time this has happend. before we broke up then got back together because i thought i liked someone else..i dont know though i just cant stop crying and why is it now that i realize how good he was to me. i cant help but think that if i keep going back to him then breaking up with him that it just isnt meant to be..but i still love him. now we never talk but he talks to my friends like nothing is wrong and i hate that. he acts like he dosnt even care that we have broken up and that really hurts for some reason. There is also this other guy that i have been talking to and we both really like eachother and are planning to hang out but not like jumping into things just hanging out(he dosnt go to my school). but he is out of town right now so i cant talk to him about how im feeling like usual ..I guess my question is should i go back out with my ex or how do i get over it..this is my first long term relationship so i dont know how to get through it.
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Don't get over him just yet.If you still think about him and cry then that means you like him. Yes, you did make a mistake but we all do and you can't blame it all on yourself.He is acting like nothing happenend so he seems "cool" and he knows that makes you mad so he does that. Don't let that bother you.If you really and truely love him don't hook up with that guy whos out of town. Talk to your ex and tell him how you feel he probly feels the same because if you were in a long relationship, he can't just be over you. ♥
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hey, well maybe he does care and he just doesnt want to look "weak" in front of his friends. i mean you broke up with him and guys hate showing there feelings and being sensitive in front of people because they think that if they cry than there not a "man" anymore. anyways i bet he does really care. you seem to have serious feelings for this guy, so talk to him. tell him that you love him and that it was a HUGE mistake breaking up. if he cares for you, he will listen. but that guy that your suppose to hangout with is a problem. you cant like him AND your boyfriend. so if your going to continue to have feelings for him, dont talk to your ex about getting back together. think wisely about what you want to do :].
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there are so many boys that are going to treat you well! you need to forget about him. just spend time with your friends. over time, you will completely forget about your ex. just think about the thousands of people who would treat you so much better, and who you will love more then anything.
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Heh... This can be complicated. No fear, I've been where you're at. Dude, seriously, if you find him to be annoying, no matter how many good times you've had, he just might not be the right one for you. And if you've given him more than a chance or two, it's probably time to leave him.
I don't know the whole situation or anything but if you're crying, it could be because you don't like feeling the rejection.
If I were you, I'd stay single. Just shop around. Go talk to the guy that's out of town when he gets back. You two should hang out so you can get the feel of him, know what I mean? If you don't like the guy that's out of town right now after hanging out with him then go back to the "long-term" guy and see what you two can work out.
Hope I can help. <33
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