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Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
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1)omg i waer a 34 b and my nipleas are like a different color tan my boob in like a lil cirlce and i have this lil point of a niples on both .. is sumthing rong wiht me please give m egood advice i will give yoo a five is yoo tell me why becuase i no its not normal!

2)the niples are like crusty and thay hert and i have never had sex! okaii and itss not juss my period! if yoo have good advice please!!

3) whwn i get my period i hert so bad ill like cry ofrever!! i get horrible cramps ... i went to the doctor and she said a heating pad and meticine.. that doesent wok!!!

4) when i go to the bath room and i like wipe iand my finger actully tuches the inside it sticks soooo bad!! is that normal?


~~~~~~ i give 5's too ppl that give good advice okay not juss ... c a doctr!! wow thats great okay so i relly need help!! (13/f) okay so if yoo can help that would be awsum okaii luv yall bye!

okay calm down. well no it's not normal but i will give you some of the origional advice go see a dr.

but also the hurting is bad. i get horrible cramps too but it's because my insides were crushed in a carwreck. have you ever had bad pressure to the abdomin or anything like that?

okay the nipple thing now that's just creepy. before you go to bed put some body lotion on the dry spots. now with the pain try a sports bra or a new padded kind. and the nipple is in a circle and is different color that's normal.

try a dusche. it's very simple it just cleans the inside of your vagina out. or do you use tampons that mite help a little.

hope i helped if you need anything else just drop me one in my inbox or email me directly.

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don't bother reading if you can't manage, but 5's to any singly word of response because i really really need some advice here...


i have this twin sister- we're both 14- and she is really immature and selfish and just a totally disgusting and impossible person. sometimes i love her, but alot of times i could just explode! she is just so hard to take!


the main problems with her are that she is really into herself but at the same time extremely insecure and self-consious...and the second is that she just can NOT get over things...like tonight she was trying to get me to remember something by repeating like the same vague amature description over and over and I was like, OK I DON'T REMEMBER CAN WE DROP IT OR CAN YOU GIVE ME A BETTER CLUE?!?!


See its little stuff like that, but I just want to rip my brains our and throw them at her face!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE sharing things with her when I just don't really like her as a person...and she really harms me as a person, because I spend so much energy being infuriated at her or trying to ignore her pesty existence.


I really feel like we are the only people in this world that each other has, so we need to get along...but I just cannot tolerate her at ALL! Its like her brain is so many pages behind, and I can't stretch to reach her and make her stupid accomodations.


Is there any way I can coexist with her as a step towards actually liking her? There are some people in this world that I just cannot ever like, and that's okay, but I really don't want her to be one of them...and how can I vent my feelings in a healthy way? lol i've been sitting in my room screaming (literally) for the past 20 minutes...ew and I wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone so don't go there....


snaps to you for reading this!
xox and SOS

well hmmm. well first of all you need to talk with your sis in private. then tell her how you feel. and be totally honest. just let her know what's wrong. maybe she has the same thing to say for you or something. but that's all you can do

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I need help in my neighborhood there is a lot of families with little kids and I herd they need babysitters but they don't know that I babysit so how do I let them know

put up flyers or just when you see them on the street go up to them and introduce them and tell them that you heard that they have children and you wanted them to know that if they ever needed someone to help out with babysitting to give you a call then give them your phone number.

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i was at my mates party last nite in secret(i told my mum that i was staying at my mates to study)so my boyfrend came and met me,he took me for a drive in his new car we ended up crashing we rolled over a bush and ended up upside down. i had cut on my hand and just told my mum i fell but its really painful i think theyer mite be glass in it.i cant go to the hosp cos she werks there.what can i do?

just tell her because she will find out eventually. and yes there probably is glass in it. i had a major carwreck and i didn't find the glass for almost 2 years so be careful

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I really need some advice.
I am a 15/F ....I have gone out with this one guy about 5 or 6 times (we arent datiing just hooking up). We were introduced by a friend (he's 16) and is (or seems) like a really good guy. My parents are away for the whole weekend and my sister is going to be out tomorrow night and I think this guy is coming over. We have hooked up.. but nothing more then that. I am kind of concerned that something is going to happen that I don't want to happen (i am a virgin). I don't know If i'm just overly worried or what. do u think its a bad idea for him to come over considering the circumstances? Is it suggesting that I want something more then just hooking up? Please give me your advice. Especially the boys here. Thanks.

you shouldn't let him come over if you don't want anything to happen. cuz everyone knows that it will happen.

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I have my period about every 2 1/5 to 3 weeks.. then, when I do have it.. I have it for 2 days then I stop that night then I have it for one day then I stop that next day then have it for 2 more days.. is somthing wrong with me.. :-x
--I rate 5's!--

there is something wrong with how your body handles your period. but you should go to the doctor and just make sure that you are okay.

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is it normal for females to discharge everday?

yes it can be just depends on the person

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Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE!

calm down!!! sperm die when they hit the air son don't worry about that part. but you are still gettng used to your period. i didn't have mine for 8 months once. but go to the doctor if you are still worried.

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when do you start showing when your pregnant?? and does anyone know how much tests at planned parenthood cost?

you would probably have a better bet going to the regular doctor because then it's totally confidential. and it just depends on how healthy you are to start out with. but usually 3-5 months. but i know women who don't show at all. so hope i helped and if you need anything or want help just drop me one in my inbox or email me

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i know you are going to read this and think its me, its not and actually i don't care what you think..anyways, my friend thinks shes pregnant. shes 2 weeks late on her period. she got some kind of infection where she had to take medicine that might delay her period a little bit. she took a pregnancy test and she said that if 2 lines show up, then shes pregnant..she showed me the test and i saw 2 lines, one was slightly darker than the other..but i saw 2 lines. she claims shes not pregnant, but is going to take another test. i dont know what to do for her...?

just be there for her. my friend thought she was pregnant and she took the test and 2 tests showed positive and one showed negative. so don't worry too much. she's not pregnant but your friend might be. and if she is just comfort her. and be as supportive as you can. when she goes to the doctor go with her.

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Im on my period right now and i am so angry for some reason and i get pissed off so easily right now and i dont know why? and today this girl told me something and i ended up cussing her out and every one thought i was gonna hit her in the face so please tell me how i can be nicer why im pmsing

try walking away or counting to ten

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okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy?

eyes
sense of humor
hair
looks
intelligence
poeticness
and for some the penis and others like that

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My boyfriend and i were in my aunts hot tub, and well i had my period so we couldnt do anything but neither of us knew if condoms still worked as well in water as they do out? and do they make ones for jsut water..i know its a dumb question but i dont know..pleeze let me know!!

they don't work as well in water. plus having sex in a hot tub can be dangerous because of the water getting in your vagina. so be careful

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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks

well kissing her neck.
blowing in her ear
whispering
talking sexy
lightly touching her spine

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Ok well I have tried to use a tampon like a million times but everytime I try to put in, It doesn't go in all the way even though it looks like it!! When I walk, it's realllyyy uncomfertable..What am I doing wrong???

well when you go to put it in spread your legs as far as you can. then push it in a little further that you usually do. you might need a different size. it may be embarrassing but ask your mom if you can't get it.

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I am 13, I live in The Conroe area in Texas and I am very sexually active. It seems as if all my guy friends preasure me to do it. Like my friend Kellen... he always pushes himself up on me and I try to say NO but he does it anyways... once we start It doesn't really bother me.. but I really wanta stop!! and every1 asks me if I like Kellen or if we did have sex I always try to deny it cause I don't know what to do... Kellen's friedn Andy, always trys to have sex with me too! but I don't know! I don't want it to happen! what can I do to get them to stop? PLEASE help me!

if you say NO, then it's rape. pure and simply rape. go to the police and file a rape report. it doesn't matter if you are sexually active or have had sex wid them before or not, it's rape anyway you put it.

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14/f
I'm a Christian so I want to be a virgin till I'm married, but lately it's been real hard to stay that way. I'm letting my hormones make me too curious. (I've never actually even seen a penis before.) I get really horny a lot and sometimes I ever masturbate to get over it. I'm way too young to have sex but lately I've wanted to give a handjob or even get laid. How can I keep motivated to stay a virgin? I know I'm not ready for sex.

well just think about all of the consequenses of sex. std's, babies, rumors, reputations

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Well me and my boyfriend have exsperimented "below" the belt. He never said anything before, but now hes complaining about me not shaving. I shaved once before, now i usually just trim. When i shved i hated it i couldnt stand it, it itched and hurt and it was annoying. What should i do?

just tell him if he doesn't like it then go screw himself he should be glad he has you.

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hey i was woundring if theyre is anythingi can do to stop popping my knuckles , its just a habbit , i dont it all the time , and what dose it to to your hands?

well it makes your knuckles huge and ugly. and you get arthritis from it. try what cutters do. put a rubberband on your hand and then everytime you go to pop your knuckles just start snapping the band

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ok im 13 female and i started cutting because family and friend problems and i stopped 4 like 2 weeks and then i got so mad and deprest i cut again and now i want to really bad but i promised myself i wouldnt do it again because im scared someones going to find out about it and send me to a mental home or something beause of it and i have thought about killing myself one or twice but i havent gone threw with it yet but i trie to hide it from my mom and my teachers so i dont wear shorts or anything and i wear a jacket most the time so that no one see the scares but i really need help and i was going to tell someone about it but im to scared so can anyone give me advise because i could really use some right now??? please help

you need to call like a help line. they have phone numbers and pamphlets in your school office. usually on the wall. or talk to your school counselor. but also you should be worried that you might accidentally cut too deep and bleed to death. just be careful. and try to get help. i hope i helped you. and if you need anything else drop one in my inbox or email me directly. ALSO.... put a rubberband on your wrist and everytime you feel the urge or your mad or w/e just start snapping the band till it goes away

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