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i have small stretch marks on my boobs, that are fading, but still there. what is a guy going to think of me when he goes up my shirt?! is their any way that he will not notice? what will he think about them? (link)
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stretch marks are really normal, and every girl is most likely gonna have them...
there are creams/lotions that help them go away..you can even find them in a price chopper..lol
a guy shouldnt care at all about stretch marks, and if they do. they arent worth your time..and plus, they probably wont even notice
hope i helped you out a little
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Kissing my new boyfriend is kind of awkward. It's like, when we kiss, it feels more robotic then passionate. For example, our mouths just move in the same rhythm. I suppose this is due to lack of experience but I'm not sure. Does anyone know how I can break this habbit?
Thanks,
Sarah (link)
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hi..
wow some of these answer that i read a pretty...um...not an answer im sure your looking for.
im sure its because of a lack of experience...but if hes the one that "leads it off"..maybe you should try too next time..or dont go right into the long "passionate" and just me a little playful at kissing first..and when you do go for the longer kisses, go slowly at it..dont try n have it look like your about to brake into rough wild sex, l.o.l.
hope i helped a little.
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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
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aw..dont cut
i used to cut..its not worth it, cause one day when you are older, you will see the scars and be reminded of everything that happened.
do something else to get ride of the stress/pain...like jogging/working out...write poetry, draw, write your problems in a notebook if you cant trust people..or if you have a very close friend who you can trust, talk to that person.
i think you should get help with this...feel free to chat with me more if you want..(my messanger things are on my site)
hope i helped you somehow.
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I posted this to a single person, before I knew it could be answered by anybody with an account;
I am a 17 year old male, and came across your site by accident, or possibly fate. I have a big social problem. I've always been described as "the different one". I was always the one who did his work in class, or didn't do things exactly the same way as everybody else. I was just different like that since primary school. (I'll just say at this point that I'm not gay. A lot of people ask that when you say you're "different") The problem is, I've never been able to shake certain difficulties I've had as a result of being unusual. So now I find myself at 17; I've never been to a party where I've drunk. I've never been kissed. I've never had a girlfriend. Nobody knows who I am, nobody seems to care. I find it difficult to make friends, because I feel socially awkward, because everybody expects me to know things that I don't, because I never developed those social skills. Most of the friends I do have are the poisonous kind. They will be friendly some days, but only because it benefits them. At other times they seem totally unfriendly. I feel like I'm tied into keeping them, because it's not as easy as just pretending they don't exist, and if I alienated them, then I wouldn't have anybody left.
I don't want to become "normal" (if that exists as something to become), I would just like to know how I can fit better into the social structure of school life, and develop general social skills. I feel like I got expelled from the school of social interaction as a kid, and now I've found out there's no adult ed. class.
Thanks,
SilentOne (link)
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hey,
i know exactly what you mean.
i was in very similar situtations..ive never gotten drunk, and i barely go to any parties..and i used to be very shy
what ive done is just learn to be myself around people. most highschoolers are very immature..but there are some like you, who are quiet, and dont say much.
a lot of people havent been in a relationship at your age...maybe its just that youdont like a lot of the girls at your school...if you do like a girl.
i think you just need the confidence to talk to people, and dont try to totally fit in with the crowd. be yourself...people will respect you for that.
working out can help you feel better about yourself, and can help you to get confidence
i assume you are going back too school? when your in a class, just start some small talk with the people around you. "hi, my name is...." easy things like that. and as the year goes along, you'll probably find yourself being more friendly with people, and talking more.
you also want to look aprochable..dont mop around, and look at the floor when you, look straight ahead, and look around with a sort of smile on your face.
also, if there is a club that interests you, you should join it. thats always agreat way to make new friends
theres a website called myspace.com
maybe youve heard about it?
its a great way too meet new people..and you find a lot of people from your area.
im on there (if u wanna check it out).. www.myspace.com/dont_wake_the_memories
anyways, i hope i helped you out a little.
feel free to chat with me online if you have more problems you want to talk about
aim- xx Just My Luck
msn- nicolex696x@hotmail.com
yahoo- nicolex696x
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i've recently become a vegitarian. my mother is worried that i wont get enough protein, what are some foods that i can eat that contain protein (besides meat, obviously)? (link)
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my mom is a vegitarian and shes perfectly healthy..
she buys all those fake meaty things at price chopper...lol
one way to get a lot of protein is peanuts...
lol.
also, eat a large variety of fruits veggys grains and beans..whole grain stuff....lol
hope i helped a little.
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I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?
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i think you should confront your friend about it.
tell her that it was really upset, saying that you might not be able to trust again can cause a lot of problems...i think maybe you should be really careful now telling her some things..keep a diary with a lock, they keep great secrets. =)
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my cuz (5 months older than me, were both 13) is here at my house. she slept over last nite nd is staying the rest of the week! im so happy shes here! last nite we had SO much fun cause we were so hyper nd stuff. but then today we went bowling nd stuff but were bored now! :( wut can we do? were gonna have dinner then make crazy moovs of ourselves being stupid but if that doesnt work out or we get sick of it, ne other ideas? also ideas for the rest of the week? were going to rye play land (amusement park) so dont say that please! by the way, it is 6:30 PM rite now.
thanks so much for reading this! ill rate! always do.
THANKS in advance! (link)
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haha... somethings i do with my friends is just walk around the block at night and tell funny stories that have happened to us. or play at a park at night. its fun..n even a little scary...=P
i think recording yourself being stupid is a great idea.
you could also go swimming...do slip 'n slides (if u dont have one use garbage bags)
mud wrestling can be hilarious.
..play tag in your house, or hide and seek..may not sound as fun with just two people...but it can be really fun.
hope i helped a little bit..
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I'm 14, soon to be 15. He just turned 19. He's so sweet and calls me baby/beautiful/sweetheart. All that stuff. I like him alot, and he likes me too. We've hooked up }not sex{ and I told my close cousins. They all make fun of me now saying that he's 19 and stuff like that. It really pisses me off because they don't know him. He's amazing and he likes me too. We live 2 hours apart, but I see him when I go up to my cottage. Which is alot. I really like him and I want it too work and so does he. But I want my cousins off my case. Should I tell them that I broke up with him??
IF you have any other advice about my situation I would greatly appreciate anything you have to offer.
Thank you soo much.
Love,
- Ashley (link)
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dont tell them you broke up if you didnt. they could find out it was a lie, and be mad at you for lying to them.
tell them to grow up and that they need to realize that age isnt a factor if you truely care about somebody.
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okay ive known these girls for a very long time but this year we started to be best friends. we always did stuff with each other and had sleepovers every weekend. but lately they both have been getting mad at each other and they both turn to me to either invite over without the other or for advice. i feel uncomfortable because i don't want to get in the middle and i want to keep both for friends. i want to be as close as we used to be. how do i make that happen? help! (link)
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get both of them together somehow and tell them how you feel about being in the situation that you are in. and maybe even bring up old memories...
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Im 15/f. At the moment I'm a Christian, but I'm considering becoming a solitary witch. I've got some questions I'd like to know the answers to from people who actually practise witchcraft and aren't just writing a book
1) Do I need to start praying to the God straight
away?
2) Do I definetely need a separate altar, goddess
shrine, god shrine and lunar shrine because I
only have a small room
3) Does being a witch cost a lot of money?
I'm too young to get a job so I don't have
much money
Don't get me wrong, I really want to become a witch. It's just that the books I'm reading just aren't answering all my questions as they are written by older women dedicated to the craft completely, not a young beginner. Any sources of information or tips on becoming and being a solitary witch are also welcome.
Thanx to the moon and back xxx
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most people dont realize that witchcraft is a natural thing... nature is more involved than anything...and that the things you see on charmed and in movies and other tv shows..are pretty fake...
there is a book called "elements of witchcraft. natural magick for teens" written by ellen dugan..the great garden witch.
it may not be what you are looking for. but its a great way to start. i read it, and practice all the time. i think its great to start out with.
also, many people think you have to "worship satan"
witches dont believe in satan, or evil..or demons, nor do they work with them.
also, you shouldnt care what anyone else says about what you chose to do. ive seen a lot of answers from others, and its just stupid and rude.
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Ok my family is very strong believers in Christianity but I believe in Kabbalah (which is very very different). I've never said anything about it b4..I just went along with them and went to church and stuff. Well I guess that because it's never caused a problem before. Now they know that my boyfriend isn't a Christian and they're all like you can't be with him..and see I've been with him as long as I can remember and I love him to death. If I tell them I'm not a Christian I'm really afraid that they'll either ground me forever and treat me like crap or send me to bording school. What should I do? Because I can't go the next two years without my man. (link)
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hi. im kinda in the same position...my family memebers are strong believer in christianity..but not i. im what you would call..."agnostic" lol..i havent told them tho..but they know i like to read about other religions..and that im not a true..strong believer in it...
i think you should talk to them about it. tell them you respect what they believe in, and that they should respect your beliefs, and that it shouldnt matter what your religion is, or anyone else's is...
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13/f i like this guy but he's 16!! i don't know what to do!! we haven't really talked that much..but i know alot about him from his friends..i like love him so much!! what do i do? (link)
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get to know him...start some small talk first..
when ever u see him just smile and say "hi"...then eventually make the conversations grow..to "hi how are you? my name is (name)..you seem really nice" and that such...dont go about telling him how you feel too soon tho. when you like someone you should tell them, but i think in this case, talk to him a little bit before you tell him.
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i was wondering what would happen to my puppy (about 4 monthes) if i would give her rawhides/pigsears. My family wanted to give them to her because she chews alot and shes starting to get bored with the toys she has and everytime we get her a bone ( like a nylabone) she eats the 3 back in a day or 2. We figured that her stomach was strong enough for them because she hasnt gotten sick at all from the wide variety of food and treats shes had. also shes unintentionally gotten some people food and has been just fine. (link)
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im sure it would be fine to give him rawhides and pigears...(ew pigears, lol)
we gave my dog those when she was a puppy...n she never got sick.
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