Kissing my new boyfriend is kind of awkward. It's like, when we kiss, it feels more robotic then passionate. For example, our mouths just move in the same rhythm. I suppose this is due to lack of experience but I'm not sure. Does anyone know how I can break this habbit?
Thanks,
Sarah
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? vintagerose answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 10:41 am: well, it is probably due to inexperience. try running you fingers through his hair for a passionate kiss and for a fun kiss loosly hang your arms around his neck and smile when you pull away and maybe giggle. to make the kisses not accward you have to make sure you are confotable adn he is as well.llook himin the eyes before you kiss to make him relize you are about to kiss him and it not going to be the same from any other kiss.
The sucky thing is it is really his falt because kissing is like dancing, the man leads. So he should be lighly restng his hand on your jaw or on your butt. HE should kind of controle the kiss.
you should feel the intensity inside of you. Are you aure you like hissing him? because it might be you dont really want to wich is your lack of intensity.
hope i could help! good luck! [ vintagerose's advice column | Ask vintagerose A Question ]
SweetxxIntoxication answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 10:31 am: hi..
wow some of these answer that i read a pretty...um...not an answer im sure your looking for.
im sure its because of a lack of experience...but if hes the one that "leads it off"..maybe you should try too next time..or dont go right into the long "passionate" and just me a little playful at kissing first..and when you do go for the longer kisses, go slowly at it..dont try n have it look like your about to brake into rough wild sex, l.o.l.
DanaDaniellex333 answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 10:11 am: Sarh,
What you do is stop kissing him for at least a week...and if he asks why then tell him that he needs some practice....he will understand! I promise!
simplyblond3xo1 answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 9:40 am: well he has to be a good kisser or its not going to work because the boy is suppose to lead off. and if your doing that job then he is going to be doing the same thing. but i dont think you want to tell your boyfriend he is a bad kisser so you just take a step up in your kissing you can do it! hope i helped
<33 Lexie [ simplyblond3xo1's advice column | Ask simplyblond3xo1 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.