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okay why is it that ,y parents always take my yuonger sister's side? and she lies a ton! but they believe her if she says that me and my brother did, when we never actually did it..so im just wondering why do they always believe her?
It's because.. she's the baby of the family. The sweet little angel who never lies nor gets into trouble. The parents tend to blame the older siblings, because they're older, they are supposed to be "more mature" and have "full knowledge of what they're doing", and "take responsibility for their actions".. so whenever stuff happens, the older ones are too blame. I say just ignore it and just wait.. whenever your little sister gets older and she'll be "more mature" and "knows the consequences of her actions"... then she'll get into trouble. Maybe even try catching her in her lie/act so her parents will def. know it's her and not you and your brother! I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
Note to self: I miss you terribly.
This is what...We call a tragedy.
Come back to me, Come back to me, To me.
Note to self: I miss you terribly.
This is what...We call a tragedy.
Come back to me, Back to me, To me.
Yes it is a song. It's called "Note To Self" from a band called FROM FIRST TO LAST. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
umm.. well first of all. i cut.. second of all.. ppl keep telling me that its really bad and unhealthy but i seriously dont understand why?
*me*
It IS really bad and unhealthy. I mean, whenever you cut, you can get seriously addicted and inflicting harm to yourself isn't good alone. But then more you do it, the more you bleed and then you can DIE from loss of blood. It's something nobody should get into, and if you are addicted to it, you should get help right away. Tell anyone ; friends, family, teachers. Anyone!! I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
laguna beach this past weeks episode there was a song while jessiaca and jason were having dinner
the words i remember are
everybodys saying that im crazy....
he loves me he hates me doesnt really matter i know who we are who we are
what is it?
also there was another song in that episode i just remember the words were just breathe just breathe
do you know these songs thanks
Well I definetley know the "breath just breathe" one.. that's called "Breathe" by Anna Nalick. For the other song, that one didn't ring a bell so I tried looking it up on google and I tried going to Laguna Beach pages and looking for the song and I couldn't find it anywhere ( because the people on the site didn't add that episode's song list yet ) so I'm sorry, I tried everything..please IM me sometime and I'll keep your screename on my bl and if I ever find out I'll IM you ASAP. My screename is: MELii x MARiiE
I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
My best friend is 13 and I'm almost 14. I got my period last november and she still hasnt gotten it.
So we were talking about it one nite because i got it that nite. So she was like damn it I want mine and I was like you shouldnt. Than she was like my mom told me that when your friends get their periods your more likely to get yours around that time too. I was like really thats weird.
Now is this a true statement or a wild guess I mean because to me it sounda a little out there.
Its a little weird so i didnt know where to put this question.
Yeah it is a little weird, but yeah you kinda do get yours coincidentally around all your friends. ( which is good cause if you don't have a pad or anything, they might =D ) i don't know why, but whenever I get mine, my best friend gets her like.. 2 days later. But then some of my friends don't. So yeah it's kinda of a yes/no thing. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
my boyfriend is mad at me cause i dont get jealous when he talks to other
girls but i am not a jealous person he says that if i dont get jealous
that i dont really love him i was wondering if this is true????.
No, not at all! It's great that you aren't a jealous person because that shows that you DO love him and that you trust him whenever he is talking to other girls. He just might be a little mad that you don't get a little angry sometimes like girls do whenever their boyfriends talk to other girls ( cause' in a way that does show you care, but I think not being jealous would show it more ) .. so just sit down with him and explain to him how you do love him, it's just you are not a jealous person and that you trust him. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
p.s. Yeah that kinda doesn't make sense because ( like on Laguna Beach for ex. ) Jason always gets so mad at Jessica whenever she always is asking him where he is, who he was talking to ( and what about and stuff ) so yeah, it's good to be non-jealous type =)
how do you approach a stranger at a party? i'm a really shy 16 year old, and i can't approach strangers. what's an easy way to? what's your experience with approaching people? don't be scared and just do it? but do what?
What I might try and do, is bring an outgoing friend with you to the party, and just walk around with her a bit and see who she talks to. And whenever she's talking to them, join in on the conversation! =) And then maybe after awhile you'll get more used to talking to strangers and leave her and start walking around on your own =) I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
i went out with this kid we will call him C, well we broke up because he accused me of cheating because some one told him i was, but thats a lie i gave my best friend a hug. well we recently went back out and broke up because he cheated on me this time with my best friend, he doesnt get the picture i dont want to date him he calls me 24/7 and he tells me he loves me if i got an away soccer game he shows up when the bus gets back and nos what way i go home and waits for me and really annoying i dont know what to so please help!
What I would do is I would just tell h im that he has to stop doing this, you don't want to date him, and it's freaking you out and to just leave you alone. Cause he's practically like, stalking you.. and that's really weird. If he doesn't listen to you, then I might wanna suggest talking to a friend or someone about it, cause that's REALLY weird.. =/ I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
I finally convinced my parents into letting me get a puppy. We've been looking around and found a few that we liked and we're buying one soon. I was wondering if you could give me some tips on how to make that puppies first night in our home as safe, fun, and not scary at all. Please help! I'll rate =] thanks!!
Here, I found the PERFECT site for your question! =D
http://www.dog-breeds.net/New_Puppy_Care.htm
... it gives you all sorts of tips on what to do on your puppy's first night! I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
How can you tell if its true love? I am having feelings for this one guy, they are more than my usual feelings for guys. I just want to know how it feels and what the "symptoms" are.
Thank you.
5's I guess
I can't really TELL you whenever you will have true love, you'll just know. You will just be able to tell whenever you are always smiling, you are always thinking about him, you miss him even though he just walked away from you, and you guys just love being together and with eachother. You just have to feel it. =D
Ok, so there's this girl who I REALLY love (real love, not "is she hot"), and she knows I like her, and I want to ask her out in a special way... not just "Hey, will you go out with me?" No. No way. I want something special like they did in Bye Bye Birdie (except her name has no rhymes or puns, and I'm the worst songwriter in existence). If it helps, it's my first time asking someone out, I can't do it in person because all the classes we have together, we're on opposite sides of the room, and I'm an insanely shy person. Are there any cute & special ways to do it on the interweb? That looks like my best bet right now... please, I really need help!!!!
Try finding out some of the things she likes. Maybe if she likes art, try drawing her a picture. If she likes poetry, maybe write her a poem ( her name doesn't have to be in it or anything.. ) or just try finding a really sweet poem. Or maybe just try writing her a note asking her out and wrap the note in ribbon with a flower attached to it and have her friend give it to her ( if you are too nervous too .. ) girls like it whenever guys are simple but sweet. It shows they're romantic and sweet =) I wish you the best of luck & I hope everything works out!!!! I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
ok i have a couple of songs
who sings....
don't go chasing waterfalls
i dont want you back (not jackson 5)
ghosts of a good thing
thanks!
well for..
"Don't go chasing waterfalls", I got TLC
for " I don't want you back " I got Eamon
& for " Ghosts of a good thing " I got Dashboard Confessional
... I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
how do you get cute waves in your hair without gettin a perm...?? please help ill rate high!
You can scrunch it. Thats' whenever you take a shower and then partially dry it, and then whenever your done you gel it and spray it with hairspray basically. It's really simple. There's also something where some people I know, they braid all their hair and then keep it in over-night and take it out in the morning.. but i don't know if that's a good idea, I've never seen my friends do it. So I'd def. prefer the scrunching... I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
I have a problem, i have a huge crush on this one boy that I've known for a long time. He always flirts with me and tells me his secrets, but im afraid that I'm going to be the best friend. What are some things i could do to be more than a friend. I'm also araid that he is just a big flirt. Does anyone know how you can tell if he may be one?
Sorry if you think im pathetic.
If your not a smartass to me i might be nice. Or if your a smartass and you made me laugh i might be nice and rate you.
That's it.
Thank You.
Well to tell if he's just a big flirt is does he flirt with alot of girls? I mean like, ALOT? Cause then if he does, then he probably is. But I don't think he is. Some ways to become more than a friend is to defientley flirt with him!! Just try giving him signals that you like him more than just a friend. And don't be worried if he doesn't get those signals.. boys usually don't get hints very well. Maybe even try finding out through his friends or yours who he likes....I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
ok i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 months and i love him and i cant stand not being able to talk to him.. well anyways yesterday he told em abotu a girl he was talkin to on the phone that he used to like and asked out but it didnt work because she wouldnt say yes or no (and idk y) but anyways she was talking to him and didnt want to hang up and then he told her that he had to go and call his "friend" (aka me) i know that i am not his friend and his parents know we arent arent friend that we are going out but idk if i should be jealous of this girl or not she WILL be able to be with my boyfriend more then i am because she goes to school with him and i can only see him a couple times a month because i live far away and have to figure out a way out the house.. can some help me out?? and is it normal the way i am actin??
Yes the way your acting is completley normal. Your prob. just worried that your boyfriend is going to leave you since you guys only see eachother a few times a month and he's going to always be seeing this girl. But if he's refering to you just as a "friend", I'm sorry, but he might still like her, because if he didn't, then he should tell her that he has a girlfriend and shouldn't be afraid or anything to let her know that... =/ I would seriously talk to him about all of this. Just let him know how you feel about this girl and your relationship. I hope everything works out, and I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
can some one give me some pics of destroyed jeans. ive been looking but my search hasnt been succesful. it would be sooo helpful. thanks a lot! bu bye
well hollister and abercrombie probably have some ripped jeans ( well I know abercrombie does, but idk about Hollister ) so heres there sites:
(Hollister):
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?storeId=10251&catalogId=10201&parentCategoryId=12552&categoryId=12603
(Abercrombie):
http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/lifestyles/html/homepage.html#
( just go to WOMENS, and then JEANS.. tehre's like four diff. options... so I didn't know which one to do )
umm.. theres also.. american eagle..
http://www.ae.com/AE_SectionPage.process?RestartFlow=t&Section_Id=320&Gender=Womens&CatalogFlag=FloorSet&Merchant_Id=1&Section_Title=Jeans
... I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
so theres this girl, we both like eachother and all and theres this dance coming up at our school and were both 15 and shes really like cute things so i was just wondering like alot of cute different ways i could ask her cuz she would really like it thanx
Well a cute way to maybe do it is to write a note to her and attached a flower to it in ribbon or maybe ask her to her face and give her a flower. Most girls like it whenever you just do something simple. Because it shows that you really care and can be sweet and romantic =) I hope I helped & I hope she says yes!!!
Love,
MELii
hi i am a guy who shaves his legs. i have recently started to get red bumps on my legs after shaving and they stay there for a long time, they also sting alot too. is this normal? if not what do i need to do to make it stop? thanks for helping and i didnt put this on here to be made fun of i put it here to get a straight answer nothing more.
It's just razor-burn.. and yes it does sting =/ but the only way to get rid of it that I know of is to just put some lotion on it. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
Okay, I went out w/ a guy for a month. I really really like him! I mean he is just like me. We are skaters/punk/emo/or goth...whatever u wanna call it and we have so much in common and he seemed 2 reaaly like me. I mean...we made out a lot and he was the one who wanted to in the first place!but he's a grade higher than I am and we don't get to see eachother much. Well..sunday..he called me and said that we had a huge problem..then he said that when he thought bout it it was so easy but now that he was talking to me it was hard, Then, he said he would call me back in 10 min. When he called me back..his friend was tellin him what to say and he broke up w/me! I was so upset...I never cried that much (after we hung up that is! I ACTED COOL OVER THE PHONE!) and now..he's goin out w/a total slut! every time I see him..I wanna cry! what do I do?
Well I would just try your best and forget about him. Who needs him? He sounds like a total jerk anyway for doing that to you.. just try distracting yourself. Watch movies, draw, listen to music..or maybe find a new hobby! Try doing something where you can make some new friends ( or maybe make a new boyfriend =D .. ) so your new friends can distract you also. It's just best that you occupy yourself. And slowly, you will start to forget about him less and less. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
Hey well im 14 im going to get a car when im 15 and my aunt is gonig to sell her 2.5 TL Acura to me..but tha only problem is its a '98! is this good? its leather and everything and it only has 75,000 miles on it..
That's perfectly fine! 75,000 miles isn't bad at all.. but if it was like 200,000... I wouldn't bother getting it at all cause then that's not a good car. And it being a 98's fine too. So get it! Lucky.. I wish I was gonna get a car whenever I turned 16.. =/ haha I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii