Question Posted Thursday September 1 2005, 9:43 pm
my boyfriend is mad at me cause i dont get jealous when he talks to other
girls but i am not a jealous person he says that if i dont get jealous
that i dont really love him i was wondering if this is true????.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Misquishy answered Thursday May 4 2006, 9:54 pm: I'm telling you, by you not being jealous...everything will go much easier for you! I'm 16 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a half, and he's a gorgeous guy, and everyone at school (of course) see's that too. Every girl likes him, and he pays no mind to it, but I can't help it. I guess I don't feel half as good as I should be for him. It's tough!
Talk to your boyfriend because he shouldn't be feeling that way. Having a jealous girlfriend is a burden, like having a jealous boyfriend as well. Insecurities, mistrust, and the whole package...what for, eh?
MissyBee XoXoX [ Misquishy's advice column | Ask Misquishy A Question ]
MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday September 4 2005, 6:13 pm: No, not at all! It's great that you aren't a jealous person because that shows that you DO love him and that you trust him whenever he is talking to other girls. He just might be a little mad that you don't get a little angry sometimes like girls do whenever their boyfriends talk to other girls ( cause' in a way that does show you care, but I think not being jealous would show it more ) .. so just sit down with him and explain to him how you do love him, it's just you are not a jealous person and that you trust him. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
p.s. Yeah that kinda doesn't make sense because ( like on Laguna Beach for ex. ) Jason always gets so mad at Jessica whenever she always is asking him where he is, who he was talking to ( and what about and stuff ) so yeah, it's good to be non-jealous type =) [ MELiixMARiiE's advice column | Ask MELiixMARiiE A Question ]
historygrl4no1 answered Sunday September 4 2005, 2:14 pm: No, not at all. He's just probably just mad because he thinks that you don't love him and that you love some one else. I would get him alone and explain to him that you are not a jealous person, but if he still refuses to accept it, then dump him, cause he obviously can't trust you. Hope this helped, and you don't have to dump him like I said, just do what yoyu think is right.
soin2pink answered Sunday September 4 2005, 12:42 pm: dis is deffenatly not true, jsut because you dont get jelous doesnt mean you dont love him! that just means you trust your bf with whatever he is doing!! believe me it is sooo much better to be a nonjelous person then someone that gets jelous fast. because that means you dont trust your bf and thats how fights in between you guys start! so keep it up! hpe i helped.
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Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday September 1 2005, 10:26 pm: No! That's rediculous. This is surreal! Guys would think it was cool for you to allow him to talk to other girls in most cases. He sounds like he just wants drama, and thats not cool. Tell him you can't help how you feel, and your more at rest not having drama, and it's selfish of him to want you to feel bad feelings. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
XooWonderwallooX answered Thursday September 1 2005, 10:03 pm: OF COURSE NOT!! it just means that you trust him enough and that you know he loves you enough that even if you see him talking to another girl you know its nothing and they dont even compare to you. please rate!!
DeeSireDiOr answered Thursday September 1 2005, 10:01 pm: Hey
it seems that he might feel insecure about the relationship and how you
feel about him. tell him, why you are not jealous, tell him that you
love him and trust him. a relationship without trust wouldn't be as
strong. so who knows, maybe he is the "jealous" type, and he
might feel jeaolous about someone when he "loves" them, he
probably thinks, that since you are not jealous, then you don't
love him.
xXxpinky615xXx answered Thursday September 1 2005, 10:00 pm: That's bullshit. Your boyfriend is an idiot. I don't give a damn if my boyfriend talks to another girl. Tell him that you don't get jealous because you trust him. If you got jealous you wouldn't trust him. Say, would you want me to NOT trust you? Trust is a key thing to making a relationship work.
My boyfriend talks to girls, hangs out with girls, goes to girl's houses. I don't give a shit. Why? Because I trust him, I know that he loves me and I know that he won't be doing anything that would hurt me or our relationship.
Any girl that get's jealous of their boyfriend talking to another girl is either A) Insecure about her or the relationship or B)Does not trust the guy.
That's exactly how it goes. So tell him it's bullshit. You do love him, and you don't get jealous because you trust him and know he won't do anything jeapordize your relationship. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
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