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Asking her out
Ok, so there's this girl who I REALLY love (real love, not "is she hot"), and she knows I like her, and I want to ask her out in a special way... not just "Hey, will you go out with me?" No. No way. I want something special like they did in Bye Bye Birdie (except her name has no rhymes or puns, and I'm the worst songwriter in existence). If it helps, it's my first time asking someone out, I can't do it in person because all the classes we have together, we're on opposite sides of the room, and I'm an insanely shy person. Are there any cute & special ways to do it on the interweb? That looks like my best bet right now... please, I really need help!!!!
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let me start by saying women like confidence in a guy, so indirect aproach may or maynot work with this girl. but if you really have to go the indirect approach, i would go the floweres and chocolate deal. before class put a rose and a small box of chocolates on her seat. belive me. chocolate is a womans best friend.
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Try finding out some of the things she likes. Maybe if she likes art, try drawing her a picture. If she likes poetry, maybe write her a poem ( her name doesn't have to be in it or anything.. ) or just try finding a really sweet poem. Or maybe just try writing her a note asking her out and wrap the note in ribbon with a flower attached to it and have her friend give it to her ( if you are too nervous too .. ) girls like it whenever guys are simple but sweet. It shows they're romantic and sweet =) I wish you the best of luck & I hope everything works out!!!! I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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I would do like the scavenger hunt thing that Taylor and Alex did for Jason and Talan on Laguna beach when they asked them to the winter formal. They wrote them a little note in a spot they knew they would find, and had the guys go to different places to find "clues". When they got to the end of the scavenger hunt, they were on the beach where they found 2 really really big cardboard boxes - which guess what - had the girls in them holding "WINTER FORMAL?" signs. Something like that would be cute. Otherwise I like soccer_crazii 's ideas hope i helped =)
Rachel
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not on the internet...lame! what you should do.... is write it out on like a white undershirt, and then when u see her be like oh wow im getting warm, and take off your sweatshirt. my friend did this to ask out his girlfriend and it was totally cute. :)
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aww thats so cute, i wish someone woudl love me for real, not just that ur hott stuff. Do what she loves. if she loves poetry write her some and stick it in her locker. if she likes art, draw a picture of her. etc etc, if you need any more help just send me a question. hope ive helped.
~Rachael
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mabe you should buy a card or make one telling her how you feel about her.then slip it into her locker or just hand it to her in private.
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ok hunny.. if you really like thins girl run through the hall screamin i love you **** you know? it gets our attention. then you make a sign saying i want your body ***** and then you have a girlfriend easy as that
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Don't worry about it. You shouldn't be nervous...be confident like your the coolest kid in school. Confidence in sexy. Try asking her our on a group date...just ask if she wants to go to the movies with you and some friends. Or just keep talking to her online and start out as friends, a good relationship always starts as a friendship. Then take things to the next level when you think your ready.
Hope this helps!!
<3 Mary n Giul
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i know you want to ask on the internet thing but i think the best way is to ask in person but thats my oppinion so you should do whatever you want..this is stupid but you can make a sigh asking her with you on the side of it holding it and send it to her
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If your really into her, doing it online might be too impersonal. Maybe you could send flowers to her house with a card on it. A song might be too overwhelming, and too much. Get a really good song and tell her you want to dedicate it to her and lay it on big time. Or right her a really nice letter expressing your gut feelings, and you can list all the things you feel about her, or like about her. Or invite her over your house and show her a good time! Simple might be better I know I would be really overwhelmed if someone wrote a song for me in order to ask me out. You might want to wait until your going out to do that. Oh and by the way, actions speak louder than words! No need for fancy ways to ask her out, when you could very potentially show her how much she means to you by treating her royally!
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