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sister..
okay why is it that ,y parents always take my yuonger sister's side? and she lies a ton! but they believe her if she says that me and my brother did, when we never actually did it..so im just wondering why do they always believe her?
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It's because.. she's the baby of the family. The sweet little angel who never lies nor gets into trouble. The parents tend to blame the older siblings, because they're older, they are supposed to be "more mature" and have "full knowledge of what they're doing", and "take responsibility for their actions".. so whenever stuff happens, the older ones are too blame. I say just ignore it and just wait.. whenever your little sister gets older and she'll be "more mature" and "knows the consequences of her actions"... then she'll get into trouble. Maybe even try catching her in her lie/act so her parents will def. know it's her and not you and your brother! I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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o i forgot to add..actually my brother is the youngest, it goes me my sister and my brother
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they believe her because shes the baby in the family. Your parents probably think shes so cute and innocent that she wont ever do anything wrong. Since you and your brother are older they're always gonna blame you. Take care
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well its totally different for me, im the youngest and i get blamed for EVERYTHING my older bro and sis screw up, but your parents probably just want to beleive your sister is still their little angel, because you and whoever else are probably "growing up so fast" as they say and they still need a baby in the family, it willl get better i promise
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They do because she's the baby of the family, I mean, if you had a baby, wouldn't you believe everything she or he said? Just catch her in a lie and they will never do this again. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
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Hi there,
Your sister probably doesn't hate you, even if it feels like she does.
When people are jealous or envious, they tend to try and make other people (especially those they are jealous of) miserable, don't let her get to you with the things she is saying.
Don't fight with your sister, because it doesn't achieve anytthing.
Well, why do you fight? I know most siblings. Maybe your sister is insecure. Let me guess, ya'll used to be best friends but as you were getting older...she ended that relationship. She may be having problems and no one will listen to her so she's taking her anger out on you. You need to talk to your sister. I mean you only get one. So, be there for her. and in return she'll be there for you.
Haha, sounds like you're just expierencing some sibling rivalry. Everything'll work out in time.
Your hormones will be going all over the place too, and so a good fight is probably something you will find difficult to walk away from. It's not worth it though! Don't fight with your sister, because it doesn't achieve anything.
I think that you should just go on and ignore your sister. By not rubbing things in her face you are showing you are a better person.
I'm really sorry that she is like that. I really feel that you should tell your mom that you would like to talk to her in private, then tell her about it.
first of all, talk to your sister about it. And I don't mean just ask. Tell her you want know what's going on. Be sympathetic, she'll know you're trying to be good. If she doesn't react as you wanted her to, definitely tell your mom. Tell her that your sister has a serious problem.
Tell your Mom. And tell her you are serious. Things like this shouldn't be taken lightly. It sounds like your sister is having issues and all she needs is time. I hope everything turns out well for your family.
Goodluck
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I have the same problem...it is a very good question, but i think the answer is that they think she is their only baby left, and they want to hold on to her as long as possible, just try to let it roll off ur back. But to help your parents relize that u r still their baby is to give them hugs and say i love you for no reason and always remind them that you'll always be their baby
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