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Ok I need a good place to make a website for a project for one of my classes... I need to be able to upload pictures and put in columns and such! I also need to be able to write good sized paragraphs because the project is suppose to have a couple of essays in it. Any one know of some free websites that I can make one from ?

You can try geocities.com or freewebs.com. Their both free and you can upload and write big paragraphs.

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hi im 13/f and my mom still wont let me babysit. its rlly embarrasing bc i am 13 but she thinks im not "matture" enough. i feel like im being treated like a baby. how do i get her to let me start babysitting so tht i dont hav to hav a babysitter? thanx ~steph~

Prove to your mom that you are ready to babysit. Help her around the house, or play with the younger kids and show her how responsible you are.
hope i could help! good luck!
simone

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What's a good rate to charge for babysitting a 1 and 3 yr old?

Well i'd go for like 8-10$ an hour. If that's too much go for 5-8$ an hour.

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I just moved to a new state and i do not know a lot of people and i want to babysit in my spare time. but i do not know how to get the word out that i will be able to babysit?help me please!

Make a flyer to put out in mailboxes with those who have kids. Or, if you're really good with little kids play with them outside first and work you way up. If they like you ask the parents if they ever need a babysitter that you're free.
hope i could help!
-niki-

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is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit?

It's totally normal.

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my mother is very unhappy about her figure and she wishes to hide it. Are there any specific colors she can wear to make her look thinner? If So Please HELP!! Shes always so unhappy. Thanks!!

Dark colors always help you look thinner.
I'm not sure how your mom looks like but if she's really unhappy about he self and wants to look thinner she could try working out?
But if colors is allur asking for, dark should work.
hope i could help
simone

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i am a 13 year old girl with a lot of friends. boys and girls. but mostly boys. im a girly girl though not a tomboy or anything. when i am with my guy friends i am totally normal and myself.the only problem is that whenever i am going out with a guy, i get nervous. i dont really act myself around him. do you know anything to help me over come this problem?

Ha, i have the same problem!
Well since you have more boy as friends then girls but you're normal around them, try to pretend that he is a good friend too. And the more he makes u feel confertable (sp?) it's likly that you'll get less nervous. So don't worry.
hope i could help! Niki

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okay so im a 16 year old girl who likes a 14 year old boy, I honestly dont care what people think about it, but thats not myproblem. my problem is, i like him a lot, and hes a really friendly guy and i met him not too long ago so yeah but i cant tell if theres anything there yet, like, im friends with his sister, and ill call for his sister to talk to her, and the guy i like will pick up and talk to me too...and i asked his sister if he always does that, as in pick up the phone and talk to her friends at the same time she is, and she said, hes NEVER done that before, so i thought that was really cool, and so yeah, i went to a party at his house yesterday a christmas party and everyyyyone was there, which was a lot of fun, so we were hanging out, and i told his sister that i was gonna put my jacket in her room, so i ran upstairs and 10 girls followed me, and it was really crowded up stairs like REALLY crowded, and then adults came up too so i was like stuck, and my someone opens the guy that i likes door, and he kinda looks out and sees me and then the door closed, you hear him run and open the door and he goes "JENN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and i was like HEYYY! and then we chilled for the ENTIRE night, we were up in his room just laughing at everything possible he was shooting his air soft gun at kids that botherd him we were just being dumb lol, then we went up to his attic thing where he has this HUGE car racing thing set up and everyone was up there, and me and him were talking and he kept on looking at me, a lot, he was just looking at me and stuff, and yeah, so thats how it was the whole night, and then at the very end we were on his trampoline and i had to go so i jumped off cuz he was talking to everyone, and he goes "JENN!" and jumps off and hugs me and then he was like "ill probably see you in a year" and im like " DUDE...SLEEPOVER REMEMBER?!" and he was like OH YEAH! and so yeah, cuz were ALL having a sleep over like 30538304 of us together so itll be a lot of fun but what my question is, is do you think there is ANYTHING there?? because i mean i know you guys dont know him or me, but hes 14 and im 16. I really like him and all and hes just a REALLY nice guy, so i dontknow if hes just REALLY nice and always happy to see me and talk to me on the phone or if he has a lil sumthin for me....oh, and he broke up with his gf 2 weeks ago and he said that he found out that 20 girls like him at his school and i was like "well are you gonna ask one of em out" and he was like " I dont kno, theres this one that i might but i dont know what the concept of it is, like i dont get it* and im like * well...if you want her to be your GF then you ask her to be your gf...if you want her to just go out on a date with you, then you just go out on a date* and he was like * I dont know, they all want me to be their bf* and i was like * well do what you wanna do :) its up to you* and he was liek * yeahh* and so yeah, he still hasnt asked her out or anything so HELP ME PLEASEEE I dont know what i should do, i really like him

It is highly possible that he likes you. But if you're not sure, try to ask him.

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I'm 13 and i have gone out with this boy i really liked him and he was my first boyfriend but he dump me and now i don't want to go out with anyone because i have losed my confidence and scared i'm going to be rejected

Ive never gone out with a boy but i know how you feel. If your scared that you're ganna get regected, don't worry about it. You will get regected everyonce and a while. But if you really like him, go for it.
simone

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Okay how long should u wait for a guy who says he isn't ready for a relationship because he's busy? he says he likes me!

you could try waiting a week and then asking him agan. and if thats too short try alittle longer. Or ask him when he would be ready?
Hope i could help...simone

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heyy i normally answer questions but now i got one!.. alright well im moving in january and my christmas presents are mainly going to be stuff for my new room.. but the thing is i dont want to get really expensive stuff because were gunna be spending a lot of money on the house.. so i need awsome but inexpensive stuff, i already went to ikea, and pottery barn teen.. and i picked out some awsome stuff.. anyone have any other low priced bedroom places?! x3

I know that walmart and Target have some awesome stuff for a cool teen room for low prises! check it out!

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Ok, well, i've been looking around advicenators and stuff. I noticed all these kids between ages 13-15 are so damn caught up on sx and shit. Well, for you to know, I'm 13, and in my town people are so layed back. It's a really small town. I know almost like everyone in the middle school which are ages 12-15. No, one does any of that shit. They all think it's stupid at this age. You never have to worry about having sex at the right time and when. Everyone is like a virgin in my school. I was really confused and distirbed about this......do you think 13-15 is to young to be having sex or not? I'm so confused. Is there something in my town that we're not getting?
thnx so much

-roxy-

I totally agree. I do think that kids of the ages 12-15 are way too young! i myself am 14 and still havent even done it yet, and don't plan on it either. But i think that alot of people tend to do it because their either bored or just think it will make them feel better that their not a vergin anymore. i don't really know, but there's nothing special missing in you town don't worry.
-niki-

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2day my family and i(14) found out that my older sister (27) has a tumour down there, and is supposed to be haveing surgery in a week. after that they will be putting her on keimotherapy(sp?) and well if none of those cure her, she will then only have 1 more year to live..im so scared of loosing her!

Enjoy being with her until shes finished with the kemotherapy (SP?) Don't make her feel scared and confort her. Take things serioucly on the treatments and just make sure that you enjoy her while you still can. Good Luck with your sis! Hope she comes through ok!
-niki-

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What the hell do i get my boyfriend for xmas? of course, he told me not to get him anything but i have to. im lost for ideas. hes 13..he likes pink floyd, jimi hendrix, and ppl. help me please

You could buy him a CD.
or if he likes video games, get him a cool one.
Any sport he likes? what about some equiptment?
give him a photo book with pics of both of you.
Make something nice that you think he would like.
Hope i could help.
*simone*

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okay so every time i like a guy, i like him until he starts to pay any sort of attention to me. Like if he starts to act maybe a little interested, I freak out and like stop liking him! I don't know why! Like ever since my last major bf (we were together for 4 months) I've been like afraid or something to like a guy when he likes me back or like have a boyfriend its so weird does anyone have any ideas on how i can like stop whatever it is and why im doing ? ty so much

you seem to have a similar problem like me. I get nervus when i talk to boys lol. But if you like a guy and he starts to like you back you should go for him and flirt some more. Don't be scared of what you think might happen next.

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I've been going out with this one kid for only like 3 days.. and his bestfriend is going out with my bestfriend (If that makes any sense) so we're always hanging out.. and one time we were layin on my bed and her and her bf were makin out, and so were me and my bf..and he has his hand on my stomach and said.. is it okay if i go down? i kno it means down ym pants.. but like what would he be doing.. dont you think it's a lil early? plez help! x333

Well i know alot of boys want to have sex and all but yes i to think that its to early. I would wait... If he understands he will wait too.

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If you took a rat on vacation with you, but kept her in one of those mini cAges, would that be too stressing for the animal?? (i'd keep food, water, and toys in it)

I don't know much about rats but, it prbably would be stressfull for it.

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ok well i just made a new friend and her name is samantha. well anyway shes really really nice but shes only 13 and shes already gave some guys head! and this was when she was 12. well i know that shed do it again if she found a hot guy at our school but i really dont want her to. we're not really that close so i cant tell her what to do right now. what can i do about this?

Just come clean to her and tell her. If she gets upset about your comment then she either knows you're right but she doesn't want to listen, or she just doesnt care...

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do you think it'll be hard to babysit 2 kids(grl-3)(the boy-6)on the first time ever havin to babysit?

If you know the kids really good it shouldn't be hard. But if you are NEW to babysitting i would try for one child first and move up from there. It also makes it easyer to first babysit a little girl if you are one... but if you'd be a boy, id start with a little boy. Just to get used to the kids. Then go on from there.
Hope i could help!
-Niki-

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ok, so i have a ton of guy friends, and i never have any trouble talking to them or anything. but theres this one guy that i have a crush on, and i cant look at him when i talk to him! i dont know why, i can talk to him fine, but i avoid looking at him, which makes me look stupid! what can i do to make myself look at him? i can talk just fine, but the looking is the problem... thanks!!

Well, i no how you feel cause i tend to have the same problem. But since your talkings fine, to try to look at him you could think of how nice his eyes are or just pretend that you crush is like a regular guy friends.
Hope i helped!
simone

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