Question Posted Wednesday December 8 2004, 4:48 pm
ok well i just made a new friend and her name is samantha. well anyway shes really really nice but shes only 13 and shes already gave some guys head! and this was when she was 12. well i know that shed do it again if she found a hot guy at our school but i really dont want her to. we're not really that close so i cant tell her what to do right now. what can i do about this?
DrummeR4LifE answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 12:48 am: Just come clean to her and tell her. If she gets upset about your comment then she either knows you're right but she doesn't want to listen, or she just doesnt care... [ DrummeR4LifE's advice column | Ask DrummeR4LifE A Question ]
babydoll69 answered Saturday December 11 2004, 12:58 pm: i would sit down and talk to her, say that you dont think its your place to tell her what to do because you dont really know her that well. She will apperciate the fact you are concerned about her. [ babydoll69's advice column | Ask babydoll69 A Question ]
dancinqueen08 answered Friday December 10 2004, 5:36 pm: You can't tell her what to do. She'll do what she wants. If you guys aren't that close, then her actions shouldn't matter too much anyway. If they do, then maybe you shouldn't be friends with her. Just talk to her about how you feel about it and maybe that'll change something. Sorry if I didn't help. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
-LyL-RyAh- answered Thursday December 9 2004, 7:59 pm: Hey sweetie. It's really nice of you that you care about your friends and what they do. You can't technically stop her from doing this. What you can do is talk to her about it and try not to make it sound as if you are bossing her around and telling her what to do. Tell her simply that it isn't the safest thing she should be doing and it can get her in a lot of trouble, with her health even but your not trying to critisize her. Hope I helped and good luck. <3 Ryah [ -LyL-RyAh-'s advice column | Ask -LyL-RyAh- A Question ]
Karen answered Thursday December 9 2004, 3:20 pm: The only thing you can do is talk to her and tell her that it's wrong with what she is/did doing! Just give her some advice! You can't change her yourself, it's up to her! She has to realize that she is a slut! She probably knows she is one but someone has to tell her that she needs to stop and you are that someone! Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Beccers_boo answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 8:37 pm: well first of all no matter how close you are 2 a friend you can NEVER tel them wut to do you can only give them your opinion and advice. Abotu your friend just trust her... its HER life not yours. if it happends again THRN talk 2 her.
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