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Well I use to be on advicenators a while back, & then life got way too busy & I no longer had time for it, & after I while I forgot all about advicenators. =/




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My names maria, but people call me smalls.
I'm 5 feet tall, which would explain why my nick name is smalls. ;]




I'm 17 years old, and a senior in high school.
I always gave great advice before but now that I'm older and wiser, I give
awesome advice.




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what do they do when you get a facial?

Hey

Here are the 8 steps of a facial

1. Smooth your skin with cleansing cream. Leave on for 1-2 minutes to give it time to dissolve grime, oils and stale makeups. Then gently smooth away with cottonwool.

2. Dampen your skin with warm water. Then, gently massage with a blob of facial scrub, avoiding the delicate eye area. This will loosen dead surface skin cells, and leave your skin softer and smoother. It will also prepare your complexion for the beneficial treatments to come. Rinse away with warm water.

3. Take steam for around 5 minutes, to allow the steam to warm and soften your skin. If you have any blackheads, you can try to gently remove them with tissue-covered fingers after this treatment. If you have sensitive skin, or are prone to broken veins, you should avoid this step.

4. Smooth on a face mask. Choose a clay-based one if you have oily skin, or a moisturizing one if you have dry or normal skin. Leave on for 10 minutes, or for as long as specified by the instructions on the product.

5. Rinse away the face mask with warm water. Finish off with a few splashes of cool water to close your pores and freshen your skin, then pat dry with a towel.

6. Soak a cottonwool pad with a skin toner lotion, and smooth over oily areas, such as the nose, chin and forehead.

7. Dot your skin with moisturizer and smooth in. Take the opportunity to massage your skin, as this encourages a brighter complexion and can help reduce puffiness.

8. Smooth your under-eye areas with a soothing eye cream to reduce fine lines and wrinkles., and make the skin ultra-soft. Get some ideas on homemade face masks - For every type of skin.

♥ maria ♥

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what is the "Cowgirl" position in sex........

Hey

Go here:

http://fixedreference.org/en/20040424/wikipedia/Cowgirl_sex_position

♥ maria ♥

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what are some signs of depression?

Hey

* persistent sad, anxious, or "empty" mood
* feelings of hopelessness, pessimism
* feelings of guilt, worthlessness, helplessness
* loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities that were once enjoyed, including sex
* decreased energy, fatigue, feeling "slowed down"
* inability to act
* difficulty concentrating, remembering, making decisions
* inability to think clearly, feeling “fuzzy-headed"
* insomnia, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping
* loss of appetite and/or weight loss, or overeating and weight gain
* restlessness, irritability
* persistent physical symptoms that do not respond to treatment, such as headaches, digestive disorders, and chronic pain
* thoughts of death or suicide; suicide attempts

Suicidal thoughts are the most serious symptom of depression and must always be taken seriously. If you or someone you know is demonstrating any of the following warning signs, seek professional help right away:

* thoughts or talk of death or suicide
* thoughts or talk of self-harm or harm to others
* giving away prized possessions or a sudden lifting of depressed mood (often indications that a decision has been reached)


♥ maria ♥

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theres this song but its not really a song just words with music. something that goes like underwear something? thanks

ashly ♥

Hey

It's Lazyboy - underwear goes inside the pants.

It's a pretty cool realistic song.

♥ maria ♥

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hello everyone! what is requiem for a dream? is that a song? or movie? i dont know

Hey

It's a movie.

My favorite movie lol

♥ maria ♥

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I went to the spa and got a facial.The lady told me she was takeing all the black heads out of my face. Well she did but it left a red mark on my nose (its very noticable and it hurts) I dont know what she did.Can someone tell me what she did? maybe she squeezed it out to hard? my skin is very sensitve and im 13. Also how can i make the heal faster?! please help
i rate

Hey

Well she did her job! lol i mean you went to get a facial and thats what she did. If you dont know what a facial is then why did you get it? When you get a facial the person cleans out your face by squeezing out all the yucky stuff like blackheads, pimples, and so on. Your face hurts because of all the cleaning she did to it. It's gonna be red for a few days, and theres nothing you can do to make the redness go away, because if you touch it the day you get the facial you might get an infection. You just have to leave your face alone and let it heal by its self.

♥ maria ♥

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oh i just got a new top that is white and i have baby black jeans. will it look nice together?

Hey

Ummm baby black jeans? Theres no such thing.
Maybe you mean a light black. Yeah it should look nice together. Black and white always goes together.

♥ maria ♥

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omg dare is this nice song and i dont know what its called but it goes i gotta shake it off or something? help who sings it and where can i get it?

Hey

It's by Mariah Carey - shake it off

You can download it on Limewire.com

just go here:

http://www.limewire.com/english/content/home.shtml

♥ maria ♥

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people say running is a way to lose wieght but can i just walk instead? if not, why cant i?

Hey

Sure. You can walk instead. It's actually better if you walk then run, because when you run you can't keep it up for a long time. You get tried right away. but when you walk you can do it for a longer time and you lose more weight if you do it twice as longer as you run. Also why dont you try jogging. It's better then running and walking put together. But i guess it all depends on how long you walk.

♥ maria ♥

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I know this is really random, but I just have to know: Where do people learn to become ventriloquists? Schools? And how the hell do they do it?



Hey

well people that are interested go online and research it first. And then most of them find a college or school that majors in ventriloquists.
But thats only for the people that want to make this a job and a lifestyle not just a hobby. Others just go online and find sites and learn by themselfs. Although i dont know how they do it i do now that it takes alot of hard work just like any other kind of job would. Also alot of practice. Like they say practice makes perfect!

♥ maria ♥

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i need help what should i name my new puppy? like cute names. its a girl puppy

Hey

Awww i love puppies.

what about these:

Cupcake

Princess

blondie

diamond

channel

abby

baby

butter cup

cuddles

You can also go here:

http://www.about-dogs.com/female_puppy_names.htm

They have alot of cute names

♥ maria ♥

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I don't know if this is the right column for this or not, But if it isn't please forgive me.

Okay, I am a 14-year old african american female. I am nicely shaped and everything, okay, I haven't ever had problems with my skin, I guess I was just blessed, but now I see that I am getting blemishes and breaking out, can someone help me? Like some old remedies or something not something That will make my face have spots but just something to clear it up by next week. Thank you and I do rate high.

Hey

Try proactive

It might not clear your face up in a week but it will help you keep your face clear and beautiful. Trust me on this one. If your face never had any problems before and it just happened then yes your face might get clear in a week or so. Just go here:

http://www.proactiv.com/index.php?acnt=GHPZZ01H


If you need anything else just comment my inbox

I'll be more then happy to help

♥ maria ♥

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After about 10 minutes into a shower i'll start to get dizzy, my head will hurt, my vision fades, and i seriously feel like im gonna be sick. this has happened to me a few times in the past off and on but now its becoming ritual (and its only when i shower). its so bad that i'm not even able to finish showering. does anyone know what's going on and does this happen to anyone else? i've tryed opening windows and changing my products but nothing helps. i'm at the point where i'm seriously afraid to shower lol... i'll take any advice i can get, thanks

Hey

Ummm. Im not sure if anyone could really help you out with this. You should really just go see a doctor. Im sure he or she will tell you what's going on. Im sure it's not a big deal so dont worry about it. Try taking short showers or something. Like ( 5-10) minutes a day.

♥ maria ♥

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ok so this saturday is my friends birthday and there is going to be funday at this park (not an amusement park) along with fireworks.. i want to go but my dad got tickets to see a baseball game (only a $10 ticket) and they are staying overnight

half of me really wants to stay home so i can have friends over and have a good time while my parents and family is out..but part of me feels guilty because i saw how disappointed my dad was when i told him i want to maybe stay back

he said i could stay back if i slept over a friends house (i would really stay at my house) but i dont know if i should chose going with my family or staying back

***my fam and i already saw a mets game, tony hawk skate show, and a pro softball game so its not like we never do stuff together..but im alwways hangin with friends**

what would you honestly do in this situation?

Hey

Honestly even though staying at home and having friends over sounds very tempting and desiring you should stick with your family. I mean when you get older you will have so much time to spend with your friends. You'll hardly spend any time with your family. I know you might be saying yes i will right now but trust me when you get older you won't have as much fun hanging out with your family. Pluse what if you get caught and get in lots of trouble. You might even lose your parents trust. Which is one of the worst things that could happen to you.
So think about it. It's really just up to you.

if you need anything else just comment my inbox

I'll be more then happy to help

♥ maria ♥

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my friend told me jlo died? omg is this true?

Hey

Nope. I dont know why your friend told you that but she's still alive.

♥ maria ♥

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does water help your voice? if you want to sing

Hey

yeah. water really helps your voice. expesially vocally. You should drink lots of water so that you dont get Dry vocal cords. Dry vocal cords cannot vibrate very well, and therefore will not produce a good tone. For this reason, many voice teachers have been urging their students for centuries to drink fluids that range from lemon juice to vinegar, to peppermint tea, water and other potions.

♥ maria ♥

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what can i use to make my pimples go away?

Hey

Try proactive. It's the best out there.

Just go to :

http://www.proactiv.com/index.php?acnt=GHPZZ01H

♥ maria ♥

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can you run with ur ipod on?

Hey

yeah. Sure. Go right ahead. Many people do.

♥ maria ♥

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how do you get people to subscribe to you and leave you comments on your site? for xanga..

Hey

well if you want other people to comment you and read your site then maybe you should comment other people saying stuff like " cute site", and "i love to read your site!" Be nice to people and im sure they will be nice to you. If you subscribe to a person then tell them you have and ask for them to subscribe back if they already haven't. Another way for people to notice your site you might want to join some Blogrings. Just go to Browse Blogrings and find some that your into. Im sure you will get many comments but Make sure you update alot and you add some intersting topics.

♥ maria ♥

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i just got a pimple last night and im going to a wedding tomorrow! well when my pimples come they usually are red for a couple of days, what are some things i can do to cause less redness? thanks

Hey

Well you can't really make it go away faster by washing your face every minute of the day. So wash it once or twice and leave it alone. Otherwise you will just make it worst. To make the redness go away just leave your face alone. If you keep on touching it then it might get bigger before the big day. Just put cover up on it before you leave for the wedding. That will make the redness go away. If you dont like that advice then try putting ice on it for a little while. This will make the pimple red for a little bit but then it might get smaller, so that way when you put the cover up on it, it will be less visible. But for the future you should buy proactive. Just go to:

http://www.proactiv.com/index.php?acnt=GHPZZ01H


It really works. Hope i helped

and if you need anything else just comment my inbox

♥ maria ♥


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