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I'm 15/f and he's 17/m. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 months. I love it when we are together, but he like never leaves me alone. He always ditches his friends for me, then holds it against me. Its really annoying. And then last night he came over at 8 and I'm like oh well I'm going to see transformers at midnight because a bunch of my girlfriends invited me and he was like oh. cool. but i could tell he was really pissed. He like wouldn't talk to me and was just nodding or going yep and he barely even gave me a kiss goodbye.It was like the shortest kiss ever. I don't know why he was mad at me! me and my girls made the plans before he asked to hang out, and i couldn't invite him to hang out with me and 5 of my best girlfriends. Also, because of him, i don't hang out with my friends that much anymore. I do sometimes but usually I'm with him so pretty much i miss hanging with them but i can never find time to see them. So i need help: Why do you think he's mad at me? How can i talk to him about the holding stuff against me, because it upsets me? Also, i want to tell him i want to be able to hang with my friends without him around. How could i say that by being nice and him not taking it the wrong way? Because i still want to be with him and he's amazing, and these are like the only things that he does that are bad. Help? thank you (link)
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Hun,
It sounds like your boyfriend might be a little bit clingy and wants you all too himself. He may be mad because he blew off his friends to spend time with you and he might be exspecting you to do the same for him. However, If your girlfriends invited you to see a movie before he made plans with you than he should respect that. You have the right to go out and have fun with friends and you shouldn't have to blow them off because he wants you too. That's not right, Talk to him and let him know that you care for him but you also need your girl time for a few hours. While you go to the movie with friends then that might be a good time for him to hang out with the guys! ;)
-BahaiMa22
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i always have this feeling, i dunno if theres something wrong with me or its all in my head. i feel like i am always waiting.. like when i'm hanging out with friends or just home alone. its like a waiting anxiety feeling but i dont like it.
any help, should i go to a doctor or is it nothing to be worried about? (link)
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It could be a number things but too me it sounds like you might be paranoid or have some sort of anxiety problem. Have you ever tried asking yourself why you feel this way? Or what is it you might be waiting for?
You could see a doctor, It sounds like an anxiety problem. ;)
-BahaiMa22
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tomorrow i'm leaving for a sports nationals and its going to be 6 days long. today i found out that i just got my period. on top of that... i'm feeling sick. I feel like i need to throw up, i have diahrrea, a little sore throat.
my mom is away on business and will be back tonight. my dad is working and i called him and told him i felt sick, but he got angry and said i should take medicine and rest. he refused to accept that i was sick right before nationals. i tried to tell him that i felt like i needed to throw up and he's just like- its just nerves.
so problem #1- i feel sick and really dont want to leave for nationals. what should i do?
problem #2- we are going to the beach one of the days, and i have my period, and i cant wear tampons. my mom wont let me, and i've tried a bunch of times but it never works out right. so what am i supposed to do? i was thinking i could just tell the coaches that i feel sick and that i dont want to go to the beach. but idk if thats a good idea?
thank you!!
and please answer ASAP. (link)
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Relax!
It could be nerves, If you have your period I suggest bringing some panty liners with you. Drink some hot tea it will help any cramping/pain. Also, Ginger cookies are good for neaseau. Sore throat...Grab the cough drops and start sucking! Don't worry just relax nationals is a big thing it would make me nervous too. Try and do something fun to keep your mind occuiped.
Good luck
BahaiMa22
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so when you are giving a guy a blowjob, you know you are done when he cums, but if you want to have sex, and give a blowjob, then do you blow him until he cums, and then have sex, or just blow him a little but not until he cums, and then have sex? Im confused. (link)
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Depends on the guy, All guys "best friend" works differently. My opinion...I don't think you should give a guy a blow job wait until he finishes then have sex afterwards only because the penis becomes small and he is no longer erect afterwards. You could start to give a blowjob tease him a little bit and then have sex might work out better for you that way.
-Bahaima22
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when do you stop giving a girl head? I mean obviously you stop when she wants to, but if she doesnt say something, what do i do? I know that guys are done once they cum, but what do girls do that guys know to stop? any help appreciated. (link)
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You will know when to stop, She will be soaked and slimy therefore she had an orgasmn. Most girls do not like it if you continue afterwards only becauses we become sensitive down there after they are done.
-Bahaima22
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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on??? (link)
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Too me its a turn on! I like a guy who is gentlemen like and shows that he cares. I also believe that any relationship should be 50/50 sometimes the guy pays for a dinner and sometimes the girl pays for a dinner or sometimes going halves on the whole thing. but for a straight answer not many girls like a guy who is going to be a jerk!
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I want to buy a vibrater, But i'm only 16 years old, AND i dont want to go into the sex shoppe =/ how can i get one? (link)
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Well,
You can order one offline, However there is really no other option besides that but to go to a sex store if you are uncomfortable going alone bring a friend along!
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My boyfriend of 3 years, "Dave" and I have recently moved into an apartment with his friend, "Bob" and Bob's girlfriend, "April".
Bob has to go to basic training for 4 months so it is only Dave and I plus April.
I have to house sit for my grandparents for a week while they are on vacation and am over an hour away from the apartment so I'm nervous leaving Dave and April alone.
I trust him, but I came over to visit yesterday and walked in the room and he was on the computer in our room (he had no shirt on and pj bottoms) while she was on the bed watching him.
I don't know her that well and it freaked me out that a stranger is in our room with my personal stuff and on my bed with my boyfriend, alone.
What I want to know is am I over reacting and should I ask him not to have her in there alone or is that too controlling?
What would you think about this?
Thanks. (link)
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I'm glad that you trust your boyfriend but honestly, 4 months is a long time to go without your partner and like Gunner said below me she will more than likely get lonely. The truth is in a week people can get to know each other and become close. Your boyfriend could be faithful, but you need to think of all the possibilities. I understand that you would be uncomfortable with him not having his shirt on while "April" is there also. Personally, I wouldn't be either if that was my boyfriend. I think you should talk to him about it see if you two can possibly work out a deal maybe he could stay with you? I'll give you my honest opinion I wouldn't leave him alone with another girl exspecially seeing her boyfriend is going to be gone for awhile.
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Me and my girlfriend (18) have been going out for about 10 months. She wants to move at the end of the summer. While I originally told her im on board with it I have had feelings of not wanting to do this.. but I'm not sure what to do. We argue quite often but other times we are great but I feel like in the long run I would not be as happy. I have been feeling this way for about a month now but I have not been able to tell her this because I have needed time to confirm that this is truely the way i feel, and I feel incredibly horrible about it. A big problem that I see is that she never wants me to go on trips with just me and my friends, without her for a few days. I have tried twice to do so and she became extremely upset because I was going to leave for three days to go work on a friend's property and make money, and said that I don't love her as much as she loves me because she feels like no trip is worth taking without me, and that she is worried something could happen to me while I'm there if she isn't there. Both times I have ended up backing out of going and telling an excuse to my friend as to why I couldn't go. I feel like I can't hang with just me and my friends as much anymore because if I do she will be upset. Much of what I feel that I want to do during the summer I feel that I can't because she wouldn't want to do them or want me to do them, and I am starting to feel restricted and controlled. If I am going anywhere where there might be a more attractive girl than her she does not trust me. While I have brought up all of these issues in the past she says that I don't understand and that I should just not want to go on trips anymore because it is immature and hurting her, and that if I loved her as much as I say I do I would just understand and not want to go on them anymore. The more I change to prevent her emotional bouts the more i feel imprisoned.. I am not sure what to do because I love her very much and we have talked about having a future together. While I feel like I want her to change, I know that she is stubborn and feels that she is right in this, so I'm stuck on what I want or need to do... she also has anxiety problems which is a probable reason as to why she acts this way, and does not have really any close friends at all. I love this girl, and if I end up breaking up with her it would be the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. I am afraid of confrontation and seeing her cry or the thought of never feeling her close to me again. This is my first love, my first everything really, and I have never had this happen before... I am stuck and unsure of what to do. If you took the time to read all of this, I deeply appreciate you. Im sorry it was so long. I'm just feeling desperate for help right now. (link)
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Breakups are hard, However you need to put yourself first. If your gut feeling is telling you that it won't work out in the long run or there is possible unhappiness than you need to listen to yourself because I'm sure there is a reason for feeling that way. Nobody likes to see people cry or hurt but everyone heals within time.
One thing I learned in my past relationships is sometimes you have to do what is best for you and not let the other person hold you back. There is a saying "The longer you wait, The longer you prolong the pain"
You said: "I am starting to feel restricted and controlled. If I am going anywhere where there might be a more attractive girl than her she does not trust me."
Trust is the number one thing in a relationship without it more than likely it won't last yet alone without trust you are looking at a stressful relationship.
If you are feeling restricted and controlled than maybe you just answered your own question. :)
-BahaiMa22
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Do guys prefer the fun, athletic, adventurous type.. or the girly type. Or a balance of the two? (link)
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There are all sorts of types, likes etc. All guys are different and like different things and that is what makes us different and unique. Some guys might perfer a girl who is girly and others might like athletic or even both. Depends on the guy :)
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so on thursday i get all 4 of my wisdom teeth cut out and im really nervous thats its going to be very painful after i get them out because during it wont hurt because im getting IV sedated. Any tips to make it not hurt so bad besides taking the pain medicine? (link)
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Ouch!
I had all four of my wisdom teeth taken out at the same time before too. I won't lie, It does hurt like like you wouldn't believe.
1. Keep gauges in your mouth don't bite down too hard or it will bleed more and change the gauges every 2 hours.
2. Don't eat or drink anything hot for 4 days
3. No chewing anything hard, Don't drink through a straw
4. Eat soft things, Jello, Pudding, and semi warm soup
5. If you decide to brush your teeth (I highly recommend waiting a day or so) brush lightly in the front of your mouth first and as the days go on and you heal more than gradually work your way towards the back.
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Does anyone know where or what the lyrics are to Jay Rocks song Blood walk? (link)
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I think you mean "Blood Nigga" by Jay Rock?
If so, Here you go
http://www.lyricsmania.com/lyrics/jay_rock_lyrics_52623/other_lyrics_93625/blood_nigga_lyrics_905684.html
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Hey BahaiMa22 Thanks for the advice I will continue to try that..
Dan.. (link)
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You're welcome Dan, I wish you the best of luck in whatever you do.
Your friend
BahaiMa22
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I'm 15/F. And i'm dating a guy who is 17. We've been dating for 2 months now, and he's starting to talk about wanting to have sex. I'm still a virgin, and i'm scared to death. I told him I didn't think I was ready yet, and he got kind of aggravated, and said, "that's okay, that's not what i'm in this relationship for anyway" And he's been mentioning it more and more. Any Advice for if i do decide to have sex with him? Or anything else i should do?
I really don't want to lose him. (link)
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Hun I'm sorry to break it too you but I think he might be using you for sex.
Read what you wrote here:
he got kind of aggravated, and said, "that's okay, that's not what i'm in this relationship for anyway
Sounds like he is lying to you, If he really cared then like all the others said below me he would of respected you and he wouldn't of gave you any sarcasm about it. I personally think 2 months is to short of a time to be having sex because that is still the period when you two are still getting to know each other and you are only 15 and not having sex isn't the end of the world infact I give you 100% respect for you standing your ground it shows you have self respect for yourself. However, It sounds like he might need to take a hike.
-BahaiMa22
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[l5/f]
is there anyway to shave down there w/o geting bumps and or irritation, and can you hair removal cream down there.
p.s. i rate all advice high! (link)
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Oh lordy I get this question alot lol
Get a razor that looks like this:
http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k221/ugochii/ea0b3fe4.jpg
It is a non-cut and it's about 10 dollars at any Walmart or drug store.
Also, Try to buy some womans shaving cream again can be found at Walmart or any drug store and I can garrantee you will see a huge difference! ;)
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OK, i was in the kitchen eating breakfast, and my mom was at the counter. And she dropped a fork and when she bent down to get it, i saw up her skirt!!!!!! how do i get that image out of my head?? its sooo gross.... (link)
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LMFAO!!!
Sorry lol! Just try to think about something eles keep yourself occupied and gradually it should fade. lol
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ok...
so i've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months now. he's been great, up until about two weeks ago when he got drunk and cheated on me. i broke up with him, but we got back together a week later because he promised he would do anything to have me back. Now, I believe that he's sorry, but it was kind of a relief to not be with him. don't get me wrong, i love him. he's awesome.
but i have a big problem.
my ex, who i dated for two years, has been calling me. he has wanted me back since we broke up in August. basically since i got with my current bf. i love talking to him... but he will call or text one day, and then i won't hear from him for a week or so...and so then i kind of start to heal the pain a bit and appreciate my boyfriend and think i'm over my ex, and he will call again, completely re-opening the wound.
when i'm talking to my ex consistently, my boyfriend kind of fades out of my mind. but then when my ex stops calling for a week, my attention is back on my boyfriend. I've never cheated on my boyfriend and never would, but i know i still have strong feelings for my ex... but is it just because he was my first love and i should get over him? or is there something more there?
my bf treats me right (except for the whole cheating thing...) but my ex is soo tempting. i think maybe i should decide who hurt me more... my ex broke up with me because he was dealing with his dad being on drugs and he couldnt tell me about it because he thought i would tell someone... so i understand why he left. and maybe i rushed into things with my current bf too soon after my ex and i broke up. but i think my bf hurt me worse by cheating on me. idk. any advice would be greatly appreciated =)
sorry it was so long.
btw, i'm 17, my bf is 21, and my ex is 18. (link)
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Okay
It sounds like that you might still love your current boyfriend but you also might be fed up and the fact that he cheated really got you (Which I don't blame you at all) Your exboyfriend is calling you because he wants you back and you feel he might be a fallback although you have strong feelings for him.
Honestly, You said it was a relief that you and your current boyfriend broke up, Personally I wouldn't take anyone back who cheated on me whether they were drunk or not because action is action and he should of been responsible and there really is no excuse for it at all and you have every right to be mad about it.
I think you might be questioning yourself about your current relationship, If it were me I would call it off because they all say once a guy cheats (whether he was drunk or not) he still cheated and he can always do it again exspecially if he knows he got away with it the first time. The ex boyfriend you mention that he slips your mind which clearly indicates that you are not in love with your exboyfriend which I think it would be pointless to start over again if you are not in love with him but personally I think that if it didn't work the first time than it most certainly won't work the second time. Go with your gut feeling do what you think is right for you. I would clear out on the guys and take a fresh start.
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Ok I want to start this by saying I only want responces from people who play the lotto and win. And please don't just tell me luck, even though luck is apart of it, I know there is more to it. Thank you.
Now, I know that the lottery can be won. My mom has won over $10,000 total at different points in her life. My question is does any one know any really good techniques and stratigies to follow. We have used the 3 wise men book, and also we have used dream work and prayer. Naturally. I would like us to be able to win more consistantly and bigger. Now I used to play a scratcher called pocket change or something, it was only like $1 to play and I would win very often, infact almost every time I played...often though I would either win back my dollar, win 2 dollars and sometimes I would win like $25 and I would use that money to buy a subway ticket in new york where I was living at the time. I don't know what I was doing to win though... My mom has written techniques that tend to work, but she doesn't know exactly when the numbers will come out...For exampl...let's say she comes up with 1111 to play in the 4 digit, Now she may figure that in the last week of the month it will come out, but she would have to play for the whole week, 2 times a day and that comes to about, $14, but let's say it's a number like 1112, then there are now there are 4 ways to play that, which means she would have to play $56 to play all 4 ways midday and evening. That is over the limit for us. So how do you figure out what day it will most likely come on and what way it will most likely come. Are there any good books or e-books to check out, any stratigies that work for you? Thank you for the advice. Oh and this advice doesn't have to be about the 4 digit it could be about the scratches the mega the power ball the 3 digit, what ever you know about. Thank you. (link)
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Even though you don't want to hear it, Lottery is luck.
You either win or you don't thats how the game goes.
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if you have butt sex can you get pregnant? (link)
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Nope, literally impossible.
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i was with my exboyfriend for almost fourteen months. he was my first true love and i know i was his. we broke up & hated each other for about 3 1/2 months. we got back 'together' after that for about 2 months. he now hates me again bcus he believes that i moved on to another guy when i have been head over heels for my ex for almost 2 yrs. he said nothing was real over the past 2 months. he never meant i love you. he told his friend that he might talk to me again. he said he 'knows' he will bcus thats what always happens. he knows we're meant to be together, i think. but i don't know if i want to wait for him. i love him with my whole heart, but is it worth it to wait? what if he decides he doesnt want to be with me and i just waited here for a month or two? i need serious advice. do i wait for my first true love or should i leave it as it is and try and love again?
please help.
-bbbones. (link)
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They say that if it didn't work the first time, Didn't work the second time then it won't work the third time. It sounds like when you two got back together for 2 months there were trust issues. Trust is one of the main things in every relationship and without it the relationship won't last long. Honestly, This is a guy who is going around telling his friends he "might" talk to you again. Stop letting this guy play with your feelings, You two broke up once, You two broke up twice...I think it might be time to move on. I would leave it as it is and try again
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