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confusing ex.


Question Posted Monday March 30 2009, 8:51 pm

i was with my exboyfriend for almost fourteen months. he was my first true love and i know i was his. we broke up & hated each other for about 3 1/2 months. we got back 'together' after that for about 2 months. he now hates me again bcus he believes that i moved on to another guy when i have been head over heels for my ex for almost 2 yrs. he said nothing was real over the past 2 months. he never meant i love you. he told his friend that he might talk to me again. he said he 'knows' he will bcus thats what always happens. he knows we're meant to be together, i think. but i don't know if i want to wait for him. i love him with my whole heart, but is it worth it to wait? what if he decides he doesnt want to be with me and i just waited here for a month or two? i need serious advice. do i wait for my first true love or should i leave it as it is and try and love again?


please help.
-bbbones.


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Sami143 answered Tuesday March 31 2009, 12:10 pm:
Okay so if you honestly love him and you really think that you are meant for each other then it is worth the wait. They say that if you find a one in a million guy keep him because the next one in a million guy is a million guys away. If it is meant to be it will happen i promise and if he doesnt come back to you in a few months then move on that shows that it wasnt meant to be and just move on it will be ok =] but if i were you i would wait to see what happens, cause chances are you wont find anyone like him again. Hope i helped =]

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BahaiMa22 answered Monday March 30 2009, 11:00 pm:
They say that if it didn't work the first time, Didn't work the second time then it won't work the third time. It sounds like when you two got back together for 2 months there were trust issues. Trust is one of the main things in every relationship and without it the relationship won't last long. Honestly, This is a guy who is going around telling his friends he "might" talk to you again. Stop letting this guy play with your feelings, You two broke up once, You two broke up twice...I think it might be time to move on. I would leave it as it is and try again

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