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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.


I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

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14/f
I am a choreographer for hip hop dances. But my only problem is, I need good songs to dance to. Anyone have any good FAST PACE hip hop songs?

This is how I rate.
2 songs or less=1
3 songs=2
4 songs =3
5 songs=4
6+ songs= 5

Sorry if some aren't hip hop but they're good.

Lose Control-Missy Elliot
We be burnin-Sean Paul
Hung up-Madonna
Dance, Dance-Fall Out Boy
Stars-Switchfoot
Hey ya-Outkast
Since U been gone-Kelly Clarkson
Nelly- Er time ( something like that)
Chris Brown-Run it
1, 2 step- Ciara

Well that's all I got.
Hope it helped!
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Whats the song titly and artist for this song:

I THINK the lyrics go:
" Here without you baby. _____________ I know your still with you in my dream. Tonight girl, its only you and me"
hah I don't remember lyrics well * as you can see* but I believe it goes something like that.
Thanks guys =]

Here without you baby but you're still on my lonely mind. I think about you baby and I dream about you all the time. I'm here without you baby but you're still on my lonely mnid and tonight girl it's only you and me.
Yeah that's 3 doors down. Here without you.
Hope it helepd
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Does anyone know some really cute quotes or song lyrics that I can put in my info on IM cause I have a bunch but I either dont wanna use them or have already used them. Im looking for something like ""Only believe the things I wrote
I'll put it in a note, yeah
I'll cross my t's and dot my i's
Better say hello, don't you dare say goodbye *
I'll write sincerely yours and sign my name
P.s. I love you forever & today"
[AllAmericanRejects]" --that or "All a girl really wants is someone to want her back -one tree hill" --or that. song lyrics or cute quotes from tv shows like the oc or one tree hill or just cute quotes in general. thankss. Ill give feedback=]

well there are a lot of cute xanga sites, you can go to the xanga homepage and in the top right cornor it says search. click search and then click users. type in the words "cute quotes" or something along those lines.
Here are a few to get you strarted:

*http://www.xanga.com/EVERYTHiiNG_QUOTES

*http://www.xanga.com/k3__barbiiequ0tes

*http://www.xanga.com/CRAZY_QUOTES_xo

*http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=girlyquotes

http://www.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=1858043 ( all the names you'll see after you click this link will be ones that have good quotes!)

Hope this helped!
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I wanna get the side-swept bangs hair cut and I was wondering something..

Do you personally think it's better to have the bangs on the right or left side? Like, which do you think looks better?

It'd also be nice if anyone had good pictures of the haircut (of yourself or famous person or anyone) cause I wanna see some :)

Thanks!

I personally like them on the left side. It looks cute on both sides.maybe cut it off at the top of your eye, like by your eye lid. I really like that hair cut and I hope it looks cute!
good luck!
hope this helped
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He Laura I love your site and you're awesome!

Thank you =)

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My mom wont let me hang out with guys and im 16 years old. She wont let me go to the movies with a guy either. I want to go to the movies tomorrow with my frineds and guys but i dont want to lie to my mom about it. How can i get her to say yes and convince her by tomorrow without having her meet them?

Tell her that you think your old enough to make your own decisions and that some of your other friends are going, and their parents trust them enough.
Hope this helped
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Lo

p.s. Good luck!

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my parents are going through a divorce, and i am devastated. how can i get over my stress?

You should start a journal and write down everything you feel. You should also find somebody to talk to to help you get through this.
Hope this helped and don't worry things can only go up from here =)
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My 14th birthday is Saturday. I'm having about 15-20 people over. What fun things should we do? What good movies, games and other things are fun to do?

a few good movies: Mean girls, sleepover, 50 first dates, house of wax if yu want a scary movie. charlie and the chocalte factory was a good movie if yu want a fun one. you could make a craft of sum sort. we amde scrap books at my party. decorate maybe like ornaments or sumthing christmasy! Hope this helped
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were do igoto to get the link to put into my aim profiel?

you go into your profile and press the word link (it's underlined) copy and paste the web adress, all of it and paste it into the hyperlink url then put whatever yu want it to show up as saying in the hyperlink text box.
hope this hlped
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okay i like this guy, and like we talk alot! online at school and all that, but i dont think he knows that i like him...or he doesnt like me back. What should i do?

ok well i kno like just how yu feel cause im kinda in a situation similar to urs. I just talk to him i guess. I would have one of ur friends ask his friends if he likes yu. don't make it reely public though, just have a friend ask. keep talking to him and flirt with him.
Hope this helped
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Ever since I started 7th grade, I`ve had no self confidence. I`m always thinking I`m to fat, annoying, ugly, unpopular, a dork, mean, loud, stupid etc. I used to be so self-confident ;I used to love everything about my self, and people respected me more for that. Now I lie to make people think I'm more popular and I always catch myself acting fake or saying something completley mean. I always worry if what I'm saying or dressing like will make me seem more unpopular. I get jelous of my friends if their in the popular girl's profiles as their bff`s, or if I`m not invited to hang out with them. I worry no guys like me, I worry I`m not good enough. I try to fix in to certain cliques such as the populars ; goths ; preps ; jocks ; nerds etc. just to feel accepted and I'm always changing my self to please people. I can't stand this anymore, I want to go back to being me. I dont even know who I am anymore. Please help. I know it longs, but I'd appreciate any help!

I think yu should just be yourself, even if it's not good enough for anybody else. Start a journal and write down your feelings. Everybody goes through emotions like this, but he important part is that YOU accpet YOU. its ok to feel like you dont belong. listen to what ur head is telling you to do. just have fun and hang with ppl who accept you, thats what i do!
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OK,well. I am 13/f and i recently moved into my sisters old room. I am going to redo it. I can't repaint it tho. Two walls are red, two walls are white. I really love the old hollywood look like marilyn monroe, the coca-cola stuff... that type of stuff. Well, I'm having a really hard time thinking of ideas and finding stuff to do. If anyone has any ideas, or even links of things i could put in my room, that would be great! thanks a bunch! i rate! ♥

That sounds cool and the colors will llok good. Maybe try and find some pics of marilyn monroe, frame and hang them up. Put up a shelf with old coca cola bottles on it and maybe look for sum pillows with coca cola logos on them. try looking on eBay and Amazon for the pics and bottles. they should have sum good stuff.
Good luck, i'm sure your new room will look great!
Hope i helped
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Is it true they dont make Ipod minis anymore?

And can u still get them anywhere?

Yes, it is b/c they r makin nano's and i heard nano's weren't good, but i think u could still buy minis on like eBay and Amazon and internet stores.
Hope this helped
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OK so like i have this guy whos like my best friend. Online when it talk to him, hes so sweet and nice and funny. Then when i'm out with our friends, he either ignores me or like makes fun of me. I really dont understand it. Does anyone know what this means? And just explain it, please

He might have a crush on you. You should talk to him and ask, 'Do you like anyobdy?" or ask one of his close friends who he likes, if hes into you
hope this helepd
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My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?

What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?

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I think thats a good thing to do! Just keep your mind off of him and do things you enjoy like shopping, or bowling or whatever you reely enjoy
hope thsi helepd
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I am a shy teen girl in high school and I recently meet a guy and I felt an instant connection, but I'm not sure if he did. It seems like he likes me but I'm not sure. He has asked me about my interests and I've caught him looking my way in the corner of my eye more than a couple of times, it seems like he kind of does that to everyone else though. I just don't want to be shut down. Should I make a move and also how so?

I know how you feel. you should flirt a little and ask a friend of his if he likes you or is just really nice
good luck and hope this helepd
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I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, and I couldn't be happier to be with him. But, about 4 years ago, when I was 11, I had my very first 'love', and I'm a freshmen now. Well, my first love has his locker close to mine, and when I see him, I like talking to him. I find it making my day sometimes because I really liked this guy and I doubt that I still do, but why do I feel happy around him if we were something years ago? And why am I curious to know how hes doing a lot?

15 and a freshmen.

You still care about him. You should keep talking to him, but do you feel better with him or your boyfriend. You just still do care about you 'first love' and you should. Good luck with everything
hope i helepd a little
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hey ok so i like to run a lot but since its getting colder, i can't run everyday like i like to do. i also do crunches everynight. but i'm getting this belly and i really wanna be able to get rid of it...how can i do that since i can't run??? **i do have a tredmill if running is the ONLY option...i'd really like some others to tho
thanx!!!

You shuld run on the tredmill and listen to your favorite music. You should do the crunches to and watch what your eating, but don't crash diet or anything because that'll hurt you a lot. You can also try Tae bo. Its' pretty cool.
Hope this helped
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guys think im pretty but they are all kinda nerdyish and i was wondering why not alot of the popular guys think im pretty? i've always wondered about this so can someone tell me why? easy 5 unless your mean

I have a rpob like that to sumtimes. If yu don't talk to them, maybe they won't like you in that way. I'm sure your pretty, and I don't know why guys woouldn't like you, they should., Just talk to them and be ncie if you wnat them to notice you.
hope this helped a little
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Ok i'm 13/f n i'm in 8th grade. i haven't met a new guy in a while, but today on the bus there's this cute guy my age and he's rlly cool and i really want to impress him, even if i find out i don't like him i still need sum new guy frends (i go to an all girls school)so tomorrow i want to lik impress him n stuff.....so i need some advice on lik how i shud act n how i shud do my hair n make-up (im 5 feet 0inches, brown hair, brown eyes) I rate high.

-Paris-

I think you shouldn't act all fake. You have to be yourself, or you'll have to walk on glass around him. You should wear a cute sweater and maybe some nice jeans, if you don't wear uniforms, and you shouldn't overdo the make-up. Less is more. Just some blush for color, mascara, a lil bit of eyeliner, and some light eyeshadow. I think your hair, maybe straighten it or scrunch it with gel.
Hope I helped
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