Question Posted Wednesday November 9 2005, 8:24 pm
I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, and I couldn't be happier to be with him. But, about 4 years ago, when I was 11, I had my very first 'love', and I'm a freshmen now. Well, my first love has his locker close to mine, and when I see him, I like talking to him. I find it making my day sometimes because I really liked this guy and I doubt that I still do, but why do I feel happy around him if we were something years ago? And why am I curious to know how hes doing a lot?
MELiixMARiiE answered Friday November 11 2005, 12:11 pm: Well I mean he was your first love. The first guy you ever really really cared about and liked and you might still have feelings for him ( not like romantical feelings ) just happy feelings about all the times you shared together and everything. There was obviously something about him that you liked about him before ( personality, humor, etc. ) and maybe your just being reminded of it. I hope I helped.
happy-helper answered Thursday November 10 2005, 12:43 pm: Curiosity can be a good thing you know? Because your feelings used to be so strong towards him, it's normal to feel something for him (not necessarily romantic) but that thing you admired about him may still be there somewhere. I wouldn't question your feelings for your current boyfriend but just be careful and listen to your heart!
G'luck!
x Steph x [ happy-helper's advice column | Ask happy-helper A Question ]
hco_babe answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 9:09 pm: you probably still have some feelings for him. i mean, you were in love with this guy and he was your very first love, so thats really understandable. its normal, and it happens a lot. if your feelings for him start to get more and more, then you probably still want to be with him more than your current boyfriend. tell both of them what is up. (different times of course) hope i helped. [ hco_babe's advice column | Ask hco_babe A Question ]
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