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hey! does anybody go to Milken high school? i was wondering, what are some teams that you have (Dance team, swim team, etc) and what are some other good/bad things about the school? thanx! (link)
have you ever thought of i dont know LOOKING IT UP ON GOOGLE


I dont know if this reminds someone of anything.. but its a saying i heard over my friends house. Well more like a really long quote\poem..
And All I remember is.


This is for the kids who think MTV ruined there lives. This is for the kids..



stuff like that.

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this is for the kids who think MTV ruined there lives this is for the kids that do or die this is for the kids say good bye i think thats how i remember it


i really like the juke phone but i share a plan and its a cingular plan. the juke is from verizon but i really want it. is there anyway i can have it by not switching to verizon? (link)
sorry but no i wish i could give a longer answer but no is just "the answer"


In the winter i kind of lose all my motivation to exercise, which is ALWAYS a huge problem. I mean its not like i don't do anything. I have 1 hour of field hockey, 4 hours of dance, and gym (if you count that) every day a week. But i dont get much cardio. I am a 14 year old female and I'm 4'11" 98 lbs.

Yeah I'm tiny, but I have a nasty tummy. It just ruins the image of a cute little petite girl! What can I go to get some cardio exercise in and keep my tummy toned up?!! (link)
have you ever thought of...i dont know...GOING TO THE GYM


I have an issue with popularity and what others think of me. I seriously can't stop thinking about it, and basing everything I do around it. I miss when I could just be myself and do whatever! How can I get over this!?


15/f by the way. (link)
why cant you just be yourself now who cares what they think about you and i bet you that at your age the teasing is over cause everybody is more mature so i hope you give being yourself a second chance GOOD LUCK


is it true that jamie lynn spears is pregnant?!


wowzers (link)
yes its true and its not hard to belive SHES BRITNEYS SISTER DDDDDDDDDUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHHHH


13/female

i think that my science teacher likes me. like, he acts weird and creepy around me.

1. hes always calling on me in class
2. hes always looking at me
3. in the morning, when i walk around, he follows me and my friends.
4. hes always giving me bad grades, and he suggest that we go back there and talk to him when we get bad grades, and when i do, he always stares at my boobs.
5. he looks down my shirt.
6. when ever hes around me, or close to me, or where i can see him if i look at him, he does SOMETHING to show off. like, he has this yo-yo, and he always plays with it, and then looks at me.
7. today, when i was leaving the parking lot from my school, he was directing traffic( cause if their isnt a teacher or someone out their directing traffic, its a MADHOUSE!) and when ever my car passed him, he yelled (AT THE TOP OF HIS LUNGS)" BYE SHELBY!!!!!"

this may sound like a really stupid question, and you may say that im just immagining it, but im serioulsy creept out by him. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE! (link)
oh wow you should tell your parents and the princable cause that is a really bad situation your in my martial arts teacher did that with me i told his wife and guess who started teaching HIS WIFE and they are getting a divorce cause of him hittin on another girl


my last day before christmas break is friday and i need to buy christmas presents for 4 friends (all girls) im on a tight budget and wan to get something REALLy nice(considering i only have 100$ and still havent bought presents for my mom dad and sister). please give me any and all ideas!! thanks (link)
ok so for yor friends just get them friend ship necklaces or make them friend ship bracceletes and for your sister im getting mine a eye mask that says qeen of everything and for my dad im getting him a offical jar of nothing it has a note in the jar that says this is the jar of nothing i hope you enjoy and we live in LA so lots of mardi gras beads and i hot glued a bunch of beads to a nice vase for my mom i hope you fined the best presants MERRY CHRISTMAS


I will try to make this as short as possible.I'm a thirty year old female.........Five years ago, I met a man online and we fell in love but he was afraid of commitment at the time and kept going back and forth about what he wanted. I didnt hear from him for about a month and moved on. Then he calls me up and tells me that he is ready to commit, but I had already moved on and told him that I couldn't just end my relationship like that even though I never denied that I loved him deeply. He felt that I betrayed him and he was very hurt. We didn't talk for a while but eventurally we started talking again...and we have tried and gotten closer over the years. He has been through a lot in his life and has some issues because of some of those things. I ended up moving to his city about two years ago and soon after he had a bad car accident which made his issues even worse. He already feels as though every one he loves, he loses and he feels as though he might die because he has migraines and nose bleeds that he thinks may be from an anuerism but he's scared to go to the doctor. While he was getting better we talked about being together and having a baby..possible moving..etc..although we were not together. Then his mother died and he was devasted...on top of everything else that has happened and he has become almost completely emotionally detached from everyone and everything... He is very intelligent and knows that he has issues...he says he sees his mother lying in the floor and giving him her last breath and he can't stand for anyone to touch him and he has hardly goes out of the house. After him mother died, he was left with all of the bills and the house and so shortly after my son and I moved in with him..We sleep in seperate rooms and we are rarely intimate. He says he loves me, but that he can't be in love with anyone right now. He tells me that I should know that I'm special and that once he gets himself together we will work on us. I have now been here about 9 months. At first I didn't believe that he had all of these issues, but I have seen that he really is messed up...I love him with all of my heart and I feel that when he's not being depressed he is a good male influence on my son. I get mad and tired of waiting and everytime I turn around I feel like I should just leave and let him deal with this stuff on his own. but because I told him when I moved in that part of the reason I moved in with him is because I wanted to know if we could be together...now he is very clear with me that if I leave, there will be nothing left in him emotionally...and I only want to leave because I just don't want to deal with everything between now and whenever he gets himself together...I mean I have been waiting for years as it is....but I love him and everytime I think about leaving I feel like it would be the end of my life.....I love and adore this man even though we are not as intimate as I really need him to be at least a little bit to be happy. I need him to be affectionate with me and he can't because everytime anyone touches him he freaks out....I see him try sometimes and I appreciate it, I need to be held sometimes....he has even told me to go find someone to "fill in" emotionally for me until he gets over his issues. I get upset and I don't know what kind of advice I'm even looking for here......but I WILL appreciate any advice that anyone has. (link)
wow lady first of all this thing is too long so i couldent read it all and YOUR 30 WOW YOUR OLD


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xdw1xN-PjY


This youtube video shows what I want to do. I want to take a website and be able to make a video out of the different areas. I think there is something you have to download, but I'm not sure of what it would be called? If anyone knows of something I could do, that would be amazing. I dont want to have to take a camera and tape it, because the quality won't be very nice.

Thanks a million!









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the link didnt show up


I started since 4 is it normal to do it at that age? Im 27 f now and have stopped doing it but can't help it sometimes. How do i quit?
The most important of all i have charco rednesss
down there from doing it too much how do i remove the redness?
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uh actualy people start from age 2 too age 30 so i thinkk you are fine


I got a body wave so now my bangs are a bit curly. I was wondering how I should wear my side bangs because I often just clip it back. I've tried straightening my bangs but you know, it sticks straight up or off my forehead. I don't like putting spray in my hair because then I get flakes when my hair is touched. So any tips on that would be helpful. How do I make my bangs look smooth instead of the whole dried/fried look. My face shape is between a diamond and oval. What kind of hairstyles would look good? Hair up, bangs up. Hats? Headbands? I feel as though it's not attractive on me. (link)
i think you should start wearing head bands all the girls at my school with your problem do


Alright so im 15/f, living in Southern NH, near Salem and Hudson. I really need a job! There's just too many things that I would like to buy, but don't have money for. My parents have 5 kids so it's hard for them to keep giving out money. If anyone could help me find a job perhaps in Hudson? Or near Pelham/Windham that would be greatly appreciated!
Or even job engines or whatever that work well.

Thanks soo much!! Sorry its a bit long! (link)
sorry but in LA you have to be 16 to work unless its lemonade stands and mowing lawns


how do people like save a video from youtube or something to their computer?

like how they make clips of different videos into one video? how do they do that? i only have windows movie maker so yeah can i use that? (link)
go out to walmart and try to find some sofware


Hello. I wanted to ask a pretty simple question. What does it mean when my friend, Cedar asked Alex if he liked me and he shoved her?? I would really really like to know.
Thank You.
Also he said to my friend Emily this..., "Im asking Savannah out in the near future (soon..)"
sooo yeah..
ST (link)
well if he does somthing like that i think he likes you


does anyone know of a sharing wedsite that has the string quartet tribut to the killer, like a forum or something where i can download these tracks. please dont say limewire or ares or anyother program cause they arent there, i need to get them online for free thx (link)
have you ever heard of this great site called...i dont know YOUTUBE


I had a question on here a few months ago about when my boyfriend cheated on me. I decided that it was best for us to call it quits officially and we haven't spoken since. However, he is best friends with my older brother. As far as i know they have never even talked about what happened and i assumed my brotherr would take my side on the whole thing but it seems tht he has decided to still act like nothing is wrong and nothing ever happened. Is this normal and i am just over reacting or should m brother be on my side about this whole thing? (link)
well it is good that he hasent broght anything up but if your boyfriend does he should defently take your side and if he doesnt...you could always send him to boardin school HAHAHA


I want to buy an Belly Button Ring off eBay

But it says:

Material: High Quality 316L Surgical Steel
Autoclave Safe? No

1) Whats surgical Steel?
2) What does Autoclave mean?

I'll give you a five even if you only answer one. It's appreciated! (link)
dont worry everything on ebay says stuff like that go ahead and buy it


Maybe I'm weird but I've heard people going "number 2" like 3 times a week or so. Is that healthy? I can't seem to do that. So i don't know if that's healthy or not. My metabolism is high.. My weight is average for my height and whatnot. I eat healthy and everything [fiber, blah blah] Is something wrong with me? I can't force myself to go because I've tried.. I only know when my stomach hurts.. so what is up with me? (link)
ok see this i had constipation i still have a little bit of it but i can still go 1 time a day (most of the time) but when i was constipated i was going 1 a week so maybe you should talk to your parents and go see a doctor cause it might just be constipation if you have never heard of constipation it is not bad your waste just gets backed up so go see a doctor and good luck

PS.if you have any other big problems please tell me cause i wake up in the middle of the night crying for no reason all the doctors think that i just have night mares but i dont know...well good luck


hey! could everyone reply with their favorite song? i would love to get some new music of any kind! thanks!!

some music i really like is- guster, t-pain, basshunter, mcfly

and i prefer male singers over female

=) thanks so much 15/f (link)
I love the band Nine Days they rock and then i like Vannessa Carlton and I like the song Beautifal by Cristina




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