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cheating boyfriend and over looking brother
I had a question on here a few months ago about when my boyfriend cheated on me. I decided that it was best for us to call it quits officially and we haven't spoken since. However, he is best friends with my older brother. As far as i know they have never even talked about what happened and i assumed my brotherr would take my side on the whole thing but it seems tht he has decided to still act like nothing is wrong and nothing ever happened. Is this normal and i am just over reacting or should m brother be on my side about this whole thing?
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Well, you can't really expect your brother to just stop a friendship with someone because you don't like him. Perhaps your brother just wants to stay out of the problems that you and his friend have had. But, if he does get dragged in, he should defend your honor, but he may also tell you that he isn't judging him the same way you are. As long as his friendship isn't interferring with you and your brother's relationship and you don't get put into situtions where you have to deal with your ex, I don't see a problem.
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You are not overreacting. You cared about your ex and you care about your brother. Your ex didn't care about you and you want to be sure your brother still does. Its hard for your brother. He doesn't wanna hurt you or his best friend. Even harder would be if he were forced to choose. By ignoring what happened he is saving himself from having to choose one. He's your brother and if you feel he would be on your side he probably is.
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well it is good that he hasent broght anything up but if your boyfriend does he should defently take your side and if he doesnt...you could always send him to boardin school HAHAHA
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