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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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if you had sex in a hot tub and there was a high level of chlorine in the hot tub but you're boyfriend cummed inside of you could you still get pregnant or is the chlorine still affective inside of you?

There is always a chance of pregnancy without a condom whether you were in water, on land, in a plane or in a ditch. Penis + Vagina + No Condom = Chance Of Pregnancy.

Don't freak yourself out though. It'll cause your period not to come & it'll scare you when it shouldn't. Wait for your period to come & if it doesn't, take a test.

Next time, get on birth control or a condom so that this doesn't happen again.

im 13. i love scary movies its mainly what i watch. i saw the scariest movie of the year just now. im so fuckin paranoid im shaking so badly i cant even see straight i dont wana be alone i think ill die tonight by rape or torture HOPEING NOT!. what can i do!?!

Unless the movie is based on a true story, there is no reason to be scared. It's just a movie, & none of that is going to happen to you.

When you watch a movie, keep the lights on & make sure there's something else you can do that keeps you in a good mood if that freaks you out too much.

So that site really works? It doesn't mess up your phone or anything? I have Verizon.

No. It doesn't mess up your phone. The only bad thing about it is that if you don't have texting or picture messaging, it probably won't work for you.

They have a special thing for Verizon users, so make sure you click the box!

What the heck is "Vans Warped Tour"
Who will be performing?

Thanks.

Vans Warped Tour is the greatest thing in the world. It's a concert that promotes bands, and Vans. A lot of bands [known & unknown] travel around to promote their music, their band & their albums to you.

The tickets usually sell for about 30 dollars UNLESS it is at an amusement park, then the tickets may be more if you wanna get into the park too. My ticket last year costed me about 50 dollars last year because I had it at an amusement park & went to the park too. However, buy your tickets ahead of time because it usually sells out. Also, bring money for merch & food.

The bad thing about the concert is that there are 5 stages & that no matter what stage you go to, you're bound to miss a band you like.

As for bands that are playing:
A Static Lullaby.
Agent Orange.
Alesana.
Alkaline Trio.
All Time Low.
Amber Pacific.
Anberlin.
As Cities Burn.
As I Lay Dying.
Bad Religion.
Bayside.
Biffy Clyro.
Big D And The Kids Table.
Bleed The Dream.
Bless The Fall.
Boys Like Girls.
Chiodos.
Circa Survive.
Coheed And Cambria.
Cute Is What We Aim For.
Drop Dead Gorgeous.
Escape The Fate.
Evaline.
Flogging Molly.
Gallows.
Haste The Day.
Hawthorne Heights.
Hot Rod Circuit.
I Am Ghost.
IainTerry Band.
K-OS.
Killswitch Engage.
Maylene And The Sons Of Disaster.
Meg And Dia.
My American Heart.
New Found Glory.
New Years Day.
Norma Jean.
Paramore.
Parkway Drive.
Pennywise.
Pepper.
Pistolita.
Play Radio Play.
Poison The Well.
Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
Scary Kids Scaring Kids.
So They Say.
Street Drum Corps.
Sum 41.
Supernova.
The Actual.
The Almost.
The Briggs.
The Confession.
The Dear And Departed.
The Fabulous Rudies.
The Fall Of Troy.
The Fold.
The Human Abstract.
The Matches.
The Rocket Summer.
The Spill Canvas.
The Unseen.
The Used.
The Vandals.
Throw The Fight.
Tiger Army.
Underoath.
Yellowcard.

If you need anymore information, visit the official website: www.warpedtour.com. If you do decide to go, have fun, you'll love it.

are there any sites where i can get free ringtones for my phone? im on a verizon plan right now and have a nokia cell phone.
thanks!

I use:

www.myxertones.com

Im curious if i need to buy tickets ahead of time or can i buy then there, by the way i am going to the one in chicago at first midwest amphatheater

You can buy them there, but Warped Tour usually sells out, so you should buy the tickets ahead of time.

Have fun! The show is amazing.

But just because its a song why is everybody always like ay bay bay. Its actually kind of annoying. Just wonderiing.

It's just a fun thing to do. Everyone does it, & there's nothing wrong with it.

When i'm in heat, the feeling that usually goes on in my pelvic area has changed..it used to be just kind of..pleasant? but now it feels good, but now it feels like menstrual cramps [im not on my period] without the throwing up feeling. and the feeling is lower. i have a feeling it's around my cervix, but idk for sure.

is that normal? should i talk to someone about this or just let it be?

If you're having pain while you're masturbating, then you need to stop masturbating & see a doctor right away. It might not be something bad, but never take that chance.

15/f

i'm kinda obbessed with khleo thomas [the kid from holes, zero] like i've watched holes 20ish or so times. i'm literally like inlove with him. no, obbessed, but whatever. its starting to like get annoying, like how do i stop?

It's fine.

Just stop watching the movie if it's getting out of hand for you. I don't blame you though. He's adorable.

a few questions

who all is playing?
are they good?
and is the concert good/worth the money?
and how much are tickets?

even if you can only answer one, it will be appreciated (:

thanks

I went to Warped Tour last year, and in the process met most of The Academy Is..., and Billy Talent. And I will be returning again this year because I loved it so much.

The concert is definitely worth the money that you pay & the tickets are usually round 30 bucks. If it's at an amusement park, the tickets might me a little more expensive if you'd like to go into the park too. Since the show has been at an amusement park for me, my ticket was 50 dollars.

I advise you bring more money the day of the concert for merch & food & things like that. The concert is a lot of fun, & there's lots of good music. The only bad thing about it is that there is 5 stages, and no matter which one you go to, you're bound to miss an artist that you like. Other than that, it's a great show & a lot of fun.

As for the bands playing:
A Static Lullaby.
Agent Orange.
Alesana.
Alkaline Trio.
All Time Low.
Amber Pacific.
Anberlin.
As Cities Burn.
As I Lay Dying.
Bad Religion.
Bayside.
Biffy Clyro.
Big D And The Kids Table.
Bleed The Dream.
Bless The Fall.
Boys Like Girls.
Chiodos.
Circa Survive.
Coheed And Cambria.
Cute Is What We Aim For.
Drop Dead Gorgeous.
Escape The Fate.
Evaline.
Flogging Molly.
Gallows.
Haste The Day.
Hawthorne Heights.
Hot Rod Circuit.
I Am Ghost.
IainTerry Band.
K-OS.
Killswitch Engage.
Maylene & The Sons Of Disaster.
Meg And Dia.
My American Heart.
New Found Glory.
New Years Day.
Norma Jean.
Paramore.
Parkway Drive.
Pennywise.
Pepper.
Pistolita.
Play Radio Play.
Poison The Well.
Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
Scary Kids Scaring Kids.
So They Say.
Street Drum Corps.
Sum 41.
Supernova.
The Acutal.
The Almost.
The Briggs.
The Confession.
The Dear And Departed.
The Fabulous Rudies.
The Fall Of Troy.
The Fold.
The Human Abstract.
The Matches.
The Rocket Summer.
The Spill Canvas.
The Unseen.
The Used.
The Vandals.
Throw The Fight.
Tiger Army.
Underoath.
Yellowcard.

If you need anymore information, check out the official site: www.warpedtour.com. If you decide to go, have fun. I'm sure you'll love it. I know I did.

okay. if a girl say like 13-14 was walking around where a lot of people are, say a carnival or fair. they said hi and waved like losers [haha] and were just trying to get people to say hi..what would you do if they said hi to you? me and my friends were doing it and 2 people said hi, one group gave us a dirty look, 1 person said bye and another person just looked at us..(they were around guys that 14-15) hah just want you opinion. thanks (:

Well, it all depends on the person you wave to.

I'm not a guy, nor am I 13, but if you waved to me, I'd either be like "Wtf?" or I'd wave back. I'm usually pretty silly, so I'd wave back.

But, not everyone will be that way. They'll either think you're flirting, or making fun of them, so it all depends on the person.

So I have an aunt, an uncle, and three cousins that moved out of state. It broke my heart when I first heard they were leaving, and I only get to see them once a year. I was so close to all of them, especially one cousin in particular. Let's call him A.

A and I have been like best friends ever since we met. We were close about everything, and had the kind of relationship where you could talk about everything together because we weren't afraid to. We trusted each other & have only fought ONCE! We have an incredible bond like no one else... nobody can ever break that bond.

Whenever we get together, it's never awkward between us. The Tom-Boy just comes right out in me and I love that. He brings out something in me, a side that no one else can bring out.

It's probably been about 2 or 3 years since they've moved and I've grown used to it. He's 12 and I'm 13. We're both at the age where we understand what's going on. We can only see each other once a year and it breaks my heart.

On a higher note, we've been communicating through e-mail which is great. It's so fantastic to still be talking to him even if it's not in person. It lets me know he's always there to talk to me even though he's 2 million miles away. :)

So my question is, how can I tell him I miss him without sounding all sappy and mushy?
We've never talked like that before.

Thanks!

When you're emailing each other, tell him "It sucks we can't see each more than just once a year. I really miss you!"

It sounds casually, & not at all sappy.

so i have a song stuck in my head and i have no idea what it is. but i like it.:] it goes something like...

Maybe weeee
why can't wee

& then after it might say ever seem to give it a another try.

idk i could be wrong with that last part.
but its a slow rock type song and it is sung by a guy if this helps.
but anything would help. please and thank you.

Writing On The Walls by Underoath.

Good song by an awesome band. =)

I have 2 best friends. Basically we all hang out together, but now that it's summer we all have separate things going on. So my friend, who i'll call P, has a very paranoid and overprotective mom, who i don't understand one bit. she let her go on a plane trip to a different state for a band trip, but won't let her go to the mall. the other night it was about 7:45 maybe 8:00 and we wanted to go see a movie but her mom said it was too late, but after she was gonna sleep over my house. so instead of a movie we wanted to practically walk up my street to get ice cream, so my friend HAD to call her mom to let her know so of course her mom said no b/c it was too late and was gonna be dark and she didn't want her walking home in the dark. so not only does she limit what she can do, but my other best friend and i. we're 15, and she'll be 15 in august. it's not like we're stupid girls who drink, do drugs/smoke, we're smart. we wouldnt leave each other in the middle of the road or something. her mom is so paranoid and my friend never opposes her mom. she's just like okay mom, instead of mom its not even dark out yet nothing is going to happen! if my mom was like that i'd be soo arguing her. should i talk to my friend about this and what should i do?? thanksss so much.

Although your friend's mother's behavior is a TAD rediculous, you can't get upset about it. Her mother has set rules for a reason, and doesn't want anything to happen to her daughter.

Sorry, but just because you're 15 doesn't mean that you're okay to walk the streets at night & do whatever you wanna do. Just because you don't drink, smoke or party, it doesn't mean anything.

Her mother has every reason in the world to be paranoid. I'm not sure if your friend is an only child, but if she is, that just adds on to her mother's worries.

First off, I can see her reason for saying no to both the movies and ice cream. Movies at night is no big deal, but waiting for your ride is. While waiting for a ride to come get you, you may be approached by somebody. Don't say "Oh, this will never happen to me. I live in a safe area." Safe area or not, it happens everywhere, so don't think it won't happen to you. It can happen to anyone & that includes you.

As for saying no about the ice cream, I can see her reasoning for that too. More than a few girls will be WANDERING the streets at night. Not only is that dangerous, but incredibly stupid. There is no need to walk -- get a ride. You'll be safer that way. No matter who you are, what your age is, or where you live, the chances of pedophiles & strangers approaching you is high, and you need to take these things into consideration before you step outside of your house; especially with someone else's kid.

If it really bothers you so much, talk to your friend about it & see what she has to say. If what her mother is doing doesn't bother her, then leave it alone & respect her mother's decision & stop complaining. I can see your reasons for being upset about this, but you must look at it from all viewpoints before you get upset & make judgements.

I like quotes and sayings and stuff a LOT...but i can't find any sites for them. ones like, "Hold me like I mean something, Kiss me like I don't." (i made that up!!) and emo ones, and love ones, and stuff like that. can you help?

I use:

www.wittyprofiles.com

It is the greatest site ever made.

i have been having a problem when i login into myspace. every time i log in it takes me right back to myspace home login page. it won`t let me get into my account or anything. i really need to check my myspace mail and stuff. can someone please oh please help me. i don`t know what i`m doing wrong or if something is wrong with my computer or even if something is wrong with myspace period. but i really need help bigg time.

thanks C:

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Have you been checking the address when it redirects you back to the MySpace Home Login? If you haven't, then it might not even be MySpace it's taking you back too.

Hackers use trick letters to make you think that it's MySapce you're logging into when it's actually not, & that is how they get your email & password.

Check the address. Hackers usually have the address as this: www.rnyspace.com because when you glance, the r&n together will look like an M. Make sure that it is indeed an M before you log back in.

If it really is MySpace, it may just be your cookies on the computer, so you should check that. If it's not your computer, it may be MySpace with the problem, so just wait a bit before you try again.

Hey there i was just wondering what can guys use to masterbate like what things around the house will give them pleasure or is there anything you can but or make?

I'm pretty sure that guys just use their hands.

Where can I get one of those things like where you put your name in a generator and it comes out with the letters of your name and each is a different letter from a different sign or graphic? I tried googling everything I could think of to find it and I couldn't get anything so just give me a website please!

I use this site for most of my MySpace needs:

http://www.freecodesource.com/index.php?page=myspacegenerators/index

I'm pretty positive it has the generator you're looking for!

my boyfriend and I are going to be cuddling up to a few movies tomorrow night and I just realized, I don't have popcorn. I don't have the money at this point to go buy a whole box for one night, does anyone know any good alternatives to eat during the movies?

i think i have some of the popcorn kernals, like, uncooked popcorn...how do you cook that right? it never works for me.

When I don't have popcorn, I usually use chips, and if I don't have that, then cereal it is.

I'm not even sure how to make popcorn that way, but I know there's some sort of machine that makes it. However, it's really old & probably expensive.

since about november of last year i started purging after i ate like everyday sometimes three times a day. i'm 5'5", 14 years old and 125 pounds last time i checked [it fluctuates a lot] but anyways lately i've only been purging like once a day because i start to feel bad and guilty about it. but then i feel guilty for eating and i feel fat all the time. if anything i try not to eat at all but i don't know. is this an eating disorder?

Yeah, it is. You're bulimic & you need to see a doctor because it sounds like it's getting out of hand, or it already has.

This is killing you everytime you do it [literally] so if you like your life, see a doctor.

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