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Okay so i meet this boy. And he came to my house meet my family. But prior to this. We had talked and i told him to just say he was 16. Well then he told my mom that he was 16 and wud be 17 on july 19th. Which happens to be today. Well i forgot that he was kidding, and i completely took him seriously. And then when i was like oh happy birthday .. he goes. megan, that was fake member? And im like.. ohhh yeah shoot. But i seriously forgot. So what do i do, tell my parents or let them think its his birthday. Like right now we really have something that will probably turn into a serious relationship. So like what if we are still together next year.. or on his REAL birthday. (march) what do i do? Tell my parents or no? -- I dont want them to think hes a liar. cuz he not. But we just didnt want my parents to be guy about it cuz im only 14. i'll be 15 in 6 days tho. (for real)
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Well, he is a liar. He did lie, right? You should have foreseen this problem. Just tell them the truth.
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Okay me n my boyfriend has been dating for almost 4 months and everything has been going good we have a couple of disagreements but who doesnt.. well a couple of weeks ago he got me a cell phone but i payed for it but its in his name and everyday he goes through it. people tell him that im messing around with other guys but how could i when im with him 24/7 well last nite my bestfriend who is a girl texted me stuff she didnt want anyone else knowing and he went to go through my phone and i took it from him. i knwo it looked as if i was hiding something but im not. now he thinks that im hiding stuff and im cheating so he doesnt want to tell me he loves me anymore intill i can change and get my priorities straight or however u spell it. and he doesnt knwo right now if we are gonna work things out he just always tells me i dont know i dont know.Please help me try to get my boyfriend not to break up with me im sorry its long. (link)
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He doesn't trust you. That's not your fault, it's his. If anyone should consider ending the relationship, it's you. Have a little self respect.
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theres this boy that i've liked for a long time but since i havent kissed a boy before he calls me prude and says he wont go out with me cuz of that. then he says well show me that you're not prude but i dont want to kiss/make out with him just to prove that to him but i really like him alot and i hate everyone calling me prude. what do i do?
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Why on earth would you like someone who said that?
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What does Hedonism mean? or What is it?...thanks! (link)
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The belief that pleasure is the highest good.
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Is soda good for you? I'm kind of addicted to it...Do you think I should stop? (link)
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Soda isn't terrible for you, but to drink it as though you're addicted isn't healthy. Keep everything in moderation and you should be fine.
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HAWT??? Man u r so STUPID! (link)
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Sorry. I didn't realize you were ugly too. You have my sympathy.
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My friend is Really weird..hes such a good guy..like he so sweet and caring and not to mention very good looking but he when i chill with him with my two other best friends he ignores me like im not even there and he flirts with them all the time, and like a week ago he called both of them to go on a boat but not me and he knows that the three of us are always together..but like the other day we were in the pool and it was the first day he actually payed attention to me and he told me to call him the next day but then he goes and hangs up and says hes gonna chill but doesnt pick up his fone or igonores our cals and everything. Also he goes and talks about one of my friends nd then hes the biggest flirt to her and ti makes no sense..what do u think about this guy? (link)
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It makes perfect sense.
Fact 1: It's very easy to act nice.
Fact 2: When it comes to someone you don't know very well, first judgements are often wrong.
Fact 3: Guys are generally there for themselves, despite what they try to get other's to think.
Just because he acts nice doesn't mean he is. I don't know him, so there's no way I can tell what type of a guy he really is. But given that being sweet and caring can be easily an act, I'm going to have to say him being a pig is definitely a possibility.
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how can i find the right girlfriend, without getting hurt like cheated on? (link)
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The only way to do that is to cheat on her first. If you cheat on her first and tell her, then she'll dump you without cheating on you. In short, there's no way you can truly know if someone is going to hurt you in a relationship until you are in the relationship.
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Ok, well i know i already asked a question kinda like this, but i dont think i expained it well enough. heres the whole story. well there's this one guy who i went out with last year, he was everything you would want in a boyfriend, sweet, sensitive, treated you really good, i mean in school once he had to write a paper on his favorite thing, he wrote it on me! aw, right? well, kinda. Every guy has his down side, his was he wasnt the "hottest" guy, well not even close. but that didnt really matter to me because looks dont really mean THAT much to me. everyone used to say how good i was for him, and how they wanted me to dump him. well we went out twice that year, he asked me out both times. but i ended up breaking up with him both times. i didnt break up with him because of what other people were saying though and not because he wasnt hott. i broke up with him the first time because everything was really messed up and it was the best thing to do, he understood. so we broke up. we go to differenent schools so it didnt work out all that great anyways. but he asked me out again. i said yeah. but i ended up breaking up with him because i guess a lot of his friends were telling him i was a whore and he would never stick up for me..kinda messed up right? well a lot of time has passed..almost a year..and he hates me now..for pretty much no reason. i mean we were ok after we broke up the second time but now..we're not. he HATES me. he calls me a cutter whenever i see him (i used to cut. but it really hurts when he says that.and he knows that. thats why he says it) he even hates anyone who hangs out with me..i think he changed. well my friends agree with me..because hes mean now. not sweet. i tried talking to him..friendly.but it just makes it worce..i wanna be friends with him though..he likes someone else though..i might kidna like him still..i REALLY dont know though. i just found out he may have been smoking pot. im really worried about him..what do i do? (link)
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Get over him, that's what you do. He doesn't like you, he doesn't like any of your friends, he makes fun of you, why in the Hell do you still like him? If it's because of how nice he was, you're right in that he's changed. People change all the time. A great friend can turn into a stranger in the span of a month or so. He's not who he used to be, and clinging onto who he was by trying to be involved with his affairs won't get you anywhere. And if he smokes pot, then he smokes pot. It's his decision and if he gets into trouble for it it's his problem. Not yours.
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Hey advice-giving people! I have this friend who acts like I should be devoted to him and I should have no other friends beside him since I've known him since pre-k. Ok, well, one of my other friends, Jessica, asked me to go to the beach with her and I said sure because well.. the beach ROCKS! But anyways.. We told John Ross (the obsessive friend) not to tell Brittany (our other friend) because we knew it would make her mad at us. Ok, well he went & told her & it made her mad. He's ALWAYS doing stuff like that. How do I tell him to shut the freak up without losing him as a friend? (link)
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Why on earth do you still tell him stuff like this if 'He's ALWAYS doing stuff like that'?
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To be honest with you I feel a bit unhappy generally. I don’t know why- ive always felt like this really. It comes and goes.
The only way I can explain it is I feel this kind of indifference to everything, like I don’t care about anything. Numb. And then all of a sudden I get incredibly upset and angry - i really feel for people and try and help them, and sometimes i think nasty things about people. I sometimes take it out on people im close to and then regret it and feel guilty. Its like im constantly frustrated, like there is something inside that I can’t resolve. I feel like there is a gap somewhere needing to be filled and my heart is heavy with sorrow for some strange reason! I just feel like im different to others and it weighs me down. Maybe someone out there understands and can offer advice? Im 29 years old.
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Well, you are different. It sounds like you're clinically depressed. You can't think of a solid reason you feel this way, so maybe it's a chemical imbalance inside you. Since you can't resolve it, maybe you need help from someone who specializes in that area.
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watdoes it mean to eat a girl out? (link)
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cannibalism
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masturbate???? (link)
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Anyone who answers this is a fool.
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I am a 17 year old girl and I just made a huge mistake. I have a boyfriend, but this other guy has been hitting on me, flirting like crazy... and last night I gave in. It was only a few kisses, nothing at all really. But I feel really guilty. He said he won't tell my boyfriend because he knows I still love him. But what do I do? I really do love my boyfriend, this was just a one night slipup... if I tell my boyfriend I'll probably get dumped, if I don't I feel guilty... but I'll still be with him which is the desired outcome. What do I do?
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It depends on how important honesty is to you. If he kissed another girl, would you want him to tell you or keep it from you? If you would feel you have a right to know, then you have to tell him.
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alriight well i have this best friend, hes a guy, im a girl. we've been best friend for a pretty long time. i guess you could say were not your ordinary guy and girl friendship. we sit with each other at lunch, we call each other alot, we hang out every other weekend or so, we tell each other everything, etc. Well, yeah you know how i said i sit with him at lunch. well we whisper, like mostly whenever we talk we whisper, just because, we dont know why. well anyway i sit next to him and were always whispering and stuff. and the one day i was tired and i was resting my head and he put his arms around me and started shaking me.. then the one day they tried to stick pizza in my face and they know i dont like eating lunch, so i tried to like get up from the table but his shoulder was in the way so i ended up throwing myself over his shoulder and i just laid there and then i got off.. and then he was like, im not feelin to good and i was like.. ew throw up that way and hes like, ill be fine let me use your arm as a pillow, and he layed on my arm but then he got up like 10 seconds later.. alriight so i guess my question is, are we really flirting? my friend keeps saying that we would be really sweet together and even my teacher think were going out.. because this one time my math and science teacher were talking and he was whispering to me and he said something weird so i straightened up and looked at him with a suprised face and slapped him lightly on the shoulder and he started laughing and pulled me back down so he could finish and i looked over at my teachers and my science teacher looked at us all weird and my math teacher said something to her and she was like, "aw".. it was really weird.. well anyway are we really flirting?
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Well... yeah.
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Ok...not to be nasty or anything but girls get there periods and they can have babies, boys get ______ and they can jack off. Whats missing? (link)
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horny
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ok well i have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart and then i have this guy friend that i like ONLY as a friend but see the thing is HE LOVES ME and he is always telling that he wishes i was with him and that he would treat me right. i know he would but he isnt my type of guy. his looks arent the best and i know looks arent everything because he is a great guy but i just cant see myself with him. i have tryed tellign him but it is still the samething . he always says o i wish i was ur boyfriend i know i would treat you right. can someone plz help me!! sometimes he makes me feel like i am a bad person and make me hate myself because i cant choice the right guy to go out with.:'( (link)
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If he really was a great guy, he'd accept the fact that you don't feel the same way.
This guy sounds like he is definitely becoming a problem. Don't worry about whether-or-not you made the right decision in choosing a guy, you definitely did. If he really valued your friendship, he would accept that you don't have feelings for him. Not only did you tell him you didn't feel the same way, but you're in a relationship.
I'm afraid you're going to have to be harsh with him. If you're worried about hurting his feelings, take into account that he's not even considering yours right now. All of this is just to get what he wants, he's ignoring the fact that you're already in a happy relationship.
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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?
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Yeah, give him a firm no. Guys are horny, it's science. If him saying he respects your wishes because he loves you, you don't know guys very well. If he wants more reasons, he's desperate for sex. If he says he respects your wishes to wait because he "loves you", then turns around and requests sex again, it's because he's desperate for sex. If he repeatedly asks, it's because he's desperate for sex. If he doesn't actually make any actions leading to sex, it's because he's smart. These aren't mixed signals, they're pretty... unmixed. He's desperate for sex, but it seems like he's not going to try anything without your permission. It's as simple as that.
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i need to write a poem for my creative writing class. it can be about anything in the whole world. but, the thing is, is that i can't just write a poem off the top of my head like that. is anyone here really good at poetry that can make one for me real quick? it doesnt have to be long, but at least 10 lines, and it can be about anything at all. i really need help on this, ive been trying to think of something for the past hour. thanks so much!! (link)
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blah blah something fear
something something tear
yadda yadda yadda cry
something else, blah die
something something bread
something something dead
something something fled
something something said
blah blah hate
blah blah fate
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Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!! (link)
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Haven't you tried leaving the house? If you're stuck there babysitting your brother, stop having your boyfriend over at that time.
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