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Hater.?
Ok, well i know i already asked a question kinda like this, but i dont think i expained it well enough. heres the whole story. well there's this one guy who i went out with last year, he was everything you would want in a boyfriend, sweet, sensitive, treated you really good, i mean in school once he had to write a paper on his favorite thing, he wrote it on me! aw, right? well, kinda. Every guy has his down side, his was he wasnt the "hottest" guy, well not even close. but that didnt really matter to me because looks dont really mean THAT much to me. everyone used to say how good i was for him, and how they wanted me to dump him. well we went out twice that year, he asked me out both times. but i ended up breaking up with him both times. i didnt break up with him because of what other people were saying though and not because he wasnt hott. i broke up with him the first time because everything was really messed up and it was the best thing to do, he understood. so we broke up. we go to differenent schools so it didnt work out all that great anyways. but he asked me out again. i said yeah. but i ended up breaking up with him because i guess a lot of his friends were telling him i was a whore and he would never stick up for me..kinda messed up right? well a lot of time has passed..almost a year..and he hates me now..for pretty much no reason. i mean we were ok after we broke up the second time but now..we're not. he HATES me. he calls me a cutter whenever i see him (i used to cut. but it really hurts when he says that.and he knows that. thats why he says it) he even hates anyone who hangs out with me..i think he changed. well my friends agree with me..because hes mean now. not sweet. i tried talking to him..friendly.but it just makes it worce..i wanna be friends with him though..he likes someone else though..i might kidna like him still..i REALLY dont know though. i just found out he may have been smoking pot. im really worried about him..what do i do?
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Baby let this one go. It sounds like you broke his little puppy love heart and now he's got no love for you. I mean if he's calling you names and being mean- why would you want him back? It is nice when someone likes you and you know they are always there - and then when they just totally freak and hate you - well that feels really bad and you want it back the way it was - but you didn't want him then. It's just the rejection button he's pushing that makes you think you might kinda like him now. Remember - the opposite of love is not hate - it's not caring either way - so if he hates you - well you have a hold on him. And aren't you glad you don't have to be miserable like that? And if he's smoking pot - there is really nothing you can do about it. He's gotta go this road. And why are you cutting yourself? What is up with teenage girls today? You are going to have scars that you will so regret later. Talk to someone - anyone - email me - do anything before you hurt your own body....please!!!
But back to him - leave him alone. Just ignore it. He probably likes that he gets the attention from hating you - or supposedly hating you. Just let it go. Trust me - you don't like him - you just don't like to be rejected and by someone who obviously had a big 'thing' for you in the past. It was like a past relationship I had. I was ready to break up with this guy and then he did it first!!! I was like what the hell just happened? And then, the rejection button was pushed and all the sudden I just wanted him back - and all I did was dump him in the end anyway.
Don't be fooled! Move on baby.
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ive been in your situation..kind of. ya see i hated the guy first and broek it off and then he turned sour..i think because of me..BUT he started taking it over the edge like really mean comments and i wasnt saying anything about him..anyway seeing as he really doesnt want to talk to yooou,i have one question..are you friends with any of hiiiis friends? id so, talk to his friends ands say "hey talk to <the guy> for me please!" and tell them the situation (unless they already know it) and if fire is still burning between you2, maybe you should break it off for good. you are obviously more mature than he is and if you have tried to put out the fire and has just added to it, well than hunny he can cry about it. let him pout and about your better than that! dont let him pull you down to his low. good luck!
luv, xoxo Christine
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Get over him, that's what you do. He doesn't like you, he doesn't like any of your friends, he makes fun of you, why in the Hell do you still like him? If it's because of how nice he was, you're right in that he's changed. People change all the time. A great friend can turn into a stranger in the span of a month or so. He's not who he used to be, and clinging onto who he was by trying to be involved with his affairs won't get you anywhere. And if he smokes pot, then he smokes pot. It's his decision and if he gets into trouble for it it's his problem. Not yours.
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