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Question Posted Saturday July 9 2005, 7:16 pm

My friend is Really weird..hes such a good guy..like he so sweet and caring and not to mention very good looking but he when i chill with him with my two other best friends he ignores me like im not even there and he flirts with them all the time, and like a week ago he called both of them to go on a boat but not me and he knows that the three of us are always together..but like the other day we were in the pool and it was the first day he actually payed attention to me and he told me to call him the next day but then he goes and hangs up and says hes gonna chill but doesnt pick up his fone or igonores our cals and everything. Also he goes and talks about one of my friends nd then hes the biggest flirt to her and ti makes no sense..what do u think about this guy?

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crazyoutyamind answered Saturday July 9 2005, 9:37 pm:
ok i know you like him and all but it sounds like this guy is a player i mean if you were to ever go out with him you would proble end up getting hurt! i think that you should just stay friends with him and if he blows you off ne more you need to ask him what is the deel if he wants to be your friend or not? well i hope i helped plz rate me and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox

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hayo answered Saturday July 9 2005, 9:32 pm:
he proably likes one of your friends so he might be trying to hook up with them alone so he can ask her out that might be why he is not hanging out wit you i hope i helped plz rate me

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Christine13 answered Saturday July 9 2005, 7:53 pm:
wow i know a guy exactly like that! uuh men...such weirdos. listen...you are so much better than he is. if he wants your friends so0o much well he can have them. i bet he has problems and such and you will be too busy with hunks of your own to even realize he wants attention..which he seems to really really want! maybe he is jealous of you or...i hate to break it to you..maybe he just wants your friends. well you dont need him!! he seems like scum. dont get involved belive me..it will be the best thing you can do..why i bet he will come crawling to you when all the other girls get tired of him. dont fall for it. if this happens be like "ohkay call me we'll chill" roll your eyes and walk away. if the moron calls do exactly what he did to you. or if you have a big heart..be nice to him. make freidns of your enemies..but not too close friends.. actually how about you are "aquaintences." you know..."friends" who only tend to wave at eachother in the hall way :)

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Razhie answered Saturday July 9 2005, 7:44 pm:
Relax. Let it go.

They guy couldn't have been that interested. Or maybe he is just a jerk. Or maybe he is just helplessly in love with you and afriad to say anything.

You really don't know, and he is clearly not worth your stressing.

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storageanddisposal answered Saturday July 9 2005, 7:36 pm:
It makes perfect sense.

Fact 1: It's very easy to act nice.

Fact 2: When it comes to someone you don't know very well, first judgements are often wrong.

Fact 3: Guys are generally there for themselves, despite what they try to get other's to think.

Just because he acts nice doesn't mean he is. I don't know him, so there's no way I can tell what type of a guy he really is. But given that being sweet and caring can be easily an act, I'm going to have to say him being a pig is definitely a possibility.

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