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ok well i have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart and then i have this guy friend that i like ONLY as a friend but see the thing is HE LOVES ME and he is always telling that he wishes i was with him and that he would treat me right. i know he would but he isnt my type of guy. his looks arent the best and i know looks arent everything because he is a great guy but i just cant see myself with him. i have tryed tellign him but it is still the samething . he always says o i wish i was ur boyfriend i know i would treat you right. can someone plz help me!! sometimes he makes me feel like i am a bad person and make me hate myself because i cant choice the right guy to go out with.:'(
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I had the same exact problem as you if you ignore him might leave you alone or just try to get him alone and tell him but dont be to mean about it just say that your a great guy but i have someone i love with all my heart and i won't give him up unless something happens. Then if one of you breaks up with each other take a little time to think about and if you want go out with the guy that likes you even if he doesn't have looks he treats you right!
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If he really was a great guy, he'd accept the fact that you don't feel the same way.
This guy sounds like he is definitely becoming a problem. Don't worry about whether-or-not you made the right decision in choosing a guy, you definitely did. If he really valued your friendship, he would accept that you don't have feelings for him. Not only did you tell him you didn't feel the same way, but you're in a relationship.
I'm afraid you're going to have to be harsh with him. If you're worried about hurting his feelings, take into account that he's not even considering yours right now. All of this is just to get what he wants, he's ignoring the fact that you're already in a happy relationship.
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Aww honey you dont deserve that. i know exactly how that feels. Just tell him youre sorry. Also tell him, that you cant be with someoen thats trying to break up the relationship b/w u and your boyfriend by making you feel bad, and that hes not really a good friend for doing what hes doing. i know you dont wanna break his heart..:(;; Maybe help him find a girl, and tell him to be confident and stuff. Ahh..grr..love, whats the point of it. Alright well try telling him u just wanna be friends i guess, im sorry. Good luck <33 drop one in my inbox if you need any other help. =)
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